The surrogate
It begins with a woman who yearns for a baby and another who is willing and able to give her one. You can imagine the motives of the prospective parents. But what about the woman willing to carry a baby, give birth and then walk away?
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By
Nicole Hutcheson, Times Staff Writer
In print: Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Porcher Harris, 27, gives her 5-month-old daughter a kiss after waking her from her Friday afternoon nap. Harris represents a growing trend of minority women who are breast-feeding their babies, something most of their mothers didn’t do.
When Porcher Harris decided she wanted to breast-feed, her mother gave her a breast pump and her support.
What she couldn't give the new Tampa mom was advice. Harris' mother, Maxine, had never breast-fed.
"She said the women in her day didn't think about breast-feeding," said Harris, 27, who is black and breast-feeds her 5-month-old daughter.
Harris represents a changing of the guard. Minority women are breast-feeding more these days, bucking a trend that ranked black and Hispanic women among those least likely to nurse in this country, even as breast-feeding rebounded in the past 30 years.
Over the last decade, the percentage of black infants who were breast-fed increased by about 30 percent and Hispanic infants saw a 13 percent jump, according to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention.
Health officials say efforts by the medical community and a more savvy generation of mothers has led to the change.
"Two or three generations ago, they didn't even have the information in front of them to the benefits of breast-feeding," said Charlene Laping, a lactation consultant for Hillsborough County's WIC program, a federal program that provides help with food, health care and nutrition education for women and children.
"Now they do and it seems more of a simple choice for them to say, 'Oh yes, I am going to breast-feed.'"
Studies have shown benefits of breast-feeding for mothers include reduction in breast cancer rates and a return to pre-pregnant weight faster; for children, reduction in childhood obesity, diabetes, and leukemia.
It's also significantly cheaper than purchasing formula, which can cost up to $1,500 year.
But in communities where breast-feeding is not a tradition, delivering the message of its benefits for newborns and their mothers has taken work.
More than half of the women who deliver at Tampa General are Hispanic. Many are Spanish speakers and it's the first time they've given birth in a state of the art setting.
"It's status in many communities to bottle feed your baby," said lactation specialist Suzanne Shapiro. "But we have to turn around and tell them what would you do in your home country?"
Shapiro and her staff, which includes a Spanish speaking lactation consultant, determine the woman's employment and home situation. Then they devise an individual breast-feeding plan.
Cristina Wingate of Belle Air Bluffs is 35 and of Puerto Rican and Peruvian descent. The first- generation New York native has been steadfast in breast-feeding her 22-month-old daughter in a family that still hasn't quite accepted it.
"It's something I truly believe and not having the support makes it challenging," said Wingate, whose mother did not breast-feed. "When I speak to my family, they'll ask me, 'Oh, are you still breast-feeding her?' "
Wingate, a member of the La Leche League, a worldwide support group for nursing mothers, has begun to educate her younger sisters and nieces about the benefits of breast-feeding.
Delilah Fortenberry, who is black, said it's a matter of information not reaching certain communities. A mental health counselor, she faced some apprehension from associates after she decided to breast-feed her son, now 3 months old.
"They felt it was weird, especially if it's a boy," said Fortenberry, 30, of Wesley Chapel. "But it's a natural kind of thing. The baby is not going to look at you as a sexual object whether it's a boy or a girl."
At the turn of the 20th century, it is believed that nearly 70 percent of new mothers breast-fed, according to the Journal of Nutrition. By 1950, that number had declined to 25 percent.
The decline began as childbirth went from the privacy of homes to hospitals, said Jane Crouse, public relations associate for La Leche League.
"Within a decade, you saw women going to the hospital having their babies, a lot of medical personnel involved and science involved," Crouse said. "Consequently, infant feeding practices went more in the realm of the doctor and not the woman and her community and her mother."
In the mid 1970s, as research emerged about the benefits of breast-feeding, more women began to nurse, Crouse said.
Still minority communities, specifically African-Americans in lower socioeconomic rungs, lagged behind.
Harris understands why. Breast-feeding, particularly when a baby is young, can be a challenge as both mother and child learn the routine.
"There was a point where I wanted to give up, but I knew I had decided I wanted to do it, so I decided to start back," Harris said. "And we do have a bond. She's a momma's girl."
Nicole Hutcheson can be reached at nhutcheson@sptimes.com or (727)893-8828.
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Where to find help
For more information on breast-feeding, contact La Leche League at www.llli.org or call toll-free 1-800-525-3243.
