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Brain tumor robs a scrapper of a future

By Camille C. Spencer, Times Staff Writer
In print: Thursday, November 6, 2008


Hudson High School’s Jesse Bors, left, battles with Wesley Chapel’s Sean Kely for control of the ball during their soccer game at Wesley Chapel in January 2005. Jesse, of Hudson, excelled at soccer. He started playing at age 4.
Hudson High School’s Jesse Bors, left, battles with Wesley Chapel’s Sean Kely for control of the ball during their soccer game at Wesley Chapel in January 2005. Jesse, of Hudson, excelled at soccer. He started playing at age 4.
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He was just 19, but had been in and out of the hospital for the past five months.

Last Thursday was one of his better days. Jesse Bors and his mother were having lunch at Sioux City Steakhouse.

Jesse finished half of his steak and potatoes before telling his mother he was full and tired. Mandy Bors watched her son sit back in his chair and close his eyes. He was unresponsive.

Jesse was having a seizure.

Mandy called 911. Moments later, she sat in the front of an ambulance. The vehicle moved up and down as the rescue workers in the back tried desperately to revive her son.

• • •

Jesse was a fiery redhead, and the second of four boys.

"He was extremely active and hyper," said Mandy, 45. "He bounced off walls."

He started playing soccer at age 4 for a local recreational league in his hometown of Hudson. He joined a competitive league five years later.

He excelled at the sport, playing defense and charging past opposing players with his small, wiry frame.

Because of his red hair and freckles, Sam Hill, Jesse's coach in the First Hernando Soccer Association, called him "Alfred Neuman," after the iconic MAD Magazine character.

"He was always a fighter, a scrapper," Hill said. "He was a little bulldog on the field."

In 2007, he graduated from Hudson High School. Months later, his parents divorced. He lived with his mom, but still spent time with his dad, rebuilding a 1994 Acura Integra.

Jesse continued playing soccer, and ran 8 miles a day to stay in shape.

He worked at Cinema Grill in Port Richey and enrolled in classes at Pasco-Hernando Community College to become an emergency medical technician.

Life rolled along until May of 2008.

• • •

That's when Jesse's mother noticed changes in his behavior.

He was sleeping more and seemed lethargic. Mandy asked her older son, Ben, to find out if Jesse was on drugs.

"He swore he wasn't using drugs," said Ben Bors, 23, a patrolman with the Pasco County Sheriff's Office. "He said something was wrong, but he didn't know what."

A few days later, Ben took his brother to Regional Medical Center Bayonet Point.

By then, Jesse's eyes were losing focus, and he was experiencing memory loss.

He couldn't remember what his mother made for breakfast, where he was or what year he was in.

A doctor at the hospital said he was depressed, and suggested he see a psychiatrist. A week later, his primary doctor checked his vital signs and ordered a CAT Scan at Community Hospital.

Jesse was admitted on May 20.

At 4 a.m. the next day, hospital officials told Mandy that Jesse was moved to the intensive care unit because of confusion and changes in his vision. They performed an MRI, and found a massive brain tumor.

He was taken to Tampa General Hospital's intensive care unit.

"I never thought it was a brain tumor, but I thought, 'Now we can get it fixed,' " said Mandy. "At least now we know."

• • •

The tumor was the size of a peach. It was lodged in the center of Jesse's brain.

Because it was so close to the part of the brain that controls cognitive skills, it was inoperable. No one knew what had caused it.

Doctors inserted a shunt into Jesse's head to relieve pressure from built up brain fluid. He was placed on a ventilator and feeding tube. Another shunt drained fluid to his stomach.

Doctors wanted to treat Jesse with radiation, but the tumor caused him to thrash back and forth uncontrollably. So Ben and Mandy helped strap Jesse to a table for the treatments.

A white mesh mask with Xs drawn on it was placed on his face to map out where radiation would be targeted.

During the radiation treatments, his mother went into a separate room with a window, talking to her son through a microphone.

"I told him to be calm, and that it's almost over," Mandy recalled, tears welling in her eyes. "Just a few more seconds."

Jesse's condition started to improve. After weeks of rehabilitation, he was well enough to go home on June 19.

Months passed, and Jesse had in-home physical therapy, and eventually outpatient physical therapy. He also took oral chemotherapy.

In October, he began treatment at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa, where he received a drug called Avastin, administered through a port in his chest.

• • •

On Oct. 30, the day after his second treatment at Moffitt, Jesse had lunch with his mother at Sioux City Steakhouse. That's when he had the seizure.

Mandy remembers a sinking feeling while rescue workers tried to save Jesse.

"It (the ambulance) was moving up and down, and that's when I knew he was gone."

Later, at Morton Plant North Bay Hospital, a chaplain and a doctor told her that Jesse's heart stopped, and he couldn't be revived.

