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By
Dong-Phuong Nguyen, Times Staff Writer
In print: Friday, July 11, 2008
A mother caresses her daughter’s arm. Attacked at a library in April, the 18-year-old is now in a coma. Splints are to prevent atrophy; the toys are from friends.
A box at the Bloomingdale library, where the girl was attacked.
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From the day she was born, her mother's dream for her was that she go to college.
The family raised her to put education first so that she could one day contribute something positive to a society that gave her immigrant mother freedom.
The girl with the dark silky hair is supposed to be preparing for college at the University of Florida, where she has a full scholarship.
Instead, she lies limp in a hospital bed, unable to do simple things like swallow, talk or stand. She can blink her eyes, yet she cannot see.
"Her brain is damaged," her mother said Thursday during an interview conducted in Vietnamese. "My soul is broken."
The 18-year-old was a senior at East Bay High School on April 24, the night she was raped and her skull bashed while she was returning books to the Bloomingdale Regional Public Library.
In the months following, her family locked itself away from the world, stepping into a private, numbing hell that few can ever comprehend.
Her mother never left her side, refusing even to answer her cell phone when her own mother called.
On Thursday, she asked for prayers for her child, who recently was moved to a rehabilitation facility where she is having to relearn everything.
"My whole life is taking care" of her, the girl's mother said. "I want to request the community to pray for her, for every pastor during every service, to please pray for her 100 percent recovery."
The Times is not identifying the victim or her mother because of the nature of the crime.
The girl, who had just turned 18 when the vicious attack occurred, was returning books to the after-hours drop box when she told a friend over her cell phone that a weird man was sitting on the bench. The friend heard a scream and the line went dead.
Her mom was at home getting ready for bed when the friend called. The mother rushed to the library with friends and family and discovered her child's battered body.
Three days later, the girl asked a deputy from her hospital bed, "Why me?"
She asked why she couldn't see. She had suffered fractures to her forehead and nose and multiple strokes from being choked.
The next day, the swelling on her brain spread and she slipped into a coma. She has not uttered a word since.
Authorities say she was attacked by Kendrick Morris, a 16-year-old Clair-Mel teen charged as an adult in connection with two rapes — one at the library and another of a 61-year-old woman at a day care near his home last June.
He remains in jail without bail on nine felony charges.
"He is the devil," the victim's mother says. "He is not a human being."
The first few months were a blur, her mom says, days filled with tears and disbelief.
Before this assault, the worst event of her mother's life had been her journey to America. She was 18 when she paid smugglers to get her out of Vietnam, slipping out of the country by boat. The woman thought she was near death many times. When they spotted land, she said, she felt a glimmer of hope.
For her daughter, she wants to see land. She wants to feel that same hope again.
She has come to grips with the assault on her daughter, explaining that God used her daughter to stop "the devil" from committing other crimes.
"I have to believe that," she says.
She sleeps on a cot next to her battered daughter, leaving her side once a week for about three hours when she goes home to shower.
Each morning, the mom accompanies her daughter to physical therapy, where on Thursday, the girl stood for 45 minutes, bringing tears of joy to her mom's eyes.
Otherwise, the girl stays in her hospital bed, surrounded by stuffed animals that friends have given her. Soft music plays on a portable CD player. Snapshots of the smiling teenager are posted on a wall.
She was active in honor clubs, played on the soccer team and gave her mom, who was a single mother for many years, gifts on Father's Day.
"You are so beautiful," her mom tells her as she runs her hands through her long hair, which a nurse has lovingly braided. The girl smiles wide.
Her face says it all, her mom says. When she is in pain, she cries. When she is happy, she smiles.
Each night, her mom massages face cream onto the girl's skin, which makes her smile. Talk of shopping, Thai curry and promises of a puppy all bring smiles to her face.
"My strength is through" her, her mom says. "When she has a good day, I have a good day. When she has a bad day, I have a bad day."
They do not know if she will ever see again. They do not know how far she will go in recovery.
But her mom still dreams that one day her daughter will go to college.
Gainesville seems far away now, she says. When that day comes, they will get an apartment together. Her daughter will come home to her, where she can keep her safe.
Dong-Phuong Nguyen can be reached at (813) 269-5312 or nguyen@sptimes.com.
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How to help
An account has been set up for the family at SunTrust Bank. To contribute, go to any SunTrust Bank and ask that a deposit be made to the Bloomingdale library assault victim fund.
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Comments on this article
by VQ
Jul 16, 2008 2:21 PM
My prayers are with her and family.
Take authority over any illness that she is epxeriencing. Plead the blood of Jesus over her from head to toe. There is nothing our God can not do!
I pray for healing on her as well as you, Mom.
God bless!
by Steve
Jul 13, 2008 7:13 PM
Joe Waller, where are you now? If you are REALLY concerned about people and their rights - Speak out now. Or do you even care about her based on what you base everything on.
by preston
Jul 13, 2008 9:55 AM
when the person who did this to your child, face the music i pray he gets the death penality or better yet put
him in a cell with bubba so he may
experence what rape fells like.
by Rodger
Jul 13, 2008 9:54 AM
You people slay me, where was your god when this little girl needed him?
by Jackie
Jul 13, 2008 7:54 AM
This is HORRIBLE. Who could EVER do something like this to someone? I was visiting my grandparents when this happened and it tore at my heart then. I think about your family often and I hope she pulls thru this.
by renee
Jul 12, 2008 11:30 PM
I will pray for the family and the young lady. The guy was no guy he was a MONSTER to do this to someone so preciuos to a mother. I wonder his mother is thinking. I HOPE HE GETS BEAT IN JAIL like he did to his victims, so he can fell what he did.
