More feedback on dining alone:

I really appreciated your article about solo dining. I started dining alone in college – 'cause friends would rather save what spare cash we’d have for clubs or bars. While I also enjoyed those establishments with friends…I wanted to eat food that didn’t come from campus or a fast-food joint everyday. That is when I started going to sushi restaurants, Vietnamese spots, and oyster bars alone. Friends thought I was crazy, because they knew me as a chatterbox and a sorority brat. But, what I learned 10 years ago that many people might never get to learn, is having a true sense of confidence and enjoyment in being alone where most people don’t have the nerve. Like your article, I think dining alone can be very satisfying and entertaining. Thanks for writing about a topic that relates so well to me! I was beginning to think I was crazy. Last month, I left my new baby daughter with my husband and went out for a drink and appetizers while I read a book!--Jane

Laura, finally an article about this. I love dining alone. In fact, though happily married, I would fly to New York for three days of wonderful restaurants, theater, and concerts. I savored Danube with the Klimts surrounding me and endless courses (and waiters) with the chef's tasting menu. I'll never forget the pan-seared halibut in a puree of cauliflower and white truffle at Picholine or the dish of lobster done three ways at Cello on the Eastside. Sometimes I'll take a book or magaizine, but as you suggest, I love just people-watching as well as simply concentrating on the great food!--Tom in St. Pete Beach

I love eating alone and do it regularly. I've traveled all over the world alone too, so it was the natural thing to do. I was always treated with special attention. Even locally in Tampa Bay, I have my favorite restaurants I eat at often. I tip very well, get to know the owners and staff on a first name basis, and they are always happy to see me. I find the whole experience delightful. Thanks for a great article, but there is a positive spin on it to. Lots of folks like me out there.--Elisa Abolafia

Just a short note to thank you for your article on solo dining in today's St. Pete Times.  It was most interesting--I am often a solo diner when I travel--and it was the first time that I had read something on the topic with such a light-hearted combination of affirmation and practicality.--Ray Luck