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Man jailed for brown lawn gets help from neighbors
By
Erin Sullivan, Times Staff Writer
In print: Monday, October 13, 2008
Free from jail, Joseph Prudente, 66, inspects his new lawn with pride Sunday. Prudente, who says he barely has enough to pay the mortgage, was jailed for having a brown lawn.
Joseph Prudente was jailed for his brown lawn, shown on Friday, in Beacon Woods. Prudente came home from jail Sunday to a freshly landscaped lawn, courtesy of friends and neighbors.
BAYONET POINT — Andy Law was eating breakfast with his girlfriend, Mary Dinan, at their Hudson home Saturday morning when she pushed the newspaper at him.
"Read this," she said.
It was a story in the St. Petersburg Times about a 66-year-old grandfather, Joseph Prudente, who was jailed without bail on Friday because his lawn was brown. For nearly a year, he ignored letters from his Beacon Woods homeowners' association and a court order because, he said, he barely had the money to pay his mortgage. He was trying to keep his house and didn't care about the lawn.
"This is not right," Law said. He was livid.
Law's own handyman business had slowed to nothing, and both he and Dinan lost money when they sold their houses to buy this, their dream home on 5 acres, which they likely will lose. Both are considering bankruptcy.
Law is a Marine and a problem solver. He is not used to feeling helpless.
But, he thought, he could fix this for Mr. Prudente.
"I'm going to do something," Law told his girlfriend.
"What can you do?" she said.
"I'm going to help," he said, and was out the door.
• • •
Pat Prudente was in her bedroom when she heard a knock at the door. "Go away," she thought.
She was in a black daze, thinking of her husband. They've been married for 23 years and met while both worked at a hospital in New York.
Pat is fiery and Joseph is calm. Even as he left for jail, clutching a grocery bag full of medicine, he tried to joke and make her feel better.
The two moved into their four-bedroom Beacon Woods home 10 years ago and they live off his pension.
The knock was insistent.
"Fine," Pat thought, and got up.
It was Law, who found their address in an old phone book. He told her they were going to get her husband home and started calling everyone he knew to come help.
He got a guy to let him borrow a machine to remove the old grass. Two companies donated sod. Soon, the yard was full of people. Pasco County Commissioner Jack Mariano also read the story, found the house, canceled a speech and went to work.
"I've never seen someone so important get dirty," said Jennifer Lehr, 32, who is Pat's daughter and calls Joseph her dad. Lehr, her husband and their two young daughters moved into the house two years ago after barely scraping by on their own.
Jennifer and Pat kept trying to feed the strangers working on their lawn, but they kept saying no, to not spend their money.
A man came to fix the sprinkler. People dropped off checks. A neighbor looked at all the work being done and cried because she felt her faith in humanity restored.
By 6 that evening, the yard was done. There were blocks of new grass, red mulch, flowers and a working sprinkler.
A few minutes after everyone left, there was a sudden, thick downpour. Jennifer stood in it, feeling the rain, arms wide. And when it stopped, there was a rainbow stretching over the house.
She looked up and thought, "Our luck is changing."
• • •
Joseph Prudente had a court hearing Sunday morning, arranged by Mariano, Pasco Sheriff Bob White and others. After hearing testimony from a Beacon Woods Civic Association representative that the work had been done, Circuit Judge W. Lowell Bray said Joseph Prudente could be released, though he still faces court and association fines.
When Pat Prudente drove up to the jail at noon, her husband was already out and waiting on a bench. She flew out of the car and kissed him. He said he had been treated fine. The guards were nice to him. And then he asked his wife if it was okay if they dropped off another inmate, a woman who also had just been released, at her home because she didn't have a ride. She said "of course."
The rest of the family waited at the house, along with Mariano and his wife and children, and Law and his girlfriend.
Joseph Prudente didn't know about the work that had been done at his home, about the strangers who came together to help him.
And when he pulled in the driveway and stepped out of his car, he cried.
"Welcome home," Law said, and shook his hand.
Erin Sullivan can be reached at esullivan@sptimes.com or (813) 909-4609.