by mom
Jul 12, 2008 11:29 PM
our prayers are with you and your daughter! MEN ARE SUCH PERVERTS!! WHY DO THEY HAVE TO STOOP SO LOW FOR A CHILD?? THATS WHATS WRONG WITH THIS WORLD, TOO MANY DIRTY BOOKS, BARS, AND OVERSEXED IDIOTS!!! WHAT HAPPEN TO LOVE THY NEIGHBOR?? LETS HAVE IT!
by pregador
Jul 12, 2008 7:33 PM
What is sad is that she is in prison for possibly her whole life and the dirtbag who committed the crime will probably just live in prison- maybe not even for life. Too bad the SCUS will not allow dirt like him to be executed. BRING BACK OL' SPARKY
by Corrine
Jul 12, 2008 7:33 PM
What a horrendous ordeal you and your daughter are going through. May God Bless you and know that many prayers are being sent your way . . .
by Honor
Jul 12, 2008 7:33 PM
Don't refer to the perpetrator as an animal, animals generally only attack to defend themselves. Animals are nicer and innocent.
by John
Jul 12, 2008 7:33 PM
Parents don't realize what todays music does to their children
by mba
Jul 12, 2008 7:32 PM
Put me as a juror he wouldnt get out alive
by Peggy
Jul 12, 2008 7:32 PM
Thank you for writing this article. We are contributing money to the victim fund. We will keep the victim and her family in our prayers.
by Phyllis
Jul 12, 2008 7:32 PM
I will keep you and your daughter in my thoughts and prayers.
by San Diego
Jul 12, 2008 7:32 PM
As a 34 year father of a 3 year old daughter...i teared before i could finish reading this.
::prayers to you and your family::
by SpitBaby
Jul 12, 2008 7:32 PM
Yeah I guess we won't see the thugs mother or grandmother on the news anymore spewing garbage what a good boy he is or they just arrested him because he is black. His relatives should be holding their head in shame and get out of the area.
by Deb
Jul 12, 2008 7:32 PM
MY prayers go out to them. The attacker should get the death sentance, and why was he loose? He did this once before to a 61 yr old woman.
by ruth
Jul 12, 2008 7:32 PM
The "monster" is 16 and his life is a senseless tragedy, too. Imagine what a person would go through to be so violent and hateful at 16. I don't have to imagine; I've worked at inner city elementary schools with those kids. It's unforgettable.
by terri
Jul 12, 2008 7:31 PM
dear friend, I am praying for your daughter and you everyday now and will light a candle along side my mother's for her.
i am struggling with a disease and have gained so much strength from you. please know you have many prayers and blessings.
by Marilyn
Jul 12, 2008 7:31 PM
I am praying with all my heart and soul for this couragous Mother and Daughter. I would like to help in anyway,if I knew how. Right now, I'm praying for her a full recovery.
by Laura
Jul 12, 2008 7:31 PM
I know that God's hand will touch upon all of you & your daughter. You mom, will find the strength to get through all this. GOD gives you only what you can handle for HIS reasons alone. Continue to have faith in prayers, be strong, You can do it!
by Aj
Jul 12, 2008 7:31 PM
Agreed, the judge who let him out should be responsible as well! Give the judege time, us parents are responsible for our kids and they should be as well. Rape a life sentence. Why do we let them out? Once is not enough? a 20 cent bullet will do!!!!!
by Christine
Jul 12, 2008 7:31 PM
This story is heart-wrenching. God bless you and your daughter. That monster, coward....there are no words.......
by Kristine
Jul 12, 2008 7:31 PM
My heart goes out to your family. What a horrible act of violence.You and your daughter will be in our prayers. Keep the faith and know that there is hope.
by Gabriel
Jul 12, 2008 7:31 PM
I was threatened more than once at the Sarasota library and the security took longer than getting a SPD squad car to appear.....20-30 minutes response time.
by M C
Jul 12, 2008 7:30 PM
I'm sick and tired of hearing about stuff like this. The Morris freak should be executed. There is no need to keep someone like him alive or supported in any way!
by Mel
Jul 12, 2008 7:30 PM
If he ever gets out, he will ruin someone elses life. Please, Please Please, FL Justice System, do not EVER let him out! He can not be rehabilitated, no matter what his mother says! Prayers to the victim and her family...God Bless...
by tricia
Jul 12, 2008 7:30 PM
This is every parents nightmare. God bless this mother and daughter, they are in my prayers and thoughts.
It breaks my heart that there are people as evil as this boy. I wonder about his parents' intelligence level
by hesh
Jul 12, 2008 7:30 PM
fry this wortless pos.he should never be out to hurt anyone again.....
by Prying in St.Pete
Jul 11, 2008 10:53 PM
your hearts go out to you and your family. well pry for you and your daughter and hope that P.O.S gets what he deserves. please keep us updated
by Ann
Jul 11, 2008 10:53 PM
What a tragedy. My heart goes out to your and your family. I just hope that with good medical care she will come through this and enjoy the rest of her life.
by BB
Jul 11, 2008 8:11 PM
My heart goes out to you and your family.
by ruth
Jul 11, 2008 8:06 PM
I have 3 daughters, one at UF. I pray for you and your daughter and I think of you everyday. May God bless you and heal her and may His face shine upon you with His hope. The community is behind you and your family.
by Brooklyn
Jul 11, 2008 8:04 PM
Oh My god, he is horrible. Some people are just ruthless. I agree with J Let him Burn!!I pray to god she recovers.
by Joe
Jul 11, 2008 4:35 PM
Donate as much as you can people - this girl deserves it.
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