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CLEARWATER — His co-workers called him a fountain of useless information. Bartender Herb Crowley had a seemingly endless command of trivia, especially about baseball. He kept the drinks flowing for members of the Philadelphia Phillies organization who flocked each spring to Joe Dugan's, a restaurant off Gulf-to-Bay where Mr. Crowley tended bar from the late 1980s until several years ago. He kept a baseball almanac by the bar to settle disputes, but often didn't need it.
"He had a reference book in his head," said Granville Sorenson, 72, sitting at the bar at Azara's Sports Bar, a few seats down from where Mr. Crowley collapsed and died late Tuesday. Herbert Crowley was 53.
A Long Island, N.Y., native, Mr. Crowley left college in 1980 for Florida with another bartender. He rented the same apartment, a home he jokingly called his "time capsule," for 22 years at the Royal Breeze Apartments.
"His housecleaning technique left a lot to be desired," said Linda Cruz, 45, who modified Mr. Crowley's bachelor ways. He reminded her of Barney Rubble of The Flintstones.
"He always had some quirky little sarcastic catchphrase," said Bob Krajnik, 55, who tended bar alongside Mr. Crowley. They called the phrases "Herbisms."
A customer's check was a "certificate of indebtedness." When a thickly built man chewed tobacco at the bar, Mr. Crowley asked him not to "expectorate."
"The words he would use, you'd have to say, 'Am I going to have to Google that, Herb?' " said longtime friend Brian Bullock. The witticisms punctuated his interactions, which for a bartender must remain brief. Mr. Crowley prided himself on having mastered "the 30-second conversation," a rundown that somehow covered the bases.
"You can train a chimp to turn over a drink, but you need a little something extra in the delivery," said Bob Esposito, Mr. Crowley's boss at the Safety Harbor Resort and Spa, where he worked for several months before going to the Palm Pavilion. Mr. Crowley had just finished his shift at the Palm Pavilion Grill & Bar when he met Cruz at Azara's before midnight on Tuesday. He ordered a bottle of Miller Lite and a Grand Marnier and chatted about his shift at the Palm.
Moments later, he fell over, unconscious. Paramedics took him to Mease Countryside Hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
"Everybody is very, very taken aback," said JoAnn Wechter of Brady's Backyard BBQ, where Mr. Crowley worked Mondays. She consoles herself with the thought that Herb would have wanted to go out this way.
"He was with the woman he loved," she said, "doing what we love to do in this business after we get off work — having a tall, cold beer."
Andrew Meacham can be reached at amecam@sptimes.com or (813) 661-2431.
.Biography
Herbert F. Crowley
Born: May 20, 1955.
Died: Sept. 2, 2008.
Survivors: brothers Robert and Thomas Crowley.
Celebration of life: 2 p.m. Sept. 20, Frenchy's Tiki Pavilion, Bright House Networks Field, 601 N Old Coachman Road, Clearwater.
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Comments on this article
by Paul
Sep 15, 2008 1:27 PM
Herb, A return home to Clearwater wasn't complete until I visited "the whiskey barrel with arms". Friend, confidante, and mentor to many, you will be missed by all who stood beside you on either side of the bar. Thanks for the memories.
by Chris
Sep 12, 2008 5:32 PM
A Clearwater icon, God bless you Herb.
by Russ
Sep 12, 2008 5:18 PM
Herbie (and his fellow bartenders too - they are all great people) made Dugen's a real life Cheers. No matter what type of day you had, it was better the minute you walked into Dugens where they always knew your name.
by jody
Sep 10, 2008 4:21 PM
herbie made spring training a little easier for philly employes who stumbled across him. he treated us like family, i will miss him
by John
Sep 10, 2008 4:16 PM
A dear friend and great conversationalist. He'll be missed by many, many people.
by Arnie
Sep 10, 2008 4:11 PM
It was almost 30 years ago I walked into Bennigans and met Herb. He was more than a bartender, Herb was a good person. You will not be forgotten my friend. RIP
by keith
Sep 10, 2008 4:09 PM
we will miss you herbie
by Laurie
Sep 9, 2008 4:07 PM
Herb was a great friend who never forgot a name or face, always remembered my birthday..came over to my parents(way back when) for Thanksgiving and Christmas. If he saw you coming he'd have your beer on the bar,or he'd drop everything to hug you.LUVU
by Jim
Sep 9, 2008 3:35 PM
Herb made every visit to his bar an event. We'll miss you Herb!
by Leslie
Sep 9, 2008 3:32 PM
Touched many lives and will be missed by all!
by Patrick
Sep 9, 2008 1:44 PM
Great bartenders are always a wonderful thing. You will be missed.
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