"His body had become a burden to him," she said. "I felt a sense of release."

Unbeknownst to Mandy, friends had been putting together fundraisers to help with Jesse's expenses. Mandy had stopped working at her house cleaning business in May to care for her son. Her only income was child support payments from her ex-husband.

They originally hoped Jesse could participate in the events, but plan to go on without him. Proceeds will go toward his mother's bills.

"That's what he would have wanted," Mandy said. "For us to continue everything."

Camille C. Spencer can be reached at cspencer@sptimes.com or (727) 869-6229.


>>To help

Fundraisers for Jesse's family

• A poker run will be held on Sunday at Beef O'Brady's, 13706 Little Road in Hudson. Registration begins at 9 a.m. The cost is $10 per person.

• Afterward, there will be a dinner at the American Legion Post #335, 11421 Osceola Drive in Hudson. Dinner is free for poker run participants. The charge is $5 to attend dinner only.

• All donations go to the Bors family.

• For information, go to http://flbbum.tripod.com/.


[Last modified: Nov 09, 2008 01:37 AM]



Comments on this article
by Eddie Oyakhilome Nov 9, 2008 1:37 AM
I coached Jesse at Tarpon FC as a U17 player. Jesse was without a doubt the most coachable player I have ever worked with. He loved the game and was respected by his peers for his hard work and efforts on and off the field. I will 4ever miss you Jess
by Lorie Nov 7, 2008 10:19 PM
Jesse will forever be remembered as the vibrant red head with lots of spunk! Those days on the football field playing with Adam will be in our memories forever. He will be sadly missed.
by Kaylin Nov 7, 2008 10:15 PM
I grew up with Jesse. He use to come to my house every day to hang out with my Brother Adam. We use to call him our red-headed step child. It's so sad to hear that this has happened. My heart goes out to Mandy and her boys.
by jessfriend Nov 7, 2008 11:44 AM
also, thank you tho for leeting it be known about the benefit. Hopefully more people will come out to support Jesse and his family. Welove and miss him
by jessfriend Nov 7, 2008 11:44 AM
also, thank you tho for leeting it be known about the benefit. Hopefully more people will come out to support Jesse and his family. Welove and miss him
by Moon Lake Teacher Nov 7, 2008 11:44 AM
All of The Moon Lake Elementary Staff is heart broken over this news. That energetic "red head" will forever be in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family at this difficult time.
by spellbinding sherry Nov 7, 2008 11:44 AM
I love Mandy's awareness of "a sense of release" since that's exactly what he underwent. Prayers for all of you who love that fireball of a kid.
by Marcy Nov 7, 2008 11:44 AM
There is also a bowling benefit at Leisure Lanes in Hudson 7-10p on Saturday Nov 8. Please come celebrate Jesses life. $10
by vinney Nov 7, 2008 11:44 AM
this is so sad.we went thru the same thng with our daughter.I hear people say it will get better with time.they just dont know what its like to lose a child of your own.I cant say I know how you feel. but I can say I feel your pain so sorry for all
by Tom Nov 7, 2008 11:43 AM
I am very sorry for your loss.It just makes you think how prescious life is and to always focus on the positive and to enjoy today like it was your last.Remember the good times!!!!
by Lauren Nov 7, 2008 11:43 AM
Jesse was an amazing kid, and we have been working on the Benefit to help him and his brothers, mother, and father out. We want as many people to come as possible.
by Alex Nov 7, 2008 11:43 AM
OMG Thats so sad, im so sorry Mrs. Bor Keep on moving, thats all i can say.=)
by Heather Nov 7, 2008 11:43 AM
Very sad, my prayers go out to the family & friends of Jesse.
by Stefanie Nov 7, 2008 11:43 AM
Although this is so sad, it is also so nice to know that Jesse was such a wonderful guy surrounded by such a wonderful family and group of friends. Jesse you will be missed! Mandy, Ben, Shane and Jimmy.... Please live on in Jesse's honor!
by STEFANIE Nov 7, 2008 11:43 AM
I AM VERY GOOD FRIENDS WITH MANDY AND BEN AND IT IS SUCH A HORRIBLE SHAME THAT JESSE WAS TAKEN FROM THEM. I AM SO SORRY FOR OYUR LOSS. PLEASE FIND COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT HE IS IN A MUCH BETTER PLACE NOW AND HE IS NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE.
by Denise Nov 7, 2008 10:33 AM
My deepest sympathy to this wonderful family.Jesse was much to young and vibrant to be taken.He graduated with my son Rocco,and we are devastated to here this news.What a tragity,he was a great kid.You are in our prayers.RIP Jesse.............
by vanessa Nov 6, 2008 11:59 AM
I love this articale.I mean its sad but i love the fact that he didnt give up soccer cuz of a brain tumur. I love the confedince in jesse. BUt its very sad that he died
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