The surrogate
It begins with a woman who yearns for a baby and another who is willing and able to give her one. You can imagine the motives of the prospective parents. But what about the woman willing to carry a baby, give birth and then walk away?
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Michelle Wagner of Seminole is owed $29,478 in support for son Brandon, 14, who has cystic fibrosis and had never seen his dad.
TAMPA — Each time a judge placed an order of contempt on Danny J. Collins for failure to pay child support, he ignored it, sometimes packing up and leaving the state.
And each time, the mother of the son he had never seen would track Collins down.
Michelle Wilder of Seminole traced his moves through three states and 14 years before the government intervened and took the rare step of prosecuting Collins in federal court.
On Tuesday, U.S. District Judge Steven D. Merryday sentenced Collins to a year in federal prison for failing to pay child support, an unusual punishment, say attorneys familiar with family law. Merryday also ordered the Weedsport, N.Y., resident to pay the $29,478 in back child support he currently owes.
"I really didn't know if I should feel bad for him or if I should hate him or resent him," said Brandon Wilder, 14, who has cystic fibrosis and saw his father Tuesday for the first time.
Marshals took immediate custody of Collins, preventing him from having the father-son conversation that Brandon wanted.
"I wanted to ask him why he would want to do this to himself," Brandon said later. "I wanted to tell him that he had a chance to make things right, and he should take it."
Assistant U.S. Attorney Rachelle Bedke asked the judge to sentence Collins to five years of probation. That way, Bedke argued, the court could monitor Collins as he caught up on his neglected child support.
As a show of good faith, Collins gave the court a cashier's check for $5,000 before the judge sentenced him. The 43-year-old electrician promised another $10,000 payment after completing a construction job in the Washington, D.C., area.
Defense attorney Stephen Leal made numerous pleas with Merryday to give Collins probation so he could continue to work and make money. But the judge said requiring someone to pay what he should have paid all along wasn't punishment enough.
"What in the world have you been doing all this time?" Merryday asked Collins.
"I'm an idiot," Collins responded.
"I don't mean to quibble. ... It's beyond dumb," Merryday said. "It really shows a remarkable and almost inhuman disrespect for your own flesh and blood."
Prosecutors also told the judge about four other children Collins has who are in various stages of trying to obtain back child support from their father.
Deliberately failing to pay child support has been a federal crime since the 1990s. It's a misdemeanor if the past due amount is greater than $5,000 and has remained unpaid for more than a year. It's a felony if the amount is greater than $10,000 and has remained unpaid for at least two years.
In both instances, the child must reside in a different state than the parent violating the court order.
"The person being pursued in federal court is somebody who has really been a deadbeat parent for quite a while," said Caroline Black, a Tampa attorney who practices family law. "It's just unusual for a federal court to become involved in these types of procedures."
Adam Allen, an assistant federal public defender in Tampa, said that several years ago, his office might handle a case like this a few times a year. Now it's even more rare, he said.
"They're difficult cases, because having someone be a convicted felon and putting them in jail doesn't provide them an avenue to pay child support," Allen said. "On the other hand, some people aggressively go out of their way to avoid the obligations they have to their children."
Prosecutors said that at one time, Collins was depositing his paychecks into his sister's bank account to hide his income.
"I'm not sure how to feel," Michelle Wilder said after the sentencing. "My heart broke for Brandon."
She said she struggled with allowing her son to be in court, but Brandon told her "it's probably the only chance he'll have to lay his eyes on his father in person."
Wilder, who is now a nurse, said she lives paycheck to paycheck as a single parent. Brandon needs constant medical attention for his cystic fibrosis. He has had seven surgeries and is on eight medications.
When Brandon was 4, the state wanted to place him in foster care so he could receive proper medical care. Wilder said she got a private loan instead.
"It's been hard for us," Brandon said. "I have a great mom, though, and I'm happy about that."
Kevin Graham can be reached at kgraham@sptimes.com or (813) 226-3433.