>>fast facts
Help for communities
• District 5 Pasco County Commissioner Jack Mariano said the county will soon launch the Neighborhood Stabilization Program, which is federally funded and aimed to help local governments cope with the foreclosure crisis. The county will get nearly $20-million to buy and resell homes emptied by foreclosures and protect neighborhoods from blight.
• For information on this program, go to www.hud.gov/offices/cpd/community development/programs/neighborhoodspg/
• To contact Mariano: jmariano@pascocountyfl.net or call (727) 847-8100 or (352) 521-4111.
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Comments on this article
by RE
Oct 14, 2008 1:49 PM
Praise God for people like Andy Law, Jack Mariano and all those others who helped onthis project. It sounds like one of the old time barn raisings where neighbors came together to help. We need to return to those ideals if we are to survive!
by Cindy
Oct 14, 2008 1:49 PM
omg! Does it make sense to tell someone to fix their lawn while they're in jail? Where is he going to come up with the money while incarcerated? Thank God for real human people with hearts who came to the rescue instead of his lovely neighbors.
by Billy
Oct 14, 2008 1:48 PM
Sad day at Beacon Woods! Nasty HOA. Maybe they could have offered some assistance instead of being jerks. Time to drive Beacon Woods and inspect the HOA executives homes! Yes indeedy! Water those lawns! Conserve water? Not at BW! Ask the gestapo!lol
by Casey
Oct 14, 2008 1:48 PM
I really feel bad for this gentleman going through hard economic times. But, two thoughts - moving into a subdivision with a homeowner's association means you agree to the rules, and that includes lawn enforcement. Second - when I bought my house, the HOA almost immediately started sending letters about the condition of the lawn and that it needed to be fixed. It was left that way by the previous owners. By simply calling the company managing the HOA, explaining the situation, and that steps were being taken to fix a lawn in bad shape, they said 'makes sense,' and haven't heard from them again. Ignoring things like this is a mistake - just talk to them, and they will go easy.
by Bill
Oct 14, 2008 1:48 PM
The next great battle over scarce resources will be for fresh water. It will not be too long before it will be illegal to waste fresh, potable water on such foolishness as watering a lawn.
by Vince
Oct 14, 2008 1:48 PM
Add my name to the list of those infuriated. And bless Andy Law and everyone else who helped. Judge Bray should be reviewed, he has some explaining to do!
by C.M.
Oct 14, 2008 1:48 PM
This is just another example of the goodness of communities and the evil of housing associations. Out here in the midwest, If you stick your nose in someone elses business, we are likely to warn ya once and only once. I am glad I left Florida.
by Cheryl
Oct 14, 2008 1:48 PM
To the man that says he is on the HOA for Beacon, you could of had a heart and spent the $ on sod instead of putting the man in jail, He didnt have the money. the money spent on court costs could of bought the sod and then volunteers,
by mary
Oct 14, 2008 1:48 PM
jim- after this story noone is going to want to live in your neighborhood anyway- no matter what the value of your homes are! You all should be ashamed of yourselves. Did you help fix the problem? Thank you to those who did.
by Cheryl
Oct 14, 2008 1:47 PM
Shame on the people in this homeowners association!! Maybe if someone from this group had had a conversation with the homeowner, something could have been done to help him instead of the action they took. What a cold heartless bunch!
by TG
Oct 14, 2008 1:47 PM
You all will be blessed for what you have done! Shame on the homeowner's association for taking it that far. If they were that worried about it they could have offered to help. It took total strangers to see the need!
by john
Oct 14, 2008 1:47 PM
We are in a drought for petes sakes
the HOA should be jailed for demanding people water their lawns.
by john
Oct 14, 2008 1:47 PM
George, HOA stink ,You people with the New York comments, getting a little old , Is that your only input to conversations or are you just a little jealous,probably one of those Rays/Buc fans that just got on the bandwagon cause they are winning
by Theresa
Oct 14, 2008 1:47 PM
Sad when a community isn't neighborly. Did it occur to the association they could have helped? Would have been much better press . . . for the future value of their homes and community. You blew it!
by Craig
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
Since when does a Homeowner's association have the authority to have someone jailed? Since when do they write the laws (which supposedly are why folk are jailed)? Answer: It's Standard Operations in a Fascist country.
by cass
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
since this has gone on for months, seed could have been helpful along with a lawn sprinkler. just a suggestion. this community is beautiful & the restrictions keep it that way.
by Lorne
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
This is a deeply depressing story. What difference does the change in fortune of one person make when we live in a county where you can be jailed because of your lawn.
