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DECEMBER 13, 2010

Milestones you'd rather forget

When you have a baby or young child in the house, it's hard not to get excited about the milestones. First smile, first step, first words. As each milestone occurs, we rush to the baby book (or, for those with multiples or just many) the calendar, to mark the date for posterity. First haircut, first pair of shoes. Even when the little darlings get bigger, the milestones don't go away, they just get bigger too. First dance, first date, first day of high school, driver's license, first job.

But, there are some milestones we don't put in the baby book too. We don't need a baby book; some thing are burned into our brains forever. Here are some milestones we don't look forward to:

* At first, baby's diaper's didn't even stink! How sweet is that? But then came baby's first diaper blowout. Nevermind.
* Awwww! Baby found her nose! Eiwww, baby picks her nose.
* A little spit-up is no biggie; every baby has a wet burp now and then. But baby's first projectile vomit is in a whole new category of yuck. ... Read more

DECEMBER 09, 2010

Some tips for when kids are in the hospital

Happy news: The Little Koala was released from the hospital after four days. It took her -- and the whole family -- somewhat longer to completely shake The Crud that was stalking us. But it is wonderful to all be under the same roof again.

Unfortunately for the Koala, this was not her first time in the hospital. Not by a long shot. In her first six months of life, she had four hospital stays. The first was two months long, the second was about three days, the third about ten days, and the fourth nearly a month (and over Christmas, alas). It is stressful and scary to have a little one in "the big house," as we called it. Getting information is crucial: It is much easier to be calm when you understand what's happening and why. And a calm and supportive family is crucial for the little one who's ailing.

Here are a few tips for communicating with the medical team caring for your child. They are all things my husband and I learned from experience. ... Read more

OCTOBER 11, 2010

Synthetic marijuana sold at convenience stores

fakepot.jpgI'm sure I'm not the only one feeling like an out of touch old fogey today after reading this  eye-opening story by my colleague Rodney Thrash that many convenience stores sell synthetic marijuana under the brand names Spice, K2 Red Magic, Red Dragon, Diesel, Serenity and Blueberry Meditation.

It's strong, as accessible as soda pop, and it's legal.

I've long thought we had a dysfunctional drug policy in this country and now it seems the laboratories that cook up pills and fake pot are the ones launching another front. It's no longer some shady drug dealer in the backwoods we have to keep our eyes out for.

There are laws being drafted now to outlaw the synthetic weed, but one of the stores that sells it offers another point of view: ... Read more

AUGUST 13, 2010

Protecting your student athlete's teeth -- for free!

If your child plays sports, then you know one of the things to do for them is protect them with the right safety equipment. And while pads andmom_mouthguards1.jpg other equipment are important, it's also a good idea to find a mouth guard that works for them. There may be a one-fits-all version out there but the folks at Orthodontic Specialists of Florida want to help by fitting your middle or high school athlete with a free, custom-fitted mouth guard. Yes, that's right -- FREE! ... Read more

AUGUST 04, 2010

On the road doesn't just mean fast food

mom_healthysnacks.jpgA road trip doesn’t necessarily mean you have to take an unhealthy detour with your family’s diet.

I love family road trips, but I do not particularly love the dining choices on the Interstate. Fast-food, drive-thrus, and gas station vending machines don’t always offer the most healthy choices, but with a little planning you don’t have to let good eating habits go on vacation, too.

1. The cooler is your best friend. I love a well-stocked cooler on a road trip -- it is my number one weapon against the siren call of the squawk box of a drive-thru. We keep healthy snacks -- pre-approved by kids taste buds -- and lots of cold water packed inside. Keep it in the car rather than the trunk for easy reaching. ... Read more

JULY 30, 2010

Healthy eating now considered a mental disorder

mom_eatrightblog.jpgAccording to this report in The Guardian newspaper and echoed on several online sites recently, eating healthy is now considered a mental disorder among some psychologists.

Orthrexia nervosa, which is Latin for “nervous about correct eating,” is a term coined by a California doctor and used to describe individuals who "can be overweight or look normal. They are solely concerned with the quality of the food they put in their bodies, refining and restricting their diets according to their personal understanding of which foods are truly 'pure'." ... Read more

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THE AUTHORS

Sharon Kennedy Wynne has sunscreen in her blood. She may have been born in Buffalo but she got here as fast as she could, in time for kindergarten. She grew up in St. Petersburg, graduated from the University of Florida journalism school, and even got married at Sunken Gardens. She's one of the few adults we know who actually loves taking her kids to the beach. She has two sons and with 10 years of parenting under her belt, she's starting to feel a little less out of her league. She comes from a large family and loves to debate, so brace yourself when the hot topics come up.

E-mail Sharon Kennedy Wynne:
wynne@tampabay.com

SP_255665_CROS_KATE.jpgAfter six long years of trying to have a baby, Kate Brassfield was finally able to have one. And then, two minutes later, another one. Suddenly the lady who had never been around babies before was juggling two! Just as Kate felt she was getting pretty good with babies, the girls became toddlers, and now Kate is back to Square One, learning about the care and feeding of these strange, wonderful creatures. She spends her days working part-time from home and trying to keep up with the Twinosaurus Wrecks.

E-mail Kate Brassfield:
katedaphne17@gmail.com

Freelance writer Courtney Cairns Pastor wasn’t so sure about having kids and how she would balance child-rearing with her journalism career. It turned out that her journalism training went to good use. As the mom to a funny, active toddler, she learned to handle him like she did her sources. Never ask yes or no questions (the answer will always be no), get him to be specific (are you crying because you’re wet or your tooth hurts?) and be prepared for anything because no two days are the same. When she’s not playing trucks, Courtney crams for her book club, trains for races and occasionally bursts into showtunes. E-mail her at courtneyblogs@gmail.com.

Suzannah DiMarzio has it bad for the Mouse. Although she grew up outside of Boston, she took her degree in tourism management down to Orlando just to work at Disney and the travel industry. Of course, when she married her high school sweetheart, the reception was at Disney. She’s now a seasoned stay-at-home mom to two tweens and a toddler – and yes, that is as crazy as it sounds. Suzannah has her own blog, ZannaLand.com , and she's a member of the Walt Disney World Moms Panel in addition to being addicted to Twitter, iced coffee, and watching way too much Yo, Gabba Gabba.

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