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By
Jodie Tillman, Times Staff Writer
In print: Thursday, June 5, 2008
Caliente officials say most of the attention stems from its attempt to increase revenue by marketing toward a younger demographic through Web sites, mainstream media ads and monthly theme parties.
LAND O'LAKES — In this gated community, the theme parties start late, and the invitations alone are enough to upset the neighbors.
"Ladies break out those naughty school girl outfits," one invitation said. "It's time to tease your way into those good grades."
"Party like a rock star," said another. "Dress like a porn star."
The neighbors are all nudists who live at Caliente Resort & Spa, Pasco's upscale, clothing-optional community that attracts thousands of tourists each year and is a full-time home to hundreds of people.
And the parties in question are monthly, sexually charged events put on by an outside "lifestyle," or swingers, group with Caliente's blessing — sparking a debate over the nature of nudism, which devotees defend as natural and nonsexualized.
"We don't want to be thrown in with the whole hedonism thing," said Doug Butler, president of the association that represents more than 350 single-family homes and condominiums.
Complaints about Caliente's connection with swingers groups reached the American Association for Nude Recreation, which late last month temporarily suspended the resort from its organization.
Association spokeswoman Carolyn Hawkins confirmed an investigation was under way but would not elaborate on it.
The association, a national organization that requires its club and resorts to be family friendly, could decide as soon as August whether to reinstate Caliente. At risk if Caliente were to lose its membership: marketing assistance, lobbying on nudist issues and discounted membership fees that attract tourists.
Caliente officials chalked the suspension up to a "misunderstanding" about information that was on some third-party Web sites run by swingers groups.
A group called the Swingers Club List, for instance, has Caliente on its Web site as a suggested destination, though swingers gave mixed reactions.
One person who posted on the group's Web site said Caliente "is all you want it to be … it swings at night and is friendly in the daytime." Another posting said: "You must be kidding. … We went there and there are children and grandparents. Not what I would call a fun place."
Caliente management said the resort "has very specific rules to provide a safe naturalist environment for our members and guests. We do not allow public displays of affection in our common areas and this policy is enforced by Caliente security."
Caliente has no reference to swingers on its Web site, though its marketing director, Angye Fox, is a featured speaker at Swingfest '08, the "world's largest swingers party and adult expo" next month in Hollywood, Fla. Her topic: "Swingers and Nudists Can Coexist!"
Caliente officials say most of the attention stems from its attempt to increase revenue by marketing toward a younger demographic through Web sites, mainstream media ads and monthly theme parties.
Aahz Party Lifestyle Group puts on the "lifestyle" parties. Peter Smith, who runs Aahz's Web site and has attended the events, said nothing untoward happens there.
"I think they're trying to make it more of something than it is," he said of critics. "It's not that kind of party. You go there and the people are just real sexy."
He said Caliente benefits because the party guests are more likely to spend money at the club than the residents.
"They want Caliente to be strictly their kind of people," he said. "The problem is, they don't want to spend a dime."
Butler, the homeowner, said he understood why Caliente is trying to reach a younger crowd. But he worries those efforts are cultivating a bad perception — especially on the swingers Web sites that Caliente can't control.
Perception can be everything, said Arlene Reed, the marketing and activities director for Lake Como, another Pasco nudist resort. She said Lake Como has adults-only parties, but only because there is alcohol. She said she wouldn't want the parties to take on a sexual nature, and she wouldn't want to be associated with swingers clubs.
"What goes on behind closed doors is their business," she said. "But in the public eye, we don't associate with it or promote it."
Pasco officials recently got an anonymous complaint about swingers parties at private homes at Caliente, said County Commissioner Pat Mulieri. She questioned what the county could do if the parties aren't in a public place. Still, she said she hoped that Caliente tamped down the sexually themed parties, given that the county promotes its nudist resorts to tourists.
"I don't blame the people who live there," she said. "There are million-dollar homes out there. Why would they want to jeopardize that? I just think it puts kind of a black eye on the place. I've always said, 'Nude isn't lewd.' "
Smith, with the Aahz party group, said the parties aren't lewd, either.
"Ninety percent of the lifestyle people that go there are dressed," he said. "The nudists are the ones who go there naked."
Jodie Tillman can be reached at jtillman@sptimes.com or (727) 869-6247.
