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FEBRUARY 06, 2012

For bullies: Tattling hurts, telling helps

blanco.jpgIt was interesting to read this interview  with author and activist Jodee Blanco who travels the country helping schools deal with bullies and the bullied. Having been a bullied child herself, she has a unique perspective on the issues. And she's especially wary of zero tolerance policies because the bullies know that the victim can't fight back because they'll both get in trouble.

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JANUARY 27, 2012

Choosing kindergarten: where do you start?

back2school.jpgI thought choosing a day care was tough. I wanted the best -- safety, creative and caring teachers, stimulating environment. But I also had to be able to afford it. Finding a place that satisfied all of the above took a lot of research, visits, interviews and pro-and-con lists.

Now I’d like to just hide out there forever. Kindergarten? Huh? Did someone say something?

It’s the time of year that parents start scouting out the perfect fit for kindergarten class. Hillsborough County just posted its kindergarten round-up schedule, the dates and times next month where you can visit a school and learn about registration. Pinellas County has been hosting its “discovery nights” at elementary schools since October. ... Read more

JANUARY 18, 2012

Should parents pay for school cutbacks?

schoolboy500.jpgThe middle school my child attends has a cooking class with no money for groceries, so the teacher puts out a regular plea for donations. She'll need $1,000 to do all the lessons she'd like to teach on making healthy meals. My third grader's teacher has a classroom with no pencil sharpener. Hers broke and when she asked the school's maintenance department to replace it she was told there are none in the supply closet and none are coming in this cash-strapped budget year.

I know a lot of parents who give generously to their school's supply funds. They know they are getting a bargain with a "free" public school when it's a good one. But many resent the idea of being hit up to supply paper, toner and pencils for a class that has none.

How do you feel about being asked to donate basics instead of the extras needed in your child's classroom? And rather than just griping about it, what's the solution?

--Sharon Kennedy Wynne ... Read more

NOVEMBER 18, 2011

Does Hooters have a place in school?

hooters.jpgOur colleague Ron Matus has a story today about a mom upset because a Hooters waitress talked to her son's sixth grade class for the Great American Teach In. She was wearing sweatpants instead of those tiny orange shorts, but the mom still didn't like the idea. Other schools have had similar dustups, such as fundraisers at Hooters, that have been frowned on as an inappropriate venue. Earlier this year parenting blogs were debating a Baltimore school that took 8th graders to a Hooter's for lunch while on a field trip. ... Read more

NOVEMBER 13, 2011

Go ahead, do the Great American Teach In

teach-in.jpgFirefighters, dog trainers, cake decorators,  wrestlers, basketball coaches and more will fill classrooms this week for the annual Great American Teach-In. I'll be there, will you?

Parents and community members will be the classrooms on Wednesday in Pasco County and Thursday in Pinellas and Hillsborough counties to share their work, hobbies and life experiences with students. They'll talk about what they do and also how school got them there and the components of their success. It's a good way to show kids where education can take you, but it's also a good way for parents to appreciate what teachers do.

The first time I did it eight years ago, I came home with even greater respect for teachers, if that's possible. First of all, it's hard to talk about anything for more than five minutes, so you need to be prepared. An easy out is to give them your story and then take questions. But be prepared for questions that have NOTHING to do with what you talked about. ... Read more

OCTOBER 06, 2011

Does Box Tops for Education promote junk food?

boxtop.jpgOur friend and former colleague Dalia Colon has another interesting story over on HealthyState.org, about the hugely successful Box Tops for Education program. Started  in 1996, it has contributed about $400 million to American schools. I will admit if I have two cake mixes to choose from, I'll pick the one with box top because I see how much my son's school has gotten from it.

But does it encourage families to buy junk food? Box Tops started with General Mills cereals and has expanded to include more than 200 food and non-food products, from Green Giant broccoli to Bisquick baking mix to Hi-Liter markers.  But, as the story notes, many of the participating products are far from a health teacher’s dream: Betty Crocker SuperMoist cake mixes, Cocoa Puffs Brownie Crunch, Pillsbury Big Deluxe Cookies, Spider-Man Fruit Flavored Shapes.  ... Read more

SEPTEMBER 08, 2011

Should parents feel the sting of cuts as much as teachers?

schoolboy500.jpgOur friends at the Gradebook blog have an interesting story on the issue of teachers forced to take unpaid furloughs to make up for budget shortfalls. The teachers union in Pasco County has thrown up the idea that at least one of the district's mandatory unpaid leave days should take place on a school day. That way budget cuts affect kids and parents too, and not just employees. If it falls on a Wednesday, parents will have to take a day off work or get a sitter and then maybe they'll feel the same pain as the teachers and speak up when it comes to school funding. But if they make the furlough day Dec. 22, it will simply be one more day in the winter break and will go by unnoticed.

