What's he really like? Check Lulu

not long ago, after Alexandra Amin, an assistant at Warner Bros., broke up with an agent she had been dating for a year, her friend told her about a new, free, female-friendly social networking app that lets women anonymously review men who are their Facebook friends.

"She was like, 'He's so crazy, you should rate him on Lulu,' " said Amin, 29, who lives in Los Angeles. Amin gave the ex hashtags including #NeverSleepsOver and #FriendZone. He scored a 6.9 out of 10, which, she admitted, was "lower than he actually deserves."

On Lulu, (https://onlulu.com/auth/intro/1) women can rate men in categories — ex-boyfriend, crush, together, hooked-up, friend or relative — with a multiple-choice quiz. Women, their gender verified by their Facebook logins, add pink hashtags to a man's profile ranging from the good (#KinkyInTheRightWays) to the bad (#NeverSleepsOver) to the ugly (#PornEducated). The hashtags are used to calculate a score generated by Lulu, ranging from 1 to 10, that appears under the man's profile picture. (The company's spokeswoman declined to explain the ratings algorithm.) Men can add hashtags, which appear in blue, but these are not factored into their overall score.

Since it was started last year by Alexandra Chong, who has a law degree from the London School of Economics, the service has provided a sort of "Take Back the Internet" moment for young women who have come of age in an era of revenge porn and anonymous, possibly ominous suitors.

(Chong no longer has need to be an active Lulu user; she is shopping for apartments downtown with her boyfriend, Jack Brockway, 33, a photographer who is the nephew of Sir Richard Branson, the Virgin Group founder, and the brother of Ned Rocknroll, Kate Winslet's new husband.)

"The thing that drew me to Lulu was that dating without a reference is the scariest thing you can do," said Erin Foster, 31, an actor and writer. "Meeting someone out in the world when you're not in school or don't work with each other or have mutual friends — you have no idea what you're getting yourself into."

Men give Lulu mixed reviews.

Last summer, Neel Shah, a comedy writer, was at a bar in Los Angeles on a date with a woman who pulled up his profile. "She started reading me these negative hashtags and I was like, 'Uh, this is awkward,' " said Shah, 30, whose profile has been viewed 448 times and "favorite" eight times for an average score of 6.7. His hashtags include #TallDarkAndHandsome and #CleansUpGood, along with the less flattering #TemperTantrums and #WanderingEye.

Still, Lulu has received over 500,000 requests from men to be put up for feedback. Apparently many believe it's better to have been badly reviewed than never to have been reviewed. Some guys have even taken to Twitter to brag about their score or campaign for better reviews. Receiving a score of 6.5, one Mike Isaac tweeted gamely: "I can only assume this is on a scale of 1 to 5."

What's he really like? Check Lulu 12/27/13 [Last modified: Friday, December 27, 2013 7:05pm]

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