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Everyone wants to help 'The Girl in the Window'

By Mike Wilson, Times Staff Writer
In print: Sunday, August 10, 2008


While watching an educational video, Dani, 9, bats at a string of plastic beads that she swings from her toes. Experts said that due to a lack of socialization and stimulation the first three years of her life, she developed “environmental autism.”
While watching an educational video, Dani, 9, bats at a string of plastic beads that she swings from her toes.  Experts said that due to a lack of socialization and stimulation the first three years of her life, she developed “environmental autism.”
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Dani, 9, has a new family now, and a new chance at life thanks to her brother Willie, 10, and parents Diane and Bernie Lierow. They have moved out of Florida.
[MELISSA LYTTLE | Times]
Dani, 9, has a new family now, and a new chance at life thanks to her brother Willie, 10, and parents Diane and Bernie Lierow. They have moved out of Florida.

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"The Girl in the Window," the story of a horrifically neglected child who was rescued by the authorities and adopted by a family in Fort Myers, has drawn an outpouring of calls, e-mails and offers of help from readers here and around the world.

The story of Danielle Lierow, known as the feral child, was published on the Times Web site, tampabay.com, on Aug. 1, and in print last Sunday. The Web presentation has received nearly a half-million page views, a record for the site, with almost 1,000 readers leaving comments. More than 500 have sent e-mails.

"I was shocked by Dani's story, uplifted by her adoption by the Lierows," Rachel Silver wrote. "Even though I'm an agnostic, I kept muttering, 'God BLESS them!' "

The story, by writer Lane DeGregory and photographer Melissa Lyttle, raised questions about language and laws and love. It made people suspect their neighbors and hug their kids and, most of all, want to help.

"You gave us something to think about," reader Susanne Whelan wrote. "We all must keep our eyes open and report things that are not right."

"The Girl in the Window" was linked on a blog for moms in South Africa, on a forum for gamers playing Battlefield 2, on a site for fans of the TV show Firefly. It was featured on fark, on facebook, on digg and on softballfans.com.

The Heart Gallery of Tampa Bay, which found an adoptive family for Danielle, is receiving 2,000 hits a day on its Web site, up from the usual 500, said Carolyn Eastman of the Children's Board of Hillsborough County. The Heart Gallery has also received 100 e-mails and 80 phone calls from people commenting on the story or inquiring about adopting a child.

In Tampa, a company called Grafx Design has created a site for Danielle, www.danisstory.org. Built with the cooperation of the Heart Gallery and Danielle's adoptive parents, it allows readers to make donations through PayPal to support the girl's on­going care and therapy.

• • •

"The Girl in the Window" begins in 2005, when a fragile, haunted child was discovered in a closet-sized room in a filthy house in Plant City, covered with roach bites and wearing only a dripping diaper, unable to speak or make eye contact.

Doctors concluded that years of neglect had interrupted the girl's development, leaving little hope that she will ever talk or live independently.

The story traced Danielle's journey from the detective who took her away, through her stay at the hospital, her travels through foster homes, into the loving home of Bernie and Diane Lierow of Fort Myers. And it introduced readers to Danielle's birth mother, Michelle Crockett, who was later prosecuted for neglect.

"That something like this could happen in 21st century America is astonishing," Michael Jefferson wrote to the Times from Warrenton, Va.

Many calls have gone directly to child welfare workers.

"We are hearing from human service providers who are getting calls from citizens who want to report suspected child abuse, citizens who want to advocate for stricter consequences for convicted child abusers, local counselors who are having child abuse victims who are now adults come forward for help," wrote Eastman of the Children's Board.

Most people who wrote to the Times wanted to help Dani. The family's former bank in Fort Myers set up a fund for donations (see box for address).

"I would like to have some money out of our retirement go directly to Danielle's parents to help with whatever is necessary," Cynthia Jennings wrote from Tampa. "I too was adopted by wonderful parents."

Other media clamored to meet Dani. Inside Edition called the detective; a writer for a British women's magazine wants to see her; book publishers, movie makers, everyone wants to share her story.

Someone is writing a song for her. Someone is sending her presents.

• • •

"It's been real wild," said Bernie Lierow, Dani's new dad who adopted her last year. The Children's Board is forwarding messages to him and his wife. "We've been getting calls from all sorts of people."

Dani is 9 now, out of diapers and able to feed herself. She still walks on her tiptoes and she can't brush her teeth. But she can hold the dog's leash. She'll sit still, watching cartoons, for half-hour stretches. She likes pink dresses and books about puppies and Beatles music. She understands almost everything. And she's starting to say a few words: "More" and "now."

In June, Dani moved with her new parents and 10-year-old brother, William, from their home in Fort Myers to another state where Bernie works in remodeling. (They asked that the place be kept private.)

They have a nice house on an acre, Bernie said, with a tree fort and swing set. William has his own room, filled with pirate posters and his pet parrot. Dani's trundle is still covered with Hello Kitty sheets, near the window in her new room.