I gotta say, I kind of like this. Even though, as a working mom, this would cost me a huge amount of hassle, maybe that's a good thing. If a teacher is taking an unpaid day of work, maybe I should feel a little more discomfort when the school is closed so that these school budget talks hit closer to home. ... Read more

SEPTEMBER 06, 2011

Tea Party civics class for kids

Our colleague Marlene Sokol reports here that the Saturday morning civics classes for children were such a hit this past summer, that there will be October sessions of its Tampa Liberty School in Carrollwood and Brandon.

"The school is dedicated to educating, enlightening, and exciting the youth of America, as to the fundamental principles and beliefs on which this country was founded," the notice said.

Will we start seeing civics as a new trend among politically minded parents?

Civics is a hot topic these days. Just last year the Florida Legislature passed a law that required civics education in middle schools. The kids have to take a civics course and pass a standardized test about what they’ve learned before they can go on to high school. I have to say, my middle schooler loved his civics class last year. It was by far his favorite. ... Read more

AUGUST 30, 2011

What school supplies do you love (or hate)?

trapper.jpgNow that we are all up to our ears in school stuff and still making last-minute runs to fill up on supplies (No pronged notebooks available in a 50-mile radius? Really?) it got me nostalgic for my old Trapper Keeper and wondering what school supplies have landed on your must list, or your must-destroy list.

So let's break it down to Stuff We Love and Stuff We Hate. Let me get the debate started:

Stuff I Love

crayons.jpgCrayola sent me a box of their new school innovations to test out and the one my son's third-grade teacher loves is their Dry Erase Crayons. This is a great innovation because it seems like every teacher these days is begging for extra dry erase markers. They lose their caps, the ink dries out and the teacher sometimes digs into her own pocket to replenish the supply thanks to school budget cuts. These babies work on dry erase boards, they don't smell and they don't run out of ink! It's $3.99 for a pack of 8. ... Read more

AUGUST 26, 2011

Huge review shoots down vaccine-autism link

needle.jpgMedical writer Letitia Stein reports here that a new report, the largest such study to date, looked into adverse reactions possibly associated with eight vaccines and the panel's findings add to a growing body of scientific literature refuting the claim that the measles-mumps-rubella (MMR) vaccine is associated with autism.

Think that settles it? Not on your life.

The number of Florida kindergarten students receiving "religious exemptions" to avoid state-required immunizations has climbed nearly 12-fold since 1991, Stein reports. Experts believe that for many parents, the real objection is not religion, but fear of rumored vaccine adverse effects, especially autism. ... Read more

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THE AUTHORS

Sharon Kennedy Wynne has sunscreen in her blood. She may have been born in Buffalo but she got here as fast as she could, in time for kindergarten. She grew up in St. Petersburg, graduated from the University of Florida journalism school, and even got married at Sunken Gardens. She's one of the few adults we know who actually loves taking her kids to the beach. She has two sons and with 10 years of parenting under her belt, she's starting to feel a little less out of her league. She comes from a large family and loves to debate, so brace yourself when the hot topics come up.

E-mail Sharon Kennedy Wynne:
wynne@tampabay.com

SP_255665_CROS_KATE.jpgAfter six long years of trying to have a baby, Kate Brassfield was finally able to have one. And then, two minutes later, another one. Suddenly the lady who had never been around babies before was juggling two! Just as Kate felt she was getting pretty good with babies, the girls became toddlers, and now Kate is back to Square One, learning about the care and feeding of these strange, wonderful creatures. She spends her days working part-time from home and trying to keep up with the Twinosaurus Wrecks.

E-mail Kate Brassfield:
katedaphne17@gmail.com

Freelance writer Courtney Cairns Pastor wasn’t so sure about having kids and how she would balance child-rearing with her journalism career. It turned out that her journalism training went to good use. As the mom to a funny, active toddler, she learned to handle him like she did her sources. Never ask yes or no questions (the answer will always be no), get him to be specific (are you crying because you’re wet or your tooth hurts?) and be prepared for anything because no two days are the same. When she’s not playing trucks, Courtney crams for her book club, trains for races and occasionally bursts into showtunes. E-mail her at courtneyblogs@gmail.com.

Suzannah DiMarzio has it bad for the Mouse. Although she grew up outside of Boston, she took her degree in tourism management down to Orlando just to work at Disney and the travel industry. Of course, when she married her high school sweetheart, the reception was at Disney. She’s now a seasoned stay-at-home mom to two tweens and a toddler – and yes, that is as crazy as it sounds. Suzannah has her own blog, ZannaLand.com , and she's a member of the Walt Disney World Moms Panel in addition to being addicted to Twitter, iced coffee, and watching way too much Yo, Gabba Gabba.

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