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DADE CITY — Cynthia Gray has spent the last year reliving the details of the accident that killed her son.
She came to court Wednesday morning convinced that the teenager who ran him over should bear more blame for his death.
"We believe more strongly than ever that this is a case of wrongful death/manslaughter," she wrote in a long letter to Circuit Judge Pat Siracusa, asking for a new inquiry into the April 2007 crash.
But the Florida Highway Patrol determined that Duke Gray, 37, was drunk and speeding when he lost control of his motorcycle and crashed on a dark curve of Collier Parkway in Land O'Lakes. Ryan Cornett, then 17, drove up moments later and ran over Gray and the Harley-Davidson.
Cornett, the patrol said, was not at fault. Had he not left the scene after hitting Gray, he wouldn't have been charged with any crime.
But he did leave, and the dead man's heartbroken mother wanted him in jail.
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Circuit Judge Pat Siracusa looked around the courtroom and saw what was coming: Gray's emotional family and friends, all eager to make their case for deeper investigation.
His morning docket was crowded. So he took the unusual step of meeting with them in his chambers, where he could answer their questions directly.
Cynthia Gray wanted Cornett's passenger interviewed again to find out if the teens had been drinking that night. She wanted FHP's investigation redone.
"The reports don't add up, don't make sense," she said. "Nobody is listening to this."
"I'm listening," the judge said.
The session became a kind of Florida Law 101. Siracusa queried the prosecutor, asking questions he already knew the answers to.
In short, a new investigation probably wouldn't help the Grays, the judge said. If witnesses were caught lying and changed their stories, the inconsistent testimony would backfire with a jury. If Cornett pleaded guilty Wednesday, but more evidence was found later, he still could not be charged because of the constitutional prohibition on double jeopardy.
Siracusa, acknowledging that the family would probably leave unhappy, asked Gray if she had more questions.
She cried. "Obviously it's all moot now."
• • •
She spoke first during formal sentencing, reading from the last birthday card her son sent her, and a verse from the Bible.
"Because of the actions of Ryan Cornett on April 21, 2007, we've all been condemned to not having Duke, and we'll never have that happiness back," she said.
Cornett's family spoke too.
"All I've ever know about Ryan is that he's always been a loving kid," his aunt, Judy Cohen, told the judge. "Ryan has been extremely affected by this. He has never one second taken any of it lightly."
Chip Purcell, Cornett's lawyer, said that after hitting the motorcyclist, Cornett pulled into a nearby parking lot, and his passenger got out and was told by paramedics that they could leave.
Cornett pleaded guilty Wednesday to leaving the scene of a crash involving serious injury, a third-degree felony, and a misdemeanor charge of leaving the scene of a crash involving property damage. He faced up to five years in prison.
The judge said he pondered this case every day for two weeks on his drive to work. He doubted he could construct a sentence that would make both sides happy.
"Every time I tried to work this Rubik's Cube … I haven't been able to do it," Siracusa said.
Finally, he said everything he learned about Gray told him he would have wanted forgiveness for Cornett.
So the teen will not go to prison, Siracusa decided. He'll spend the next five years on probation, performing 50 hours of community service and abiding by a 9 p.m. curfew. He won't drink alcohol, and he'll have to let probation officers search his home and car at any time, for any reason.
But also, this:
Cornett will carry a picture of Duke Gray with him everywhere he goes.
He'll replace his MySpace page, which had contained references to drinking and partying, with a picture of Duke Gray.
And every year of his probation, on the first weekend following the anniversary of the crash, Cornett will report to the Land O'Lakes Detention Center to serve 48 hours in jail.
"I want you to think about it constantly," the judge said.
• • •
Cornett was relieved to be spared from prison, though he worried about losing his valuable Bright Futures scholarship, his lawyer said. An honors student and baseball player at Land O'Lakes High School, he is set to graduate next month.
Cynthia Gray, who had stood up and pleaded for 18 months behind bars for the young driver, left the courthouse satisfied.
She called the sentence "extremely fair," a fitting tribute to her son who loved and respected everyone he met.
She praised the judge's decision.
"In many ways it was like Duke was talking himself," his mother said.
Molly Moorhead can be reached at moorhead@sptimes.com or (727) 869-6245.
Court hands down a sentence of remembrance for Duke Gray This photo of Duke Gray, who was killed in a crash on Collier Parkway in April 2007, will appear on the MySpace page of Ryan Cornett. It's a condition of Cornett's sentence after the teen pleaded guilty Wednesday to leaving the scene of the crash that killed Gray. Cornett also had to watch a video of Gray's memorial service, where one friend after another described him as a loving friend who looked people in the eye and listened intently. Gray, who worked at an advertising agency and loved scuba diving and motorcycles, was 37 when he died.
