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Better Times : James Dolan, left, his wife, Chrissy, and their son, J.T., are joined by Ty Pennington, host of Extreme Makeover: Home Edition, and a mass of neighbors and friends as they arrive at their new home in March 2005. The family’s problems, including Jamie’s poor health, were compounded by the higher taxes, insurance and utility costs brought on by living in their new, larger home.
jamie Dolan arrives at a Starbucks clutching his wife's arm and the first thing you notice is he seems fragile, weighted, broken. His left eye is covered with a patch; his fingernails are long. Four years ago, a gunman walked into the Gateway Mall RadioShack where Dolan worked and started shooting. Three people died, including the shooter. One bullet traveled into Dolan's temple and took out both his eyes.
The community rallied around the young husband and father of three. The television show Extreme Makeover: Home Edition built him a 3,500-square-foot home. The episode ended with a joyful, overwhelmed Dolan surrounded by family, cheered by his neighbors, optimistic about the future.
But he is no longer the man you saw on the show. Since then, the Dolans have almost lost the house, and the community donations are long spent.
"We had to borrow from everyone we knew to keep food on the table for the kids," Dolan says at Starbucks, surrounded by his four attorneys.
He has learned to live in darkness, but he struggles with an enemy as unexpected as the gunman:
His insurance company.
As he talks, he starts to perspire and breathe heavily. He clenches and unclenches his fists. He feels the familiar pain as it travels up his arm, mimicking a heart attack.
His wife whispers in his ear. They get up and head to the bathroom.
It's another panic attack. He is used to them by now.
• • •
Because Jamie, now 34, was injured on the job, the family will depend on workers' compensation insurance for the rest of his life, unless he can work again. Liberty Mutual, RadioShack's provider, covers his medical costs and 66 percent of his former pay — about $1,300 a month.
The Dolans have fought with Liberty Mutual for three years. Jamie and Christina say the battle has been as difficult as dealing with his blindness.
Until recently the company wouldn't pay for Christina to care for Jamie — even though a doctor ordered a caregiver and the law requires it. Liberty Mutual even ignored a judge's order to do so.
It took the company four months to approve his visits to a psychiatrist, even though he had gone to the emergency room with symptoms of a heart attack and been diagnosed with panic attacks. Company representatives tried to send him to job interviews, even after the psychiatrist diagnosed him with post-traumatic stress disorder and panic attacks.
In depositions and testimony filed with Jamie's workers' compensation case, the insurance company has said Christina turned down benefits. She denies this. Later, the company said the couple didn't need them.
Patricia Rose Richert, a Liberty case manager, visited Jamie in his home a few months after the shooting. He could get around the house, eat and was able to take a shower.
"He was able to get his basic needs," Richert said in court documents.
The company believes Jamie Dolan should be living and traveling independently.
"A lot of blind people do," Liberty adjuster Mendi Benbrahim said during a hearing last January.
On Friday, exhausted and fed up, the Dolans filed a lawsuit against the insurance company for the emotional distress caused by years of wrangling over benefits.
Jamie's lawyers say he is an example of the struggles injured workers face getting help since the Legislature drastically cut lawyer fees in 2003.
Consider a case now before the Florida Supreme Court. A lawyer hired to handle an injured nursing assistant's claim was paid $650 for 80 hours of work. (The Dolans' workers' compensation lawyer, Brenda Furlow, has received about $30,000, but says she has put in hundreds of hours on the case.)
Tom Carey, one of the Dolans' lawyers in the emotional distress suit, said the new law has produced a "bunker mentality" in which insurance companies reject claims with impunity because so few lawyers are willing to handle these cases.
"If they're doing this to us and we're so in the spotlight, how many other little people are they doing it to?" Christina asked.
Liberty Mutual wouldn't talk about the Dolan case for this story. The company referred questions to William Stander of the Property Casualty Insurers Association of America.
Stander said the 2003 law rooted out a lot of fraudulent claims and businesses pay much lower workers' compensation premiums as a result.
"They say the law keeps people from getting attorneys, but they're obviously representing this man," Stander said.
• • •
Christina and Jamie Dolan return to the table after his panic attack. He has recovered but is still shaky. His answers to questions begin with a huge sigh.
The Dolans are hesitant to share their story. They don't want to come across as ungrateful.