She is taking speech therapy and will soon be starting horseback riding therapy. She's signed up for the Special Olympics, and next week, her folks are taking her to her first county fair.

"She's just doing real good," Bernie said. "Every day, it seems, there's something new."

Last week, she really startled him — and gave him hope. They were in the kitchen, and he was trying to brush her hair, which she hates. She pulled back from him and blurted something that sounded like, "I'm outta here!"

Bernie doesn't think it was an accident.

"As soon as she said it, she split."

Mike Wilson can be reached at mike@sptimes.com or (727) 892-2924. Lane DeGregory contributed to this report and can be reached at degregory@sptimes.com or (727) 893-8825.

See, hear more

Read "The Girl in the Window," and see a multi­media presentation about Dani's development, her caregivers and her birth mother, at magazine.tampabay.com.


How to help

The Lierow family's former bank has established a fund where donations for Dani can be sent. The address is: Danielle Lierow, c/o Mr. Doy McPhail, Wachovia Bank, 7128 Estero Blvd., Fort Myers Beach, FL 33931.

Donations can also be made through the Web site www.danisstory.org; these go directly into Dani's account, according to her father, Bernie Lierow.

• For information on adoption in Hillsborough County: (813) 229-2884; www.HeartGalleryTampaBay.org.

• In Pinellas/Pasco: (727) 456-0637; www.HeartGalleryKids.org.

• If you can't adopt, but want to help foster children in Pinellas or Pasco: (727) 824-0863; www.projectpatchwork.org.

• In Hillsborough: (813) 651-3150; sylviathomascenter.org.