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Comments on this article
by Dane
Jun 6, 2008 2:20 PM
My wife & I have been nudists for yrs & luv the sexy dancin nitelife. It's only when we go dancing in textile bars that we find people who will approach you in disrespectful ways. Nudists & swingers have always treated us with respect. We feel safe!
by Claudia
Jun 6, 2008 1:52 PM
There is a difference in nudism or naturalism and pornography. Nudism believes in the freedom from the restrictions of clothing, Porn is for sexual gratification. Naturist groups like naturistmingle.com are looking for people who are open minded.
by Jim
Jun 6, 2008 1:45 PM
What? Young hot women running around nude wanting to have sex. This is going on right here in Pasco County?
WHERE??? I need an address, here!
by Blink
Jun 5, 2008 9:04 PM
Sal,the cretin comment only serves to prove your ignorance.I wonder if any of these outraged members are owners of properties in the rental pool that are now sold out almost every weekend that Aahz events take place.Be careful what you wish for...
by John
Jun 5, 2008 9:02 PM
Did anyone besides me have a problem with the reporter's sensationalistic hack-job of a story, paraphrasing incorrectly and then quoting out of context in order to imply something that simply isn't true?
Shouldn't we expect better reporting?
by Johnny
Jun 5, 2008 9:01 PM
The people who are against these adults only parties must be the same ones who yell at the kidz to "get off my lawn and stop making so much noise!"
Watching Lawrence Welk reruns naked is just as boring as watching Lawrence Welk reruns clothed. Sigh.
by Mark
Jun 5, 2008 6:52 PM
Greg,Look up nudist history-no swinging.Look at AANR & TNS sites-no swinging.Angie helps confuse people & thats WHY the vanilla world hates us.No fighting, just keep conflicting activities separate. Nudists have the right to their own places.
by Chris
Jun 5, 2008 6:44 PM
Swinging sure beats tapping your foot in an airport bathroom stall. If more people participated in it, our divorce rate would probably go DOWN. Monagamy is a religious idea that causes much disappointment these days. Technology can prevent STDS now
by Sal
Jun 5, 2008 4:41 PM
I'm tired of the pro-nude lobby in Pasco. So they spend money here, we all do, we live here! I'm always wondering what types of "vacationers" they bring to Pasco. This article confirms my suspicians, they are bringing in cretins from the net!
by Jason
Jun 5, 2008 4:39 PM
I hope all this press makes the parties that much bigger and better. Come on out people and see what they are all about. I am sure you will have as much fun as my wife and I do.
by Greg
Jun 5, 2008 3:35 PM
Mark - both swingers and nudists get enough crap from the vanilla world. Now you want the nudists to start fighting with the swingers? Maybe we could all gang up on the gays next? I think we should all praise Angie for speaking at Swingfest!
by Carmine
Jun 5, 2008 3:34 PM
why isn't there more pictures??
by Sara
Jun 5, 2008 3:34 PM
I believe the problem is that as an AANR member I want to be assured that when I visit an AANR affiliated resort it is not a swingers play pen.
by Chris
Jun 5, 2008 3:33 PM
Well said Grandma. Mark, I'm sorry you weren't invited to the parties. Perhaps in another life!
by jorgazm
Jun 5, 2008 3:11 PM
Bottom line is that Caliente is a business that is concerned about its OWN bottom line. They have very nice resort and entertainment facilities that are under-used by their residents. They have a right to make a profit, and the parties bring in big $
by grandma
Jun 5, 2008 3:08 PM
nudist and swingers at any nudist resort has always coexisted under one roof. if a party takes over your club once a week/month stay home that night, but i bet all of you stay up and go out that night to see what goes on or u wouldn't be complaining.
by Chris
Jun 5, 2008 3:07 PM
Retta, would you stop driving a car if you got ripped of by a shady salesman? There are bad people everwhere sowhy blame a resort that sold them a membership? Caliente is one of the nicest and safest places my wife and I have ever visited.
by Mark
Jun 5, 2008 3:07 PM
This could set a precedent of whether AANR will protect nudism, or let it decay into a lewd & ultimately destructive swinger industry. Please email AANR & encourage them to keep standing up for nudism.CALIENTE-you're either swinger OR nudist-not both
by Caliente member
Jun 5, 2008 3:07 PM
The Aahz parties are no different than holiday parties that have been going on at Caliente and other local resorts for decades, and age, ID & "conduct" rules on the club grounds are more strict than at night clubs. Sex on club grounds is prohibited!