They know they're lucky. They have each other. They have their three kids, Charles, 16, Haley, 10, and J.T., 6. Their massive custom home dwarfs every house in the Bay Pines neighborhood where Jamie grew up.
It has walls textured in bamboo, stone and cork so Jamie can find his way around, a carpet path that keeps him from tripping over furniture, a voice-command computer that allows him to turn the lights on and off.
But after the Extreme Makeover crews left, the hard work began.
When Jamie came home from the hospital, he was completely dependent on Christina. His eyeballs had been removed so she had to clean out his eye sockets, apply ointments and dressings, help him take a shower, dole out his pills.
He couldn't go to the bathroom by himself, couldn't walk to the living room. More surgeries followed to repair his eyelids so they would accept prosthetic eyes.
But Jamie was determined to resume his life. He took courses to learn how to get around, cook and use a computer. He got a guide dog.
Still, Christina, who had worked as an administrative assistant for Sand Key Realty earning $12 an hour, said there was no way she could return to work. He needed her.
Soon, she began to notice a change. He had been such a gentle man before the shooting. She couldn't remember a time he yelled at her in 13 years of marriage.
Now he was snapping at her and the kids over little things, like when they made too much noise. "You can only say 'Daddy doesn't mean it' so many times before they look at you and say 'Why does he keep doing it then?' " Christina said.
At the same time, he felt guilty.
"One of the hardest parts about all of this for me is feeling like I'm not providing for my family the way I should," he says.
The first panic attack came about two years ago. He felt uneasy. His arm hurt, then he couldn't breathe. He felt pressure on his chest.
"I went from having a good day to being completely scared out of my mind," Jamie said, "to feeling like I was going to die."
The attacks grew in frequency, sometimes to several a week. He wouldn't leave the house for weeks on end.
While he struggled with the panic attacks, their money began to run out and their credit card debt grew. They owed Target more than $7,000 and Citibank about $2,500. Their Plymouth Voyager was repossessed.
Living in a bigger home compounded the problem. The Dolans' old house had cost them $1,300 a month; the spacious Extreme Makeover home cost $2,200. The mortgage was the same, but the taxes and insurance ballooned.
The electric bill also went up. It got to the point where Jamie discouraged Charles from using the robotic arm installed by Extreme Makeover in his room because it used too much electricity.
The insurance company still wouldn't pay Christina to be Jamie's caregiver. The Dolans talked about selling the house, but friends and family helped them out.
A few months ago, after their attorney filed a complaint with the Department of Financial Services, Liberty Mutual paid Christina $163,000 for the four years of care she had given her husband.
She was relieved but still worries about the future. She doesn't feel comfortable going back to work at this point and leaving him.
"That's all the money we have," she said, "and I don't know how long that has to last."
• • •
On the sidelines of their 6-year-old son's flag football game in Seminole, Christina tries to explain to Jamie what's happening on the field.
"Okay, they're lining up," Christina says. "The one kid's got the ball."
She struggles to provide play-by-play for a sport she doesn't really understand, and promises to get it down by the time the 6-year-old goes to high school. They laugh at the joke.
They met at Seminole High. She tripped over a rock at the county fair and he caught her. Theirs is one of those rare relationships, she says. "He completes me." She misses the way he looks at her when she comes into the room but still gets to experience his sarcastic sense of humor.
Minutes later, J.T. runs down the field with the football. He scores. In the excitement, she forgets to tell her husband.
This is the daily reality of Jamie's life.
He can't follow his kid's football game. His entire family gets up from the dinner table and he doesn't realize it. He worries that one day he'll wake up and forget what his kids look like.
He has mental images from four years ago so he often feels their faces to see how they've changed. Then he tries to alter the image in his head.
He doesn't think about the future, which seems "very far away."
"I'm a very proud man and I've always been able to take care of what needed to be done," he said, "and now that I can't, I don't know what to do with myself. I can't make it better. I don't know how to fix it."
Times researcher Shirl Kennedy contributed to this report. Times reporter Leonora LaPeter Anton can be reached at lapeter@sptimes.com or (727) 893-8640.
>>FAST FACTS
Workers' comp
2004: 79,338 workers out more than seven days received $1.72-billion in workers' compensation claims.
2007: 62,023 workers out more than seven days received $712-million in claims.