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Comments on this article
by Kim
Sep 8, 2008 10:24 AM
If you can go after Danny then why can't you do it to other people like him. Maybe something should be done about all of these other people. I think if these people want the other people to there kid pay then let them see there kids.
by L
Sep 8, 2008 10:18 AM
Way to go! Our System needs to change and come down harder on dead beat parents - maybe if they did there would be less out there in the world! Brandon you are strong - Michelle you are a survivor - Excellent job!
by flo
Sep 4, 2008 5:03 PM
It is really criminal that the law didn't act 14 years ago.
by dora
Sep 4, 2008 5:03 PM
all dead beats should ook at this and learn..they should all go through the legal system if they dont want to support there own kids!!! shame on them. same goes to dead beat moms!
by Mary
Sep 4, 2008 5:03 PM
This wouldn't even happen if the majority of MEN were left to raise the kids alone. My dad died not paying a penny for any of his 7 kids. & why is birth control ALWAYS the woman's resp.? A LOT of us CANNOT take it. How 'bout you guys using a condom?
by Ol Geezer
Sep 4, 2008 5:03 PM
Why isn't his electrician's license/certificate yanked? Put a lean on his pliers and wire.
by Gary
Sep 4, 2008 5:03 PM
Unfortunately, the judge had only a small part in providing justice - the hard work was done by the mother and her attorney's. Persistence pays.
by David
Sep 4, 2008 5:02 PM
Given the propoganda promoted by NOW and the liberal media...Im amazed he didnt get the death penalty.
by RR
Sep 4, 2008 11:10 AM
This remark is not intended to apply to all cases of non-payment of child support. Lets face it though, a little discretion as to who one chooses to have children with can save the courts the overwhelming burden of remedying ones errors in judgment.
by Amanda
Sep 4, 2008 11:10 AM
Andrew-
He slept with the woman. He knows what the consequences of sex are. That's 'consent' enough. Birth control is the responsibility of BOTH parties if one or the other doesn't want a child.
by woman in the dark
Sep 4, 2008 11:10 AM
this is a very sad story.but i dont think this was the way to go now he cant pay anything to any of the kids i think a work release program would be great too maybe things would get paid im owed over 15,000.00 in back child support an i get nowhere
by sydney
Sep 4, 2008 11:10 AM
Brandon is my half brother and danny is my dad...im glad he got put in jail...he deserves it! ive spent 14 years wondering why he wanted nothing to do with us. its so hard for me to handle now. I LOVE YOU BRANDON AND AUNT MICHELLE!!!
by Samuel
Sep 4, 2008 11:08 AM
For those of us who have been through this first hand, I respect the judges decision. This should be treated as a crime and not just a slapped on the hand or a revoked license. Kudos to the mother for being so vigilant.
by Happily childless
Sep 4, 2008 11:08 AM
Hey Andrew, I can suggest a moment when he might have had something to say about her having the child--perhaps when he chose not to use a condom.
by Tony
Sep 4, 2008 11:08 AM
Everyone looses, The mother will never see any support, the child will never know his dad, The Dad is unable to support anyone. The lesson here is the court system will distroy everyone it can. The St Petersburg Times has a history of bias reporting
by michelle
Sep 4, 2008 11:08 AM
I thank everyone for their support and prayers. I am the one who pursued federal charges against danny. To set the record straight, Danny supposedly wanted this child, he willfully abdandoned brandon, this is nothing short of child neglect.
by Mel
Sep 4, 2008 11:07 AM
I am still waiting on CS. My ex is in arrears of $60,000. Lock em all up!
by Ticked off
Sep 4, 2008 11:07 AM
My ex-brother in law owes over $200,000 in back child support and is on probation for failure to pay. He just stops going to probation in Pasco and they do NOTHING! The Sheriff's office and Probation officer's do not care when its child support!
by Haven
Sep 4, 2008 11:07 AM
Shame he couldn't be castrated as well. Disgusting man, hope he spends the entire time in prison.
by Ticked off
Sep 4, 2008 11:07 AM
That dead beat dad spent time in jail for contempt before being charged as a felon for failure to pay. It doesn't matter to him. He is an absconder from probation adn no one cares. He even lives at the address on DOC website but no one cares!
by Mitzy
Sep 4, 2008 11:02 AM
"Wonder if this guy Collins had any input on whether she had the baby? If she decided to have it without his consent, why should he pay support?"