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Comments on this article
by Liz Aug 15, 2008 2:35 PM
Robin, you have no idea what it is like to take care of a special needs child, especially one with any form of autism. The speech therapists, the physical therapist...any assistance they get, I assure you doesn't cover the costs of raising Dani.
by Lilly Aug 14, 2008 7:27 PM
Robin, your comment is very insensitive. Do you really think Social Security, an Adoption Stipend & Medicaid is enough to pay this little girl back for the life she's lost, or to her Parents that will spend God knows how much to help her recover?
by Robin Aug 14, 2008 3:17 PM
I really enjoyed the story, but I would like to note that the family receives social security for Dani, plus they receive adoption assistance subsidy, which I am sure that they get the maximum amount allowable, plus they receive a medicaid card.
by Gary Aug 14, 2008 8:35 AM
My wife Sandra & I adopted two children, brother and sister when they were 11 and 12. Our lives have never been the same. We have 3 raised children with their own families. We enjoy our adopted kids greatly and would not think of being without them
by Gary Aug 13, 2008 5:43 PM
I encourage anyone to adopt a needy child in foster care. My wife and I did and it has been our greatest blessing. We adopted after raising three kids of our own. Open your heart and home and you will be forever blessed by God.
by Jan Aug 13, 2008 2:04 PM
Let us hope to someday read the follow-up story that tells how Dani has overcome her early neglect, gone on to thrive and blossom, perhaps even go to college! Don't judge her wretched birth mother too harshly. With a 75 IQ, she is to be pitied.
by Nicole Aug 13, 2008 12:05 PM
If Michelle (the birth "mother") had treated her dog in this manner, authorities would have IMMEDIATELY removed the dog from her home AND put her in jail. It's a sad commentary on our country's priorities.
by David Aug 13, 2008 12:05 PM
I cried with happiness and sadness everytime I read this story and its follow-ups. This my third time. It does make me want to adopt a needy child, something I never remotely concidered before.
by Karen Aug 13, 2008 12:05 PM
The Lierows will be richly blessed for all they're doing for Danielle. It's wonderful to hear of her progress and of the all the love and support she is receiving from her family.
by jan Aug 13, 2008 11:02 AM
it is true......there are angels amongst us.....a family of angels saved another angel. The human spirit will never die totally in this little angel, and her new family will instill their love in her. God bless this entire family.
by Sandy Aug 13, 2008 10:11 AM
My husband and I read the story of Dani. It is heartbreaking that a child would be treated like this. Thank God for the Police Officer finding her in that filthy closet. May God bless everyone involved and our best to Dani and he family. We love Dani
by cindy Aug 12, 2008 9:03 PM
May God Bless this family who will love and protect her!! Her biological mother is very very sick and needs desperate help! May each day become brighter for Dani.
by cindy Aug 12, 2008 9:02 PM
May God Bless this family who will love and protect her!! Her biological mother is very very sick and needs desperate help! May each day become brighter for Dani.
by Elizabeth Aug 12, 2008 8:43 PM
A horrifying story. The Mother, the brothers need to be put in a psychiatric hospital. I was hoping for a happy ending to this heartbreaking story and it seems there is one with this new family she is now with. God Bless them. God Bless Dani.
by BJ Aug 12, 2008 8:40 PM
I, too read Dani's story in the Sunday paper...then I wanted to make sure I got the next 2 installments. I am still shocked that this little girl was treated worse than an animal. Send her parent & adult brothers to prison for a LIFE sentence.
by ken Aug 12, 2008 7:49 PM
This is a classic example of the failure of the protective services in Florida. It deserves NAyional exposure, and maybe someone can make changes. God bless Dani. The birth mother is now supported by our tax dollars. Shame on Florida.
by june h Aug 12, 2008 6:08 PM
I read Dani's story this past Sunday and couln't wait to read the next 2 parts. I was so shocked, upset and outraged that a baby/child could be treated so inhumane. The birth mother and the 2 brothers need to be locked up.
by angie Aug 12, 2008 5:14 PM
I think this family is deserving of having a new home! I say we all send xtreme makeover a few applications and see what we can do for them! They truely are a gift from GOD and will be blessed. http://abc.go.com/primetime/xtremehome/index?pn=apply
by Ruth Aug 12, 2008 4:57 PM
I have been following Dani`s story in the Columbus Dispatch.Words cannot express my outrage towards that evil woman who calls herself "mother", and the judicial system that let her off with no prison time. God bless that child and her new family.
by Leslita Aug 12, 2008 4:56 PM
I first read this story in the Columbus Dispatch. I was, sad, upset all at the same time. I wanted to stop reading it but I wanted to read the end to make sure it had a good ending. I read the article on how she is doing now and I am so happy.
by Mac Aug 12, 2008 3:38 PM
I was deeply moved by the news of Dani and will have here name added to the prayer list at my church. We will pray for growth and healing.
by Jan Aug 12, 2008 1:20 PM
Our charity is called Blooming Place for Kids, we do a summer program for children who have been neglected and abused! THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR CHILD ABUSE IN THIS COUNTRY! Please, lets rally together and PROTECT our precious children whatever it costs
by Tom Aug 12, 2008 11:28 AM
In my 32 years as a Police Officer,I thought I had seen it all. This is,by far,the worst.I've got to wonder how anyone could possibly do this to their child and then have the nerve to expect anyone to understand. Jail is too good for this monster.
by Patty Aug 12, 2008 11:28 AM
The family needs a real bedroom for their son. Hopefully, some people in the area can come together and take care of that. Their son has been very giving in a difficult situation.
by Ted Aug 12, 2008 11:28 AM
I too have read the very touching story in the Columbus Dispatch.And as a Father i cannot beleive this precious little Girl was raised like a neglected animal.I Praise her adoptive family for the gift of a good family.God Bless i wish Dani the Best!
by sandi Aug 12, 2008 9:36 AM
the birth mother should be behind bars. there is no excuse for this little girl being treated like an animal or monster that cannot learn. even mentally challenged individuals are capable of learning. jail time and not probation is recommended
by Roxanne Aug 12, 2008 9:36 AM
I think the natural mother should have gave up custody and went to jail for life.It's a crime ,she got off too easy.
by Lori Aug 12, 2008 9:36 AM
I read this article in the Columbus Dispatch and I can NOT stop thinking about Danielle and her new family and that sick depraved person that gave birth 2her. I could go on and on and on, but I will only say I am praying 4Dani and her new family =)
by Gloria Aug 12, 2008 9:36 AM
I am SHOCKED that the court system allowed a plea bargin for the mother! The court had the authority and duty to remove all parental rights from the mother and still give her the 20 yrs she was facing!What about the justice for Dani? Wheres the dad?
by Janet Aug 12, 2008 9:36 AM
It is a tradegy that we spend 3 times more money on abused animals than on abused children and women. We should be ashamed of ourselves. The story makes reference to Danielle's brothers....Dear God tell me they removed them from the home.
by Stacy Aug 11, 2008 7:04 PM
what kind of parents could be so cruel they need to be put in a cage at the zoo and let america see what type of animals they are why have a child if your gonna treat her like a dog even dogs get better treatment then that God bless little Daniel
by Stacy Aug 11, 2008 7:03 PM
I know Gods angels really intervened in Daniels situation it was a miricle that she was even found alive I thank God for people to care enough to call the athorities Little Daniel will forever be in my prayers I know she will be ok I have faith
by Claire Aug 11, 2008 3:05 PM
I commented on this before. how horrific the whole thing is. How great the adoptive family is. Now I think we must all worry about Jean and someone suggest where he,she needs to go for help.
by shaina Aug 11, 2008 12:17 PM
I had to read this story out loud 2x's to my fiance', he is blind. We are absoloutly amazed at adani's accomplishments. I so happy she has a family like the Lierows. Her mom needs to wear and over soiled diaper, have roaches bite her and lock her up
by grace Aug 11, 2008 12:17 PM
thank you for a very well-written story about such a wonderful family, with hope for dani. i am thankful for the sensitivity shown in the story...for dani and those around her. may God bless all of you.
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