Source: state of Florida
[Last modified: Oct 02, 2008 03:46 PM]
Comments on this article
by Junior
Oct 2, 2008 3:43 PM
WC law is a state law. His lawyers are the garbage collectors who keep feeding into his psychy by digging for more money. I think this article was blind itself. Let's hear how much did Liberty Mutual spend on this claim.
by Joe
Oct 2, 2008 3:42 PM
I think if this was not a claim, they would have learned by now how to cope with it and move on. I think he is the luckiest blind individual in the world. Look at the extreme makeover episode. I wander how much did Liberty Mutual really spend on this
by N
Sep 30, 2008 3:58 PM
I'm one of the ones not receiving enough help from WC. And I have no family to help me.
Since they won't pay my checks by direct deposit, I wonder where I'll have them go when I become homeless.
by thomas
Sep 30, 2008 3:58 PM
This is completly unacceptable! He can't work, is struggling to get food, and Liberty Mutual is fighting for every little dollar. They're lucky the Dolans didn't sue before now.
by Steve
Sep 30, 2008 3:53 PM
Tom,Nick,Mel,Missy,Tina,SR and other heartless critics! If this happened to you or someone you love, you would have jumped off the Skyway Bridge by now! You'll have the typical Florida synical attitude. Living there with you'll adds to his pain.
by Liz
Sep 30, 2008 3:00 PM
I always wondered about the wisdom of the Extreme Home Makeover show... you do a whole bunch of tax-increasing home improvements for a family that couldn't afford to do it on their own. Could easily be more of a burden than a favor.
by Mary
Sep 30, 2008 2:37 PM
Worker's Comp is rarely the answer; they make getting treatment almost impossible and lawyers a necessity. Even when you want to work and only ask for medical help to get better, don't count on it. Having disability insurance is also a farce.
by Tammi
Sep 30, 2008 2:33 PM
I was James' DM for RSH when this tragedy occurred. If people only knew 1/2 of the trauma their comments would be a lot kinder and compassionate. Like Teklady commented the company and community need to support the Dolans. As long as they need it!
by Davison
Sep 30, 2008 2:32 PM
"by Joyce Sep 28, 2008 6:48 PM
I'm wondering if your doctors have tried antidepressants for your panic attacks. "
Antidepressants have a very bad effect on people who have anxiety-based symptoms, often making them much worse.
by Tammi
Sep 30, 2008 2:30 PM
Jamie & Chrissy, I think of you and pray for you often. I know your goodness and gratitude. Don't let the negative comments bother you, they are based on ignorance. I remember being @ the hospital w/ you, I have never seen more faith and love.
by SR
Sep 30, 2008 11:27 AM
I don't mean to sound unsympathetic of Mr. Dolans tragic situation. However, there are a lot of others that have it a lot worse off. They just don't make the newspaper. For starters, insurance should pay for a caregiver and Christina should work
by JW
Sep 29, 2008 8:47 PM
Serious injury, yes. Unfortunate, yes. Come on Dolan, get a grip. The Dolan family has received enough handouts. Others in your situation could only dream of. Christina, so called wife get a real job and step up to care for your family! Pathetic.
by Joh
Sep 29, 2008 8:47 PM
Avoid radio shack and drop liberty nutual.
by RH
Sep 29, 2008 8:46 PM
My Dad was disabled in a workplace accident. Liberty M fought tooth & nail to deny him his rightful W C Benefits. They routinely reject legitimate claims and make the insured fight for it, knowing that a claim delayed is one they may not have to pay.
by Habilis
Sep 29, 2008 7:34 PM
That TV show's "largesse" increased their household bills $900/month? A wife sues to be paid to care for her injured husband? 66% of your pay and all medical bills is fair enough. If you want to win the lottery, buy a ticket!
by James
Sep 29, 2008 7:34 PM
Insurance companys are only out for them, they do not care aobut who they cover. They will reject any claim they can, I went for pain in my wrist for the first time in my life and they rejected it after it was diagnosed as carpel. REFORM needs done!!
by RM
Sep 29, 2008 7:26 PM
Insurance companies are famous for not paying on claims (hurricanes, health, etc.). The judge should do like one judge in Texas did to Sam Walton (Wall Mart). Sam didn't show up in court as ordered and the judge fined him several million dollars.