[Last modified: May 27, 2008 02:15 PM]
Comments on this article
by rest easy
May 27, 2008 2:15 PM
Many lives horribly changed. As a friend of Duke's I only hope that everyone learns. Ryan and his passenger have to live with what they have done. Accident or game, drunk or sober no one will ever really know, but we must all move on.
by Cathy
May 25, 2008 12:37 PM
This is a hard one. If Cornett was told to leave, where were the paramedics to confirm this? If he was tod to leave ther shuld be no punishment as he didn't do anything wrong. Cornett has to live with this for the rest of his life; punishment enough!
by Meg
May 24, 2008 1:56 PM
To Chritsina, do u honestly think Gray was the only one DUI that nite? Ryan runs over a man and motorcycle,doesn't stop,obviously no reaction time to avoid running over both man and bike? Sober and do all this and flee the scene? 2 am, think people!
by Informed
May 23, 2008 3:06 PM
The charges on RC were for leaving a scene w/ critical injuries, and that's what he's plead guilty to, and sentenced with. Siracusa was w/in his rights to sentence based on FL statutes. If there were legal "outs" for RC, I'm sure they'd been pursued.
by kelly
May 23, 2008 2:46 PM
Your kidding right. This guy died from his injuries from his motorcyle wreck and ryan who was in the wrong place at the wrong time has to pay. He could have killed my child with his bad decision to drink and drive like a maniac.we well pray4 u ryan
by There from beginning to end....
May 23, 2008 10:42 AM
I've been involved in this-start to finish & know the details. I believe in fairness,justice,& due process. RC plead guilty, & accepted his sentence. I commend him for that. To his friends, "he took the deal". Take it up w/ him, not the Gray Family.
by Nick
May 23, 2008 10:39 AM
As a good friend for 14 years of Ryan Cornett I know how much this impacted his life. The man was speeding while intoxicated on a bike when he layed it down, and the "victims" family wants closure? Blame no one but the driver. I want my friend back!
by Kim
May 23, 2008 10:39 AM
I wonder how Gray's mother can sleep at night? Her son caused his own death and she has ruined another boy's life. Cornett is now a felon and will have to pay for a drunk driver's stupidity. Shame on you, Mrs. Gray and shame on you, Judge.
by KP
May 23, 2008 10:37 AM
We'll see just how compassionate the Grays really are. I hope they show some compassion for this family whose son is paying for their own son's neglegence. How long will the Grays go before they file a civil lawsuit? A weak judge opened that door.
by MP
May 23, 2008 10:37 AM
Weak judge, weak lawyer, poor kid will pay for another's actions. Really sad.
by Greg
May 23, 2008 7:57 AM
Drunk driving is responsible for taking 16,000 live each year in American. That is four times the number that have died in Iraq in the last 5 years. Why are we not doing more to educate people to not get behind the wheel drunk?
by SN
May 22, 2008 7:09 PM
Here is a story of a grown man who decideds to drink and then drive a "DEATH TRAP" drunk and a teenager who get a horrible sentance because this guy would already have been dead. Come on, let this kid have the life Mr. Gray took advantage of!
by MG
May 22, 2008 6:35 PM
Who, in your opinion, would be most likely to be speeding while drinking, a 37 y.o. professional man with alot to lose or a 17 y.o. inexperienced high schooler? If Ryan had been sober it's highly unlikely he would've run over Duke AND a motorcycle!
by MG
May 22, 2008 6:33 PM
The fact Judge Siracusa took over 2 weeks to deal with all evidence and facts in this case should tell you something..no judge is going to give this kid a sentence for "just being at the wrong place/wrong time" C'mon people! Errors/assumptions made!
by M
May 22, 2008 5:15 PM
Those who know nothing usually have the most to say.
by Marty
May 22, 2008 5:11 PM
Thanks, Molly, for your even-handed article. You managed to convey the emotions behind the facts. Glad Judge Siracusa took time to talk with the families. However, Ryan seems to truly be a panicked young driver who deserved a lighter sentence.