We can thank pro-abortionists for this disgusting attitude from men. If you can't pay - don't play!
by Sally
Sep 4, 2008 11:02 AM
Here Here Michele! If these crimes were treated seriously, there would be less men out there willing to be dead beat dads. The state has an interest in getting these men to take responsibility for their actions.
by Ray
Sep 4, 2008 11:01 AM
Maybe I sound like a jerk, but why don't courts side with fathers more on custody disputes? You never hear about deadbeat moms because 90% of the time the father is denied custody even if he fights tooth and nail and the mom is scum. Very one-sided.
by Barbara
Sep 4, 2008 11:01 AM
Daniel, get a grip! The courts don't create deadbeat dads, the deadbeat dads do! Have some responsibility for your actions and pay up! It's not free to raise children.
by jan
Sep 4, 2008 11:01 AM
Men:if you can even call them that..If you won't wear a condom, you have to pay. Don't blame it on the mom. They just fall for that 'I really love you honey and will take care of you because I'm a big strong man' line.
Good for the Judge
by Eric S. Mitchell
Sep 4, 2008 11:01 AM
A message like this needs to be sent to all the deadbeat dads and those who will become dads.The only reason he trying to pay nows is because of the impact this will have on him.My dad never paid , I would like this judge to handle all cases this way
by Michele
Sep 3, 2008 3:03 PM
To Govt Lawyer who processes well over
1500 CS cases/mo, but makes NO dent, just shows how incompetent the State of FLA remains & why so many deadbeat parents flock to FLA to avoid their CS obligations-try treating it as the CRIME it is!!!!
by Eric S. Mitchell
Sep 3, 2008 3:03 PM
My Mother never got a dime after all those years persuing my Dad , they told him the the only reason he didn't go to jail last hearing , they were going to garnish his S.S.He didn't live long after that. Heart Attack . All those years, no justice.
by Eric S. Mitchell
Sep 3, 2008 3:03 PM
That was the same age i saw my dad for the first time , and it was at court, where he tried to say i wasn't his child , but the judge said our blood match was in the high 90's. I'm 34 now never saw him again,or had that talk i wanted. GOOD JOB JUDGE
by Grandmother of 1
Sep 3, 2008 3:02 PM
To set the record straight-he knew about ALL the babies and willfully deserted them. He worked under the table as an electrician to avoid having the gov garnish his wages (they did occasionally). He had 3 babies within 6 months. These kids are 14.
by Eric Mitchell
Sep 3, 2008 3:02 PM
I wish that judge would've got a hold of my dad , he did me just like that . I wrote a poem called Life to me , its on poetry . com u should read it ,it describes my dad. My heart goes out to the child and prayers.
by WAKE UP
Sep 3, 2008 3:02 PM
Daniel:"Taken into Custody:The War against Fatherhood,the Family and Marriage" is PROPEGANDA. women who've been BEATEN by their husbands & finally had the courage to leave DID NOT"destroy their family".MEN SHOULD BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS
by THINK ABOUT IT
Sep 3, 2008 3:02 PM
"Count" said: "Father, mother and son needs counseling and guidence to build a relationship.s.let's talk healing". WHY force the mother & son 2 have a relationship with a Looser who CHOSE to have no part of their lives? Focus on helping the VICTIMS.
by Kay
Sep 3, 2008 3:02 PM
Once I found out what a loser he was...I sent him packing. He then chose to leave the state. NO support, not even a letter or call to the baby. I will not pursue him in court. He works under the table and would be a negative in MY son's life.
by Kay
Sep 3, 2008 3:01 PM
"Don't have babies with losers"...aren't relationships a bit more complicated than that? I cannot tolerate birth control and my ex didn't seem like a loser until I was several month pregnant. He wanted the baby. I "chose" to have it.
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