A: or will say in response to a proposal. Stay out of it and let them figure it out.
Q: my husband still has a great job, so I'm fortunately not destitute).
My life is still quite full — friends, family, involvement with a community organization, etc. — but most of it is stuff I want to do, versus have to do, so I feel a little self-conscious talking about my day when my husband gets home from a grueling 10-hour workday and starts doing household chores. Until I have a better job again, how can I avoid feeling so useless?