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Mormons try to change church's stance on gays

SALT LAKE CITY — Wendy and Tom Montgomery went door-to-door in their California neighborhood in 2008 campaigning for the passage of an antigay marriage proposition. They were among thousands of faithful Mormons following the direction of a church that spent millions on the cause.

Then they learned last year that their 15-year-old son is gay — a revelation that rocked their belief system.

Now, Wendy Montgomery is leading a growing movement among Mormons to push the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to teach that homosexuality isn't a sin.

They are hopeful. The Utah-based church's stance on homosexuality has softened considerably since it was one of the leading forces behind California's Proposition 8. A new website launched this year encourages more compassion toward gays, implores them to stay in the faith, and clarifies that church leaders no longer "necessarily advise" gays to marry people of the opposite sex in what used to be a widely practiced Mormon workaround for homosexuality.

Still, the church has only gone so far. Church apostle Dallin Oaks reiterated this past weekend during a biannual conference that human laws cannot "make moral what God has declared immoral." The church website, launched in December, reinforced that while same-sex attraction itself isn't a sin, succumbing to it is.

The contrasting messages from the church have left many Mormons struggling to figure out where they stand.

Wendy Montgomery, 37, of Bakersfield, Calif., is among them.

She said she doesn't know how long her son will remain in the church, but steps taken in the past year have given her hope that church leaders will one day reverse their stance that homosexuality is a sin.

"It's just not accurate. It's not right. And it's so damaging to the kids," she said.

Mormons try to change church's stance on gays 10/08/13 [Last modified: Tuesday, October 8, 2013 10:55pm]

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