by Bill
Jun 5, 2008 2:41 PM
Not all nudists are swingers...but all swingers are nudists if they can find a place to be naked!!
by Chris
Jun 5, 2008 2:40 PM
The reason why the "nudists" are so upset is because the very LARGE majority of them are retired. These "sex" parties are held by the younger members that visit for the 3 day weekends and they don't invite the older residents. It's a bit of jealousy
by Mark
Jun 5, 2008 2:40 PM
Feel sorry for the Nudist Homeowners who made a huge investment in property at Caliente. They have no control over the resort management, who changed the resort from nudist to clothing optional and then hooked up with the swingers.
by retta
Jun 5, 2008 2:40 PM
i will be glad to see this disgusting resort closed for good.
i am ashamed to say that i once was a member of what i thought was a beautiful serene nudist resort, to later get huselled by these porn movie makers that are members that also live ther
by jorgazm
Jun 5, 2008 2:40 PM
ME: That's one of the stupidest things I've ever read. Clothes protect you from disease?! HA! Maybe you should just go live like the Boy in the Bubble. And why are you shouting?
by jorgazm
Jun 5, 2008 2:40 PM
Speaking from experience, these parties are great fun, but they are private, and no sex happens at them. The issue is Caliente's membership in AANR (with their "no-touch" policy), which I couldn't care less about. It's a stupid policy anyway.
by Mary
Jun 5, 2008 1:55 PM
Caliente did have links to a swingers' website & listed as going to the swing convention. AANR was silly enough to think that removing the links and their name from the convention website would solve everything. The marketing was aimed at swingers.
by lara
Jun 5, 2008 1:39 PM
Big deal. People without clothes on. In other countries this is shown in the regular newspapers and on television. Talk about prudes.
by Chris
Jun 5, 2008 1:37 PM
Saying that nudists (or naturists or swingers)are "weak minded" and need attention is such an ignorant statement Alan. It takes a much stronger mind and self esteem to shed your clothes in front of others.Why do prudes care what happens in prvt?
by TC
Jun 5, 2008 12:55 PM
Prudes... what is this neighborhood full of rich soccer mommies in their mom jeans and their eco terrorist suvs!! They need to get a hobby, leave the nudists alone, or better yet, join them, you might actually have some fun
by David
Jun 5, 2008 12:54 PM
The last line is telling: "Ninety percent of the lifestyle people that go there are dressed," he said. "The nudists are the ones who go there naked." Obviously, this guy does not understand the naturist lifestyle. He's in the wrong job.
by bubba
Jun 5, 2008 12:54 PM
GEE WHY IS EVERY ONE CRYING?YOU WELL NOT JOIN THEIR CLUB BUT YOU WHAT TO CRY ABOUT THEM AND TELL THEM WHAT TO DO!THEY R BEHIND CLOSED WALLS NOT OPEN TO U SO STOP CRYING!UR KIDS CAN NOT SEE NOR CAN U!JOIN HAVE FUN IT UP TO U IF U DO ANYTHING!MORONS
by steve
Jun 5, 2008 12:54 PM
why are women in the picture buying clothes at a nudist colony?
by ME
Jun 5, 2008 12:54 PM
GET REAL!! WITH ALL THESE DISEASES STD,MURSA, IT SHOULD BE MANDATORY TO WEAR CLOTHES, YEARS AGO U DIDNT HAVE TO BUT NOW THERES TOO MANY DISEASES EVEN IN THE AIR!!
by ALAN
Jun 5, 2008 12:54 PM
NUDIST'S IT IS THAT THEY THINK THERE PRETTY ,OR IS IT THAT THEY ARE SHAMLESS PEOPLES AND DONT CARE .OR IS IT THAT THEY NEED SOME TYPE OF ATTENTION THAT THERE WEAK MINDS DONT OFFER THEM IT'S TOO BAD THAT THEY HAVE TO LIVE THAT WAY ,YA KNOW LOOK AT ME
by Greg
Jun 5, 2008 11:27 AM
Isn't the argument for being nude that it is natural? Isn't sex natural? It would seem there is a double standard here
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