Live free or die? Why bother having a military when we trash freedoms every day
by Ron
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
Carrie-America is gone. It was sold to the illegals, the PC crowd, the corrupt pols. Get used to it. In the coming days you will be required to give all your money to Big Brother, learn 17 languages and spit on anything that smacks of old America.
by KK
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
These situations don't need to be so black or white, during these hard economic times maybe HOA's should do a little thinking outside of the box. Maybe look for ways to work with homeowners, not against them.
by Unbelievable
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
Poor man can't afford to take care of the more important things, but they want his yard to look good. Look around you, everwhere there's homes with brown grass but they're going to make an example out of this guy..How ignorent
by Tony
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
God bless Law, Mariano & the neighbors.
Shame on the HOA and Bray.
by Elizabeth
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
Semper Fi shoutout to Andy Law. You, sir, are a credit to the Corps.
Boo hiss for the Homeowner's Association and the judge.
by Val
Oct 14, 2008 1:46 PM
Disgusting that the HOA thinks a lawn is more important than a person having a place to live.Sadder yet that there are laws that allow the HOA to do this. The HOA people are STUPID if they think their home values won't go down in this economy anyway.
by deb
Oct 14, 2008 1:45 PM
There still are some great people out there, even during bad times
by ray
Oct 14, 2008 1:45 PM
Very sad that our justice system is not insulated from such injustice.
by Rachel
Oct 14, 2008 1:45 PM
Those people are insane requiring green lawns. We need water, not pretty yards. And aren't there enough people in jail? Should we really be giving up the space for officially one of the least dangerous men in America?
by chris
Oct 14, 2008 1:45 PM
This is the reason we moved out of Florida!!
by Jesus
Oct 14, 2008 1:44 PM
2 the moron who calls himself Jim, of course you had a choice, how about helping the old guy instead of forcing your rules & regulations. Self-rightous selfish hippocrit. Your actions speak more than words and now you are a national shame.
by Bill
Oct 14, 2008 1:44 PM
Jim from the HOA - you are full of it...you had plenty of other alternatives then jailing a man for inability to afford a new lawn....there will be a just reward for you in the end
by Ann
Oct 14, 2008 1:44 PM
Mike H, it wasn't a Pinellas judge who ruled in this case. It was a Pasco judge. Basically you're comparing an orange (Pinellas) with a glass of Tang (Pasco)!
by Jason
Oct 14, 2008 1:44 PM
In one state alone we have more people in jail then in any other nation in the world and for what? A brown lawn. smokin a joint. I don't smoke and my lawn is green but what gives the goverment the right to take my liberty over these trivial issues?
by Jason
Oct 14, 2008 1:44 PM
Land of the free??? What a joke. I am now officially ashamed to have been born american. Life, LIBERTY, And the pursuit of happiness. Might as well use the Constituition as tiolet paper.
by Nana
Oct 14, 2008 1:44 PM
You have got to be kidding! This poor man was trying to survive, but you have a HOA worried about how embarrassed that they were seeing a brown lawn, not about his well being, if he was losing his home or had food on the table. How can they sleep?
by Edward
Oct 14, 2008 1:44 PM
What else could you do if you are on a fixed income or unemployed. Beware counties are going to use code enforcement to put anyone they can out on the street (or in jail) to increase their tax revenues. Cap and Homestead is gone and taxes go up$$$$$
by Michael
Oct 14, 2008 1:43 PM
As a tear runs down my cheek I applaud those who helped these people.
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