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DECEMBER 01, 2008

Update: Finding the right formula to supplement breastmilk

36679828 After much trial and error, I have found an infant formula that my 9-month-old daughter will drink. It's soy-based and apparently is pleasing enough to her little palate that she downs bottle after bottle.

This little supplementing conundrum truly took a village to solve. Some of you may recall my recent cry for help. Many thanks to everyone who gave me advice.

I've been eating oatmeal, pumping and trying to rest. Still, there's been no flood. I think my primary problem is that I've been back at work for five months now and pumping every two hours to get my production back on track is just not going to happen. And, my pump -– even though it's a Medela double pump –- seems less and less effective every day. Although I'm not giving up on myself, I'm glad to have found a supplement that works.

I must admit the glee of solving this issue is tempered by the recent news that the FDA has found trace elements of melamine, an industrial chemical, in U.S. infant formula. FDA officials say parents shouldn't fret. The melamine was not intentionally put into the formula as it was by manufacturers in China, where four babies died and tens of thousands became ill. And in the U.S.-made formula, the chemical is present in such small amounts that it shouldn't harm children, FDA officials said. One official said taking infants off formula would be a "dangerous overreaction." Dubious? The agency has devoted an entire Web page to the issue.

So, yes, this is one more reason I am a proponent of breastfeeding for as long as possible. Man-made food –- whether it's infant formula or preservative-laced food –- can be dangerous. But as my recent dry spell has proven, sometimes, despite our best intentions,  the body does not cooperate and parents have to find ways to deal.

Now Mommas, lets not judge each other. This is not a battle of breastfeeders versus formula feeders. Let's all agree to keep an eye out -- on the FDA, on formula makers, toy companies, doctors and anybody else whose products or hands come in contact with children. When we work together, we all win.

-- Sherri Day

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Sharon Kennedy Wynne has sunscreen in her blood. She may have been born in Buffalo but she got here as fast as she could, in time for kindergarten. She grew up in St. Petersburg, graduated from the University of Florida journalism school, and even got married at Sunken Gardens. She's one of the few adults we know who actually loves taking her kids to the beach. She has two sons and with 10 years of parenting under her belt, she's starting to feel a little less out of her league. She comes from a large family and loves to debate, so brace yourself when the hot topics come up.

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SP_255665_CROS_KATE.jpgAfter six long years of trying to have a baby, Kate Brassfield was finally able to have one. And then, two minutes later, another one. Suddenly the lady who had never been around babies before was juggling two! Just as Kate felt she was getting pretty good with babies, the girls became toddlers, and now Kate is back to Square One, learning about the care and feeding of these strange, wonderful creatures. She spends her days working part-time from home and trying to keep up with the Twinosaurus Wrecks.

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Freelance writer Courtney Cairns Pastor wasn’t so sure about having kids and how she would balance child-rearing with her journalism career. It turned out that her journalism training went to good use. As the mom to a funny, active toddler, she learned to handle him like she did her sources. Never ask yes or no questions (the answer will always be no), get him to be specific (are you crying because you’re wet or your tooth hurts?) and be prepared for anything because no two days are the same. When she’s not playing trucks, Courtney crams for her book club, trains for races and occasionally bursts into showtunes. E-mail her at courtneyblogs@gmail.com.

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