Books:
• Breastfeeding: A Parent's Guide by Amy Spangler
• Nursing Mother's Companion by Kathleen Huggins
• Womanly Art of Breastfeeding by La Leche League International
• Nursing Mother, Working Mother by Gale Pryor
• Mothering Multiples: Breastfeeding and Caring for Twins or More by Karen Kerkhoff Gromada
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Comments on this article
by joetampa
Aug 18, 2008 12:49 PM
'American problem'? Why not go back where you can be more Hispanic? And why is what you are feeding a baby more important than having two parents?
by MICHAEL
Aug 13, 2008 7:42 PM
THIS WAS A VERY INFORMATIVE ARTICLE FOR THE AFRICAN AMERICAN MOTHER(S), WHICH PICTURED MY BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER IN LAW AND MY PRECIOUS,FIRST GRANDCHILD (LIL KORRINE). BREAST FEEDING TRULY ENHANCES THE BOND OF MOTHER AND CHILD. THANKS - GRANDPA
by Heidi
Aug 13, 2008 3:11 PM
If breastmilk is not the superior food then why are formula companies always adding ingredients to try to match it? There is no match! Almost all moms can breastfeed, some just may need a little guidance. LLL is there for any mom who wants help.
by Heidi
Aug 13, 2008 3:11 PM
True all nursing moms should try to eat healthy and most do, but if you do not eat a perfect diet it does not make your milk imperfect. Obviously moms should avoid toxins but our bodies knows what to do, make a food perfect for human babies.
by Ann
Aug 13, 2008 2:26 PM
breastfeeding might be better but it's only as good as the nourishment the mom partakes in - eat junk, baby eat junk. I'm with loretha
by Hallie
Aug 13, 2008 1:35 PM
and make our choices.We don't all make the "best"(being what another might think is best)choices for our kids.(from diapers to food, to TV,to behavior)We do what we think is right and best for us.That said,I think every mom should try to nurse
by Hallie
Aug 13, 2008 1:35 PM
The truth, so that they can make the best desicion for their familes. We need to support and not condemn. To me its in the same catagory of choice- natural birth or epidural, stay at home or work, spank or not. We all take the info given to us...
by Hallie
Aug 13, 2008 1:35 PM
Loretha,price is one factor, but a quick search online,and you'll see there are many many benefits to BF over formula.I'm glad to see more women nursing!At one time,women were told formula was best.That was wrong.We need to show the truth
by Marisol
Aug 13, 2008 1:35 PM
I'm glad to see there is talk about breastfeeding. The more information there is out there for new mothers the better. Its hard to breastfeed (time-consuming, pumping, etc) but its another good thing mothers can do for their child. Worth the sacrific
by Another Heather
Aug 13, 2008 1:35 PM
Britt - Follow your instincts and get support, like La Leche League. You can go before baby is born. Breast milk contains immunity factors, and nursing develops jaw/face muscles properly. Nutrition in breast milk is perfectly bio-available.
by mary
Aug 13, 2008 9:52 AM
every woman i have spoke w/ on this subject say it didnt feel right? i asked what about with a man and that was ok...i nursed my daughter for 2 years and my son 14 months and loved it. the benefits are the icing on the cake!
by Frances
Aug 12, 2008 4:36 PM
You might want to say modern African American Mothers does not breast feed but you must know the history of African American Women and the role they played inbreast feeding this article might have read differently. Subject requires more research.
by Heather
Aug 12, 2008 3:01 PM
Loretha, I'm very sorry if you feel like anyone has ever looked down on another mom for not being able to breastfeed, for any reason. Breastfeeding doesn't make you any more or less of a mom, however you are able to feed your child is perfect!
by Maria
Aug 12, 2008 2:24 PM
I was convinced about the need to breastfeed because of the enormous amount of scientific evidence about its benefits: higher IQ, higher social class -- and less likely to develop MS, cancer, obesity, asthma, ear infections, SIDS. How could I not?
by Loretha
Aug 12, 2008 1:25 PM
Get real all of you. Breast feeding is being done more often because it is cheaper. There are NO benefits otherwise. It doesn't make your kids closer to you. Formula has vitamins. Remember, not all can breastfeed so don't look down on others
by Chrissie
Aug 12, 2008 11:25 AM
Yea! Well I agree with Mary, Progress is progress. I'm very happy to see it. Don't forget one of the best bfing support websites is from our area, kellymom.com. Thank you to SPT for once again addressing this important issue.
by Britt
Aug 12, 2008 9:40 AM
Its hard for working white women also. I am due to give birth to my son in 2 weeks & I have had a lot of naysayers about breastfeeding from my family and friends. They do not think that the benefits outweigh the inconveniences of it-But theyre wrong.
by Marie
Aug 12, 2008 9:39 AM
100% of mothers should breastfeed until the babies ween themselves, which is 2-3 year natural time span. Nothing less than what is biologically natural should be expected or tolerated. All mammals have natural gestation and lactation times.
by mary
Aug 12, 2008 9:39 AM
it is a stupid american problem. your breast were made for nursing having a baby suck on them and not for a mans sexual pleasure. put your child first and nurse...it should be mandatory and formula prescription used for those who absolutely cannot.
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