by chris
Sep 29, 2008 7:26 PM
I'm glad to see that there are so many folks that truly understand WC insurance. I'm saddened by the few that don't that are calling for the government to step in. Poor, pathetic fools. Especially, you, Sam.
by Kay
Sep 29, 2008 6:37 PM
Workers Comp should not even be an issue, he was shot on the job it was all over the news so its not like he's trying to commit fraud aganist them. Insurance Company are the ones commiting fraud, they take your money but don't want to pay claims
by Charlie
Sep 29, 2008 5:18 PM
Maybe Liberty Mutual should hire him. After all, he's capable of getting a job according to them, right? And blind people don't have transportation issues, so he can be an insurance adjustor!
by John
Sep 29, 2008 3:16 PM
I cant believe this guy was shot in the head and you guys blame him! Trust me, the worker's comp system is awful and they routinely deny benefits without reason. I imagine a lot of you would feel differently if it was your son who went blind.
by Rory
Sep 29, 2008 3:13 PM
I can not believe some of the hateful comments here. By law the insurance company should have been paying the attendant care benefits all along. Instead they forced these poor people to go to court. Then the insurance company complains about costs!
by jennifer
Sep 29, 2008 3:04 PM
i had a friend who was on wc. she delt with them for 3 years. they can pay you up to 2yrs and then cut you off. they drag it out for as long as they can so they dont have to pay. the system is made for the insurance companies not for the poor person.
by Tom
Sep 29, 2008 3:04 PM
This was a tragic situation. He is getting 2/3 of his income; they willpay for a caregiver; they got a new house and donations. The lawyers want to charge more - that is the story! Wife needs a job - he needs occupational therapy to get a job.
by Nick
Sep 29, 2008 3:04 PM
People need to buy their own disability policies and they wouldn't have to worry about this stuff.
by Mel
Sep 29, 2008 3:04 PM
Though I feel bad for the Dolan's...please keep in mind the amount of fraud involved in insurance on a daily basis (I work in insur) From people claiming fake injuries or unrelated damage to a car to outright arson and hiding cars for theft claims.
by What?
Sep 29, 2008 2:50 PM
I agree there's something fishy about this "caregiver" situation. LM agreed to pay for a caregiver. As in a home-health care worker. NOT for this lady to sit home on her ass. Go get a job and have an aide come help Jaimie.
by bill
Sep 29, 2008 2:50 PM
Re CR: They stone-walled using the new law as a shield.Reform of the Florida and Texas variety usually meant making it more difficult to get benefits,period. They never deal with the problems the insurance mind set cause by blind stonewalling.
by Jen
Sep 29, 2008 2:45 PM
It's not just Florida where this is happening. Also, regarding panic attacks - this family has an incredible amount of stress. Meds will help, but not eliminate them. Finding an outlet for stress helps (exercise, etc - I hope he can find an outlet).
by me
Sep 29, 2008 2:44 PM
This is a tragedy, but it sounds like this family is taking advantage of the system. Blind people can be independent if they try. If they're so worried about $, lose the FOUR attorneys, get the wife a job and stop complaining about your new house!!
by CR
Sep 29, 2008 1:18 PM
Question for all of you out there who blame Liberty M. for this...What did they do specifically that you blame them for after reading this "story"? Elaborate more Payton, Sam, Bonnie & the rest of the ignorant morans with no idea of how WC law works
by payton
Sep 29, 2008 11:56 AM
This man's life was ruined by no fault of his own. Stressing about how his family survives financially should not be one of worries. Shame on Liberty Mutual. Not a good time to sell a house, SR and even if they did where would they go? Shame on you!
by Sam
Sep 29, 2008 11:56 AM
If he can find a good psychiatrist he may get better. He needs the monetary aspect settled and he should look to the government. Not these awful privateers who are slugs in the sewer.
by SK
Sep 29, 2008 11:56 AM
Seems to me the responsible thing for the insurance company to do would be to get him the psychological care he needs. Set a goal for when he can he can at least be ok alone at home so Christina can return to work. That would be a start.
by Honor
Sep 29, 2008 11:56 AM
Because Karen, we are a "right to work" state. In other words, no rights at all. And we have a lot of scammers here and moving in. Ick. Dolan should have gone on Medicare and SSDI, the best things the USG has ever done. Forget private insurance.
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