The surrogate
It begins with a woman who yearns for a baby and another who is willing and able to give her one. You can imagine the motives of the prospective parents. But what about the woman willing to carry a baby, give birth and then walk away?
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By
Elisabeth Dyer, Times Staff Writer
In print: Saturday, May 3, 2008
The Rice family of Carrollwood has faced years of health and financial hardship. From left are Miriam Rice, 3, dad Robert Rice, mom Nicole Rice, Madison Rice, 6, and Audra Rice, 12.
TAMPA — The Rice family stays home day in, day out, saving gas for necessary trips such as turning in job applications and getting the three girls, 12, 6 and 3, to school or to doctor's visits.
"We have nothing," Nicole Rice said from the Carrollwood home the family rents.
But help is on the way.
On Saturday morning, Taina Benitez, along with 30 do-gooders from a recently formed group called the Tampa Big Givers, will bring food, clothing and household supplies to the family.
"We're not here to solve their problems but to alleviate stress in the middle a bad situation," Benitez said. This visit will be the group's first joint effort.
For the Rice family, as is often the case, one unfortunate event triggered others.
In 2004, 18-month-old Madison was diagnosed with nephrotic syndrome. Her kidneys stopped absorbing protein.
Now 6, Madison requires full-time care and a low-sodium diet. She may need a new kidney. A common cold can send her to the hospital. Her mother, Nicole, gave up her job at Wal-Mart to tend to her daughter's needs.
That same year, Hurricane Charley flooded the family's Avon Park home forcing them to evacuate into a FEMA trailer.
Then, in 2005, Nicole had a stroke. Then, in 2007, her husband, Robert, lost his job, after missing too many days to care for his family.
In March, a bank foreclosed on their home and the couple moved to Tampa with all of their possessions stuffed in a van.
"We just couldn't crawl back out," Nicole said.
Desperate for help, she contacted Drew's Big Give after watching the Oprah Winfrey Show and seeing the story of Drew, a 5-year-old who gave to the needy. Drew's Big Give referred the Rice family to the Tampa Big Givers.
Despite everything they lost, the husband and wife try to remain optimistic.
"We have each other and that's all that matters," Rice said. "None of that stuff means anything."
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How to help
To learn more about Tampa Big Givers or join the program, go to www.Tampa BigGivers.com.
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Comments on this article
by Susan
May 5, 2008 1:57 PM
How encouraging to recognize and act upon that recognition of people in need! BigGivers is a beacon of light in what sometimes feels to be an uncaring society!
by Inez
May 5, 2008 9:14 AM
It is so up lifting to read about people helping people. Not for fame or fortune, but for the good they can do for others. Wonderful people the BigGivers.
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