by friend of Grays
May 22, 2008 5:07 PM
Pasco County is truly blessed to have Judge Siracusa, someone who truly listens, is wise, reads between the "legal lines", and does what he feels will have a positive impact and outcome. Amazing man and his sentence will ultimately help Ryan grow up
by derek
May 22, 2008 2:06 PM
As a close friend to Ryan I can tell you he has suffered enough already, he was simply in the wrong place at the wrong time. And to the grey family, i am truely sorry for your loss but there is no one to blame but your son. accept it and move on.
by Chritsina
May 22, 2008 1:49 PM
How dare this lady blame another person for her sons misktakes. Open your eyes. I'm sorry for your lose but YOUR SON was the one who was DUI! This poor boy ran him over, after he crashed, got scared and did what most teenagers would do.
by Pasco Mom
May 22, 2008 1:49 PM
It is neither loving, nor respectful to others on the road to drive (or ride) drunk. Wake up Ms. Gray. Your son played a significant role in his own demise.
by sue
May 22, 2008 1:29 PM
Why blame Ryan for this? begin at the begining& it will be more clear, he was laying in the road! reminds me of Jennifer who killed 2 children, who weren't drunk, & drove away & whos fam did a cover up for a week & she got a wrist slap!
by VOR
May 22, 2008 1:28 PM
This sentence is ridiculous... jennifer porter got off with a lesser sentence for killing two kids in a crosswalk. Speeding on a mbike, drunk proves Gray had no respect for anyone. Kid should sue Gray's family for ruining his life. fire the judge
by Larry
May 22, 2008 1:27 PM
At least the drunk died in this accident instead of the innonect victim. The judges rules on the picture is BS. Give the kid probation, pay a fine and lets move on.
by Rob
May 22, 2008 11:04 AM
I drive across the Howard Franklin at night all the time with people on motorcyles riding wheelies at 95 MPH and swerving dangerously in and out of traffic. Only a matter of time before someone hits one of them. I suppose I will be at fault then?
by jessica
May 22, 2008 11:04 AM
realize her son had flaws & stop blaming other people for the mistakes he made. If Gray had hit someone else, she'd probably be up there saying the other person shouldn't have been on the road. shouldn't take a hanging of a kid to appease her.
by Rob
May 22, 2008 11:04 AM
Drunk on motorcyle and wreck, and get hit by Cronett from behind and it his fault? Retarded. The fault is with Gray 100%. Cornett shuold have stopped and stayed but his punishment was way too harsh if the paramedics really said they could leave.
by James
May 22, 2008 11:04 AM
I have to say that I totally agree with the decisions of the court. Had the child taken responsibility for his actions and not run away, he would not be in the trouble he is in. Why would someone who is not guilty, run anyway? punishment = crime.
by Dora
May 22, 2008 11:03 AM
That's ridiculous. Duke Gray would've died whether that kid stayed or left. The paramedics told them they could leave. How is this a just punishment? A drunk driver was speeding, crashed and died. It was his fault, why ruin this young man's life?
by Jessica
May 22, 2008 11:03 AM
Ridiculous! Whats the norm punishment for fleeing the scene? Thats the max this kid should get. Since hes a minor, shouldn't his 48 hrs be spent in a juvenile center? He may have needed a wake up call (partying) but this is too much. The mom needs to
by Rick
May 22, 2008 11:03 AM
Newsflash to Gray's mom - it was your irresponsible son'e drunkeness and irresponsible behavior that killed him - not this innocent kid.
by RAW
May 22, 2008 11:02 AM
I ride a bike. While I feel for the mother, being drunk on a bike is just another name for suicide. The 17 year old probably isn't blameless but the Mom just needs to accept that sometimes our actions earn consequences. Sad story..
by Glenn
May 22, 2008 8:29 AM
Let's see, drunk and speeding on a motorcycle at night, loses control and gets hit by someone else. A 16 year immature kid freaks out and flees and the family wants 'justice'. I love how no one accepts personal responsibility anymore.
by DMS
May 22, 2008 8:29 AM
They need to leave that kid alone. It was his own drunken driving that killed Duke Gray. The mother must learn to balance lucidity with her grief. The kid has probably suffered enough emotionally.
by John
May 22, 2008 8:29 AM
sorry, but I feel this sentence was too harsh. I know it's not popular to blame the victim but some with a bac three times the legal limit deserves what he gets. As someone who lost someone to a drunk driver, I have no sympathy for this "victim"
by justthinking
May 22, 2008 8:29 AM
If this 17 year old kid was not at fault and was really told it was ok to leave then this punishment is cruel. I hope he isn't driven to commit suicide because of the constant reminder that he ran over a dead guy who crashed because he was drunk.
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