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When Kaitlyn Pierce was 8 years old, she was diagnosed with dyslexia and dysgraphia. Her mother, Nikki Pierce, didn't know what to do.
She researched federal and Florida laws pertaining to special-needs students so she could learn what her child's rights were and how to ask for them.
Kaitlyn is now 9 and in fourth grade at Chocachatti Elementary School. She uses technology to help her with her writing, which is affected by dysgraphia. Pierce said it wasn't until she educated herself to learn how to ask that her daughter was able to get what she needed.
Stacy Walsh is a parent with a son, Gavin, 9, who has Asperger's syndrome, a mild type of autism. He's a fourth-grader at Challenger K8.
She was organizing an autism awareness walk and contacted Pierce. "After that we just kind of clicked. Stacy and I got involved together at the end of the last school year," Pierce said.
Both women now coordinate the Special Students of Hernando Support Group. She and Walsh work with the Hernando County School Board as a community partner with the exceptional student education department.
"Our goal is to educate parents on the proper procedures to get what is appropriate for them," Pierce said.
Nikki Pierce lives in Spring Hill with her husband, Todd, a firefighter; Kaitlyn; and Kyle, an 8-year-old Chocachatti third-grader.
Stacy Walsh lives in Brooksville with her husband, Harry, who works in communications; Gavin; and Savanna, 11, a sixth-grader at Challenger K8.
When she started, Pierce formed the Dyslexia and Related Learning Differences Support Group. She realized, though, that parents of children with all kinds of special needs had to deal with the same issues, so the group was changed to Special Students of Hernando Support Group.
Pierce and Welsh have a Web site with contact information, related links, event notices and other information.
"We are here to help support and educate parents on their student's (child's) rights in the educational system. We are not attorneys — we are parents helping parents. We are all at various stages in our children's educational career and are willing to help other parents who may feel 'lost in the system,' " Pierce and Walsh say on their site, www.specialstudentsofhernando.com.
Nikki Pierce can be reached at nikki@specialstudentsofhernando.com and at (352) 584-5512. Stacy Walsh is at stacy@specialstudentsofhernando.com and (352) 232-1239.
They said they are happy to help any parent, caregiver or educator with questions. Both are volunteers.
"The primary focus of Special Students of Hernando is education of the Federal Special Education laws (IDEA: Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, Section 504: Civil Rights Law, and similar). We want to help parents form a productive relationship with their child's school while understanding the correct process and procedures under the law. We want to see children obtain the most appropriate education, regardless of their disabilities or learning differences," the women state on their site.
The women are advertising a January conference sponsored by Special Students of Hernando and the Hernando County School Board Exceptional Student Education Department.
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For information, go to www.specialstudentsofhernando.com.
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Comments on this article
by Heidi
Aug 31, 2008 9:19 AM
Response to Special Stundets -- Thank for updating your website but the clarification is too little too late.
by Heidi
Aug 31, 2008 9:19 AM
Response to Kirst -- Some of us do not have the luxury of family or friends that will watch my disabled daughter. Just becuase it isn't an issue for you does not mean it's not an issue for some one else as we are all different.
by Betsea
Aug 29, 2008 5:59 PM
I too want to commend these ladies for taking time out of our lives to do this for other parents. I understand what you mean about "well behaved" children. If were having a bad day,the kids will stay home to avoid interruptions.
by Special Students
Aug 29, 2008 4:19 PM
Kids are welcome - well behaved is more to the parents. We simply ask that kids not be running around out of control w/ parents looking the other way. It has happened. We understand behavioral issues,not a problem. Website has been updated to clarify
by Kirst
Aug 29, 2008 4:14 PM
Are you telling me your husbands or family couldn't watch your child for 1 hr so you can gain info to help your child? I have a child with special needs and am proud to be a member of their group. Don't look for issues that simply aren't there.
by Patty
Aug 29, 2008 4:04 PM
You ladies are to be commended!! Every parent MUST stand up for their children!! You know them best, and you are their best advocate!!! Under the law, children have rights and parents have rights. Let's hold schools accountable!!!!!
by Jane
Aug 28, 2008 5:01 PM
Grateful for you moms. Thankful for my son who is different and has the courage to try to go to school no matter how humiliating it is. Our gifted children want to be respected! We are very lucky to have the help from these ladies.Excellent website!
by Heidi
Aug 28, 2008 3:53 PM
I found your website to be offensive. Don't you think that there is enough discrimination against disabled people? You just added more -- behavioral issues are a disability too. I know -- my daughter is disabled and attends school in Hernando.
by Help for Jocelyn
Aug 28, 2008 2:06 PM
Jocelyn if you have or know a child that has been abused on the bus contact the district school board and school transportation department. If the child has been slapped by a bus drive immediately call the abuse hotline 1-800-96ABUSE.
by I won't be going
Aug 28, 2008 2:05 PM
Intrigued by the article, I went to the website. Only "well-behaved" children are welcomed at meetings. Disabilities include behavioral issues too. So parents with "those" children can only attend if they're lucky enough to have private childcare?
by Mom of 2
Aug 27, 2008 5:31 PM
Jocelyn- what about those parents? This sounds like a place they can go for the help to address these needs. Abuse needs to be reported to the abuse hotline. It sounds like these moms are helping w/ students who have disabilities (in school).
by Jocelyn
Aug 27, 2008 1:11 PM
What about the rest of the parents in Hernando struggling, the parents whose children are being abused, the children who are just dumped into classrooms and given no behaviorial supports, that are abused on school buses, slapped by bus drivers
by Tracey
Aug 27, 2008 12:50 PM
How wonderful that these 2 mom's have done what Hernando is lacking. My son is 8 and has Asperger's also. I have learned that I am his primary advocate and also will be. Don't count on anyone else to see that your child gets what he/she deserves.
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