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AUGUST 21, 2008

How to make working from home work for moms

With gas prices throwing the family budget for a loop, more workers are pressuring their bosses to give telecommuting a try. Reporter Dalia Colon did a great package for tbt* on how to convince your boss it can work, with some tips from experienced home workers and some tools of the trade.

For Mommas, the idea of working from home seems ideal, but be careful what you wish for. Working from home is not a substitute for child care. I work at home a few hours a day several days a week and can tell you that I get a lot more done in the office than I do at home, where I am subject to constant interruptions. Ironically, a lot of dads I know rave about working at home, that they get so much MORE done because they don't have co-workers stopping by to chat. I have a suspicion that kids are more willing to interrupt mom's phone calls than dad's.

When my kids were little, I usually saved work time for later at night or napMom_workinbed  time since you can't let a toddler roam the house unattended. That means you can't really count on when you'll have time for work if you have a troublesome sleeper, a nap-fighter or a sick child in need of attention.

Now that the kids are school age, it's much easier, but we still had to set some ground rules. If I have the doors to the office open, they are free to come find me. But if I have an important phone call, the French doors are closed and they can see I'm on the phone and know that unless they are bleeding, they are going to have to wait a few minutes.

I also made the deal with them that when I hold up one finger to indicate, "I see you, but hold on a minute," that I truly will be with them in just a moment. I usually tell my caller, "Can you hold on for just a moment," and I find out what the child needs and can usually take care of the problem or question quickly.

Veteran home worker Asha Dornfest of Parent Hacks did a terrific piece earlier this year about how to fit working at home into your family life. And the blog Web Worker Daily also had some good tips on how to manage kids in the home office.

-- Sharon Kennedy Wynne

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Sharon Kennedy Wynne has sunscreen in her blood. She may have been born in Buffalo but she got here as fast as she could, in time for kindergarten. She grew up in St. Petersburg, graduated from the University of Florida journalism school, and even got married at Sunken Gardens. She's one of the few adults we know who actually loves taking her kids to the beach. She has two sons and with 10 years of parenting under her belt, she's starting to feel a little less out of her league. She comes from a large family and loves to debate, so brace yourself when the hot topics come up.

E-mail Sharon Kennedy Wynne:
wynne@tampabay.com

SP_255665_CROS_KATE.jpgAfter six long years of trying to have a baby, Kate Brassfield was finally able to have one. And then, two minutes later, another one. Suddenly the lady who had never been around babies before was juggling two! Just as Kate felt she was getting pretty good with babies, the girls became toddlers, and now Kate is back to Square One, learning about the care and feeding of these strange, wonderful creatures. She spends her days working part-time from home and trying to keep up with the Twinosaurus Wrecks.

E-mail Kate Brassfield:
katedaphne17@gmail.com

Freelance writer Courtney Cairns Pastor wasn’t so sure about having kids and how she would balance child-rearing with her journalism career. It turned out that her journalism training went to good use. As the mom to a funny, active toddler, she learned to handle him like she did her sources. Never ask yes or no questions (the answer will always be no), get him to be specific (are you crying because you’re wet or your tooth hurts?) and be prepared for anything because no two days are the same. When she’s not playing trucks, Courtney crams for her book club, trains for races and occasionally bursts into showtunes. E-mail her at courtneyblogs@gmail.com.

Suzannah DiMarzio has it bad for the Mouse. Although she grew up outside of Boston, she took her degree in tourism management down to Orlando just to work at Disney and the travel industry. Of course, when she married her high school sweetheart, the reception was at Disney. She’s now a seasoned stay-at-home mom to two tweens and a toddler – and yes, that is as crazy as it sounds. Suzannah has her own blog, ZannaLand.com , and she's a member of the Walt Disney World Moms Panel in addition to being addicted to Twitter, iced coffee, and watching way too much Yo, Gabba Gabba.

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