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Susan Stanton's marriage comes to an end

By Lorri Helfand, Times Staff Writer
In print: Tuesday, August 26, 2008


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Susan Stanton says she has good relations with her ex-wife.
Susan Stanton says she has good relations with her ex-wife.

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The Largo city manager fired after revealing plans to become a woman has ended her 18-year marriage.

Susan Stanton, who served Largo for 17 years as Steve Stanton, has agreed to pay alimony and child support to her ex-wife, Donna Stanton, according to court documents filed this month.

Since leaving her post, Stanton, who turns 50 next month, has changed her name to Susan Ashley Stanton and has undergone gender reassignment surgery.

She also has taken part in a CNN documentary about her journey. A 10-minute cut of the film was screened by about 50 people at the National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Association national convention Friday, said Bud Bultman, CNN managing editor. The segment showed who Susan was before she became Susan, Bultman said.

Stanton declined comment for this report. But she told the convention group in Washington, D.C., that she participated in the project because she wanted people to "see the transition — not the physical transition on the Discovery Channel — but the psychological, spiritual, social transition, the impact on friends, family and community," according to a posting on the convention Web site.

A CNN crew plans to finish the project this fall, but no broadcast date has been set, Bultman said.

Stanton said she has a good relationship with her ex-wife, but she has lost most of her friends. Stanton agreed to pay Donna Stanton $4,756 a month in alimony and $800 a month in child support for their son, Travis, 15, according to their marital settlement agreement. Because Susan Stanton has been unable to find work, she agreed to pay a lump sum of $50,000 to cover alimony and child support from April through the end of the year. The money will come from one of her International City/County Management Association retirement plans.

Donna Stanton, 57, will get their Largo home and primary custody of Travis. Susan Stanton will retain 42 percent equity in the home, share parental responsibility and have liberal visitation. Susan Stanton moved to Sarasota but plans to leave the state.

Lorri Helfand can be reached at lorri@sptimes.com or (727) 445-4155.



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Comments on this article
by Jenna Aug 28, 2008 11:15 AM
I think she's brave. Despite knowing many would hate her, she took her stand and moved forward. I admire her for standing up for who she is. How many others in life have risked so much to be true to themselves?
by Jesse Aug 27, 2008 7:34 PM
Who gives a crap!! A weirdo gets divirced from his wife and that is news?? If he had any dignity he would have gotten divorced and then "changed" to save his kids and himself some embarassment. What a jerk!!
by K Aug 27, 2008 2:59 PM
Uhm, thought divorce proceedings were confidential under a certain FLA statute & the general public is not allowed access to such info ... why is this being published?
by Selene Aug 27, 2008 1:42 PM
Cyndi / Leah, who are probably the same person, people are not ignorant just because they disagree with you, thinking that is the height of arrogance.
by karl Aug 27, 2008 1:04 PM
Gender reassignment surgery? Better sked another appointment with Marcus Welby. She still looks like a 70's male British pop star.
by JT Aug 27, 2008 1:04 PM
Thanks for the good news. Glad to her it will be moving out of state!
by James Aug 27, 2008 12:56 PM
So, what does the son do on Father's day? No more cards for Steve -- er Susan? Does he now give two mother's day cards? No father/son potato sack race? Man, feel bad for the former wife and son.
by ken Aug 27, 2008 12:56 PM
got news for you. susan stanton is not a woman, he's a thing. in the new world order, we will have special places for these vermin. Use your imagination.........
by Leah Aug 27, 2008 11:50 AM
So much hate and ignorance in the comments here. The truth is it's a tragedy for all involved.
by Cyndi Aug 27, 2008 11:25 AM
I cannot believe the ignorance of most of the comments. Get over it folks. I applaud Susan for having the courage to finally live the life she has felt was right for her. I suggest you less than intelligent folks do some research on transgendering
by Heidi Aug 26, 2008 4:35 PM
Stanton will always be a man, frankenstein surgery aside. Just as a white who stains his skin black is still caucasian, even if he always "identified" as a african american
by Sara Aug 26, 2008 4:30 PM
What is arrogant & disrespectful is plastering the front page on MOTHER'S DAY with this freak, who "just wanted to be seen as a confident woman." I got news for you - as long as you have a hoo-hoo, you're just a guy in drag!
by Hank Aug 26, 2008 4:25 PM
I have always felt more authentic as WonderWoman, will the SP Times get behind me as I dress up in my cape and demand others take me seriously? Where are you Ms Helfland,... er Ms Helfland?? Hello?
by Viv Aug 26, 2008 4:24 PM
Lily: All the paperwork and fancy clothing in the world will not change the fact that Stanton is a man.
by Dee Aug 26, 2008 4:24 PM
Allison: It isn't the state's problem it's idiot voters are too dumb to cast a ballot. Don't try to blame others for your failings.
by Lane Aug 26, 2008 3:39 PM
Hopefully is poor ex-wife can move on and find a less self-absorbed, self-induulgent man. Good luck, the settlement wasn't enough for what she went through
by JoAnna Aug 26, 2008 3:22 PM
I am happy that susan has been able to divorce and take care of her ex wife and child. The fact that she has not found a job is how it is still. Susan come to Calif where we at least have some rights best of luck to her JoAnna
by TOM Aug 26, 2008 2:09 PM
His DNA hasn't changed .
by Jay Aug 26, 2008 2:09 PM
JR: The surgery does not change the fact he still is a man, it is in his DNA. You cannot surgically create a woman.
by Shannon Aug 26, 2008 2:09 PM
"Repunzel" Just because we aren't buying into somebody's fantasy world doesn't mean we are disrepectful, you are disrepecting others. It is Stanton's right to see himself however he wants, but it isn't what others see.
by Allison Aug 26, 2008 2:09 PM
From reading the comments posted in regards to Ms. Stanton, it seems Floridians still love their Orange with a bit of bigotry. Maybe Floridians should figure out how to hold a successful election instead of displaying bigoted ignorance.
by Jason A. Aug 26, 2008 2:09 PM
Why is this news? Because you took the time and clicked on the link, read the article and then commented on the story. IF you don't think it's news worthy, don't read it. I am curious on how Stanton is going to be able to pay $5500/month in support.
by Lily Aug 26, 2008 2:09 PM
After having gender reassignment surgery, a persons birth certificate and drivers license can be changed to reflect their new gender. So on paper, she is a SHE. Let her and her family live their lives and move on. And no, this really isn't newsworthy
by Rupunzel Aug 26, 2008 11:54 AM
Folks who refuse to respect another self declared gender identity are totally dis-respectful of who that individual really is and drive by the need to control another's sense of self identity. This is arrogant and ignorant behavior plain and simple. Not only did the st. Petersburg journal "out" Susan, the mess there after has for ever affected Susan's place in the gender community. Life has been very difficult for Susan these days and part of what happened was due to Susan's own actions within the gender community.
by Jim Aug 26, 2008 11:53 AM
Zoe - "Transexual" is a made up word to describe one's self imposed mutilation. How sad for a society to continually acknowlege such abhorrent activity. SP Times - find some news.
by JR Aug 26, 2008 11:51 AM
Steve is a Susan after is his re-assignment surgury was completed. His son now has two moms. I wonder who paid for his surgery.
by Piobair Aug 26, 2008 11:38 AM
Why is this news? Exactly how is this any of my business?
by Kurt Aug 26, 2008 10:07 AM
Susan is a man pleas stop refering to him as a her
by Zoe Aug 26, 2008 10:07 AM
I wonder - did the St Petersburg Times journalist who "outed" Susan before she was able to transition in a planned way realise that she'd still be jobless nearly two years later? Please research how Transsexuals are usually treated next time.
by JV Aug 26, 2008 10:07 AM
I wonder if he still thinks this was a good idea. It will be nice when the media fixation (especially by the Times) with this sad individual ends.
by Dawna Aug 26, 2008 10:07 AM
Ms Helfland: Stanton is not a SHE, it is not reporting the facts to print this, it is the Times slant, not fact, he is legally a HE.
by Sal Aug 26, 2008 10:06 AM
Wow, this is big news - NOT!
by bea Aug 26, 2008 10:06 AM
1. What was Donna still doing with him.
by Nothing New Aug 26, 2008 10:06 AM
Any one tired of this "story"?
by Bobbert Aug 26, 2008 10:06 AM
No wonder that they are getting divorced - two women in the same kitchen ? It would never work!
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