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Young golf phenom wowed the world

By Stephanie Hayes, Times staff writer
In print: Thursday, December 4, 2008


Harris Armstrong, 12, died Monday after a battle with a cancer on his spinal cord.
Harris Armstrong, 12, died Monday after a battle with a cancer on his spinal cord.
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TAMPA — Soon as he could manage two legs, Harris Armstrong held a club.

When Harris was just a year old, his father brought him to a golf course. With a videocamera rolling, Jeff Armstrong practiced his swing. Harris toddled in with a club of his own.

Whack!

"I'm not sure I've played much golf since then," said his father. "But I didn't mind."

Harris had exceptional athletic prowess. He was born almost 10 pounds and 22 inches long. The other moms in playgroup called him the "Gentle Giant." As he grew, his swift hand-eye coordination showed.

Harris, who lived in Hillsborough's Avila community, played football and shot hoops in the driveway. He took golf lessons. When it rained, Harris played anyway, putting and chipping through dark storm clouds.

When he reached fifth grade at Berean Academy, he was good enough to play on the high school team. He competed in regional and national tournaments and was twice a runnerup in the Golf Channel's Drive, Chip and Putt National Championship. People said the soft-spoken redhead had the makings to beat Tiger Woods.

But Harris was modest and didn't crave first place. When his friends jumped in front of cameras, Harris stood back. He hardly ever asked athletes for autographs.

During one schoolyard basketball game, Harris chose a clumsy little boy to join his team. In the heat of play, Harris passed to him — he knew he'd lose the point but thought everyone deserved a chance.

"He was always a gentleman and just a real bright light," said Martha Crane, Berean's grammar school principal. "Even though he was quiet, he still had a real presence about him. He was the kind of boy who naturally reached out to others."

In 2007, Harris found he couldn't make a left-handed layup. His arm didn't hurt, but it didn't work. Some of his golf skills dwindled, too.

The family figured he had a pinched nerve. An MRI revealed a cancerous tumor on his spinal cord. Harris was thrust into a pattern of surgery, chemotherapy, radiation, rehab and more surgery. The tumor was gone, then it was back.

Harris didn't panic.

"He was exceptionally mature," his father said.

He always believed in God. He prayed several times a day with his father, mother, Jan, and sister, Alison. He liked a particular Bible passage from Romans — Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.

His family had "Romans 12:12" printed on white rubber bracelets with the word "Praystrong" on the other side. When his father met people in the hospital, he peeled the bracelet off his own wrist and passed it on.

"Harris embodied being joyful in hope and patient and faithful," said his father. "He exuded that through it all. He never wavered."

Celebrities showered Harris with support. University of Florida football coach Urban Meyer called, confessing an inferior top golf score to Harris (78 to 66). He met Lou Piniella, Tiger Woods, Jon Gruden, Michael Jordan, Annika Sorenstam. He got a note from Jack Nicklaus and Masters flags from PGA pro Chris DiMarco.

Harris struck a particular bond with PGA star Charles Howell III, who wore the Praystrong bracelet on television.

"Harris was a special kid that I enjoyed getting to know," Howell said Wednesday. "He fought hard."

On Monday, Harris died. He was 12.

The next day, the Golf Channel paid respects with a television clip of Harris blasting a golf ball into the sky.

Stephanie Hayes can be reached at shayes@sptimes.com or (727) 893-8857.


Biography

Harris Armstrong

Born: Feb. 5, 1996.

Died: Dec. 1, 2008.

Survivors: parents, Jeff and Jan Armstrong; sister, Alison; grandparents, John and Pat Armstrong, Jay Ward and his wife, Lynn, Bobbye Ward; aunts and uncles, Barry and Laurie Ward, John and Liz Citron, Glenn and Kerri Elmblad, Joe and Julie Zollner; and many cousins.

Services: Visitation 4-7 p.m. Friday at Blount Curry Funeral Home, 3207 W Bearss Ave. Funeