Tampabay.com

NOVEMBER 13, 2008

Bulletin: New, expectant parents having less sex!

Babycenter.com, the parenting Web site, has just released a survey on the sex Mom_knockedup_2 lives of new and exepectant parents. The results probably won't surprise busy Mommas and tired dads. More than 5,000 new and expectant parents said that they are still having sex, but compared to a similar survey in 2003, they are getting it on a lot less often.

What's really interesting about the results is how men and women differ on what's going on in the bedroom. When asked how pregnancy had changed their sex lives, 42 percent of women said that their bedrooms are as G-rated as a 1950's sitcom, while 38 percent of men feel the same way. (Not sure if men are more satisfied or just more deluded.) The survey added that 34 percent of all respondents said that their desire for sex fell during pregnancy.

And like Seth Rogen in Knocked Up, men worried more about having sex during pregnancy because they thought the baby would feel it -- 38 percent of dads vs. 27 percent of Mommas.

Finally, parents were asked: If it's Saturday night and the kids are asleep, what would you rather do? Seventy percent said get some sleep or watch TV or a movie. Only 18 percent said they would be knocking boots. Five years ago, about 27 percent said they would rather be under the sheets -- but even then, sleep (32 percent) won out!

A couples' therapist named Jonathan Rosenfeld blamed the failing economy: "Worrying about how you're going to keep your job and pay your bills doesn't put you in a sexy frame of mind."

One more thing to blame on the failing econcomy. Check out all the survey results including a bit of happy news in all the gloom.

-- Sherry Robinson

[Photo: That's Katherine Heigl and Seth Rogen getting the "good" news about her pregnancy in Knocked Up.]

Join the discussion: Click to view comments, add yours
Loading...

About the bloggers

Raising children isn't easy. Whoa, Momma! is here to help you with parenting tips and discussion of all parenting issues. We think there's no such thing as TMI, so our blogging moms aren't shy about the hot topics and won't back away from a good debate. Bottle or breastfeed? Public, private or homeschool? And sex -- it's all open for comment. Don't sit on the sidelines -- pull up a bouncy seat and join the chat.

Meet the authors

Email us ideas you'd like us to write about.

Advertisement

Advertisement

Video

THE AUTHORS

Sharon Kennedy Wynne has sunscreen in her blood. She may have been born in Buffalo but she got here as fast as she could, in time for kindergarten. She grew up in St. Petersburg, graduated from the University of Florida journalism school, and even got married at Sunken Gardens. She's one of the few adults we know who actually loves taking her kids to the beach. She has two sons and with 10 years of parenting under her belt, she's starting to feel a little less out of her league. She comes from a large family and loves to debate, so brace yourself when the hot topics come up.

E-mail Sharon Kennedy Wynne:
wynne@tampabay.com

SP_255665_CROS_KATE.jpgAfter six long years of trying to have a baby, Kate Brassfield was finally able to have one. And then, two minutes later, another one. Suddenly the lady who had never been around babies before was juggling two! Just as Kate felt she was getting pretty good with babies, the girls became toddlers, and now Kate is back to Square One, learning about the care and feeding of these strange, wonderful creatures. She spends her days working part-time from home and trying to keep up with the Twinosaurus Wrecks.

E-mail Kate Brassfield:
katedaphne17@gmail.com

Freelance writer Courtney Cairns Pastor wasn’t so sure about having kids and how she would balance child-rearing with her journalism career. It turned out that her journalism training went to good use. As the mom to a funny, active toddler, she learned to handle him like she did her sources. Never ask yes or no questions (the answer will always be no), get him to be specific (are you crying because you’re wet or your tooth hurts?) and be prepared for anything because no two days are the same. When she’s not playing trucks, Courtney crams for her book club, trains for races and occasionally bursts into showtunes. E-mail her at courtneyblogs@gmail.com.

Suzannah DiMarzio has it bad for the Mouse. Although she grew up outside of Boston, she took her degree in tourism management down to Orlando just to work at Disney and the travel industry. Of course, when she married her high school sweetheart, the reception was at Disney. She’s now a seasoned stay-at-home mom to two tweens and a toddler – and yes, that is as crazy as it sounds. Suzannah has her own blog, ZannaLand.com , and she's a member of the Walt Disney World Moms Panel in addition to being addicted to Twitter, iced coffee, and watching way too much Yo, Gabba Gabba.

Registration FAQ

Read our Frequently Asked Questions on how to register to comment on the site.