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JANUARY 18, 2012

Should parents pay for school cutbacks?

schoolboy500.jpgThe middle school my child attends has a cooking class with no money for groceries, so the teacher puts out a regular plea for donations. She'll need $1,000 to do all the lessons she'd like to teach on making healthy meals. My third grader's teacher has a classroom with no pencil sharpener. Hers broke and when she asked the school's maintenance department to replace it she was told there are none in the supply closet and none are coming in this cash-strapped budget year.

I know a lot of parents who give generously to their school's supply funds. They know they are getting a bargain with a "free" public school when it's a good one. But many resent the idea of being hit up to supply paper, toner and pencils for a class that has none.

How do you feel about being asked to donate basics instead of the extras needed in your child's classroom? And rather than just griping about it, what's the solution?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne ... Read more

NOVEMBER 15, 2011

Give food, get circus tickets or toddler play date

elephant.jpgWhile it's always good to donate when you can, there's some perks for donating food this month. On Thursday, if you donate some food, you get circus tickets. Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus is collecting food for Metropolitan Ministries on Thursday.  A donation of 10 nonperishable, unexpired food items earns a ticket voucher for the 7:30 p.m. Jan. 4 opening night circus performance. Limit four tickets per household. Parking is available on the circle drive at the St. Pete Times Forum. Drop off the food from 10 a.m. to noon Thursday at the St. Pete Times Forum 401 Channelside Drive. ... Read more

OCTOBER 08, 2010

Make your own 'instant oatmeal'

oatmeal.JPGMy friend Astrid, who does the marvelously creative blog Lunches Fit For a Kid, has once again come up with a genius idea: do it yourself instant oatmeal. Her daughter loves oatmeal for breakfast.  But even though her mom is a fabulous cook, she says, "She doesn't like honest-to-goodness cooked on the stove, old fashioned oatmeal.  No matter how much maple and brown sugar I put in it.  Nope."  She only likes instant oatmeal, and that gets expensive.

So, Astrid decided to see how homemade instant oatmeal works out. She reports great success, and the possibilities are endless. She also sneaks in a serving of flax seed meal, which is a great source of antioxidants and Omega-3, an essential fatty acid. You can add nuts, maple syrup, peanut butter, diced apples, anything you feel like and none of the processed and expensive fake food in the bargain. Here's her recipe: ... Read more

SEPTEMBER 07, 2010

How to combat school fundraiser fatigue

Just like we complain that the Christmas decorations come out earlier every year in stores, the same is true of the school fundraisers. The mom_schoolfundraiser.jpgminute that first bell rings, the race is on get your kid's coupon book or catalogue or chocolate bars on the market before your neighbors or co-workers flood the 'hood with fundraisers of their own. In my family, you can practically hear the tires squealing as we try to be the first to arrive at soft-touch Grandma's house. And it's not just school, it's soccer teams and preschools and the band boosters and Boy Scouts.

Even though we all know the schools or the sports clubs need the money, I can't help but sense we are also sick of it. Should we blame ourselves for not pressing our legislators to fully fund our schools? Should we blame the fundraising companies for filling the need that parents are too busy to do themselves? ... Read more

MAY 18, 2010

Allowance poll

Piggy_bank Let's take an allowance poll. Do your kids get an allowance and if so, how much? Do you tie it to chores? Some warn against this, because chores are something we all do as members of the household. No one pays mom to load the dishwasher. This blogger suggests tying it to financial chores, such as using it to pay for entertainment and other extras. ... Read more

MARCH 27, 2010

When life gives you a surplus of strawberries ...

... make jam. Or something else berrylicious. Strawberries360 ... Read more

FEBRUARY 01, 2010

Sad clown alert! Parents now pulling back from big blowout kid birthday parties

Tears of a clown
Poor Ooopsy the Clown. In 2008 she took in $126,000 playing kids' birthday parties in South Florida. Last year Ooopsy, aka Amy Tinoco, saw her income drop to $80,000.

"It's a huge difference," she told the Associated Press. "I have a lot of people telling me they are having a party, they are just not having entertainment and catering." ... Read more

JANUARY 05, 2010

A gift for December babies

Mom_turbotax We told you about TurboTax’s Cutest Little Tax Deduction contest that awards one lucky baby born in December 2009 $5,000. But we want to celebrate those local newborns with another little gift -- a TurboTax romper. ... Read more

DECEMBER 31, 2009

What happens when you do all of your Christmas shopping from infomercials

If one of your New Year’s resolutions is to save money, then please let my Christmas be an inspiration to you. It seems our family got the lion’s share of “As Seen on TV” products, and while some of them delivered as much entertainment as their commercials, others were gag gifts in the literal sense.

Mom_snuggie The Snuggie: A cheesy airline blanket, but an airline blanket WITH ARMS. Still a cheesy airline blanket. I give it two thumbs down -- but you can actually see that because my hands are sticking out of this cheesy airline blanket. ... Read more

DECEMBER 15, 2009

"Cutest Tax Deduction" Contest for December babies

Mom_babyboy In addition to that new little bundle of joy born this month, how about a bundle of cash?And no, Kourtney Kardashian, you should not enter.

TurboTax is sponsoring its third annual “Cutest Last-Minute Tax Deduction” contest which allows parents of babies born from Dec. 1-31to submit their baby’s picture for a chance to win $5,000. Read about the details and directions for submissions here. ... Read more

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THE AUTHORS

Sharon Kennedy Wynne has sunscreen in her blood. She may have been born in Buffalo but she got here as fast as she could, in time for kindergarten. She grew up in St. Petersburg, graduated from the University of Florida journalism school, and even got married at Sunken Gardens. She's one of the few adults we know who actually loves taking her kids to the beach. She has two sons and with 10 years of parenting under her belt, she's starting to feel a little less out of her league. She comes from a large family and loves to debate, so brace yourself when the hot topics come up.

E-mail Sharon Kennedy Wynne:
wynne@tampabay.com

SP_255665_CROS_KATE.jpgAfter six long years of trying to have a baby, Kate Brassfield was finally able to have one. And then, two minutes later, another one. Suddenly the lady who had never been around babies before was juggling two! Just as Kate felt she was getting pretty good with babies, the girls became toddlers, and now Kate is back to Square One, learning about the care and feeding of these strange, wonderful creatures. She spends her days working part-time from home and trying to keep up with the Twinosaurus Wrecks.

E-mail Kate Brassfield:
katedaphne17@gmail.com

Freelance writer Courtney Cairns Pastor wasn’t so sure about having kids and how she would balance child-rearing with her journalism career. It turned out that her journalism training went to good use. As the mom to a funny, active toddler, she learned to handle him like she did her sources. Never ask yes or no questions (the answer will always be no), get him to be specific (are you crying because you’re wet or your tooth hurts?) and be prepared for anything because no two days are the same. When she’s not playing trucks, Courtney crams for her book club, trains for races and occasionally bursts into showtunes. E-mail her at courtneyblogs@gmail.com.

Suzannah DiMarzio has it bad for the Mouse. Although she grew up outside of Boston, she took her degree in tourism management down to Orlando just to work at Disney and the travel industry. Of course, when she married her high school sweetheart, the reception was at Disney. She’s now a seasoned stay-at-home mom to two tweens and a toddler – and yes, that is as crazy as it sounds. Suzannah has her own blog, ZannaLand.com , and she's a member of the Walt Disney World Moms Panel in addition to being addicted to Twitter, iced coffee, and watching way too much Yo, Gabba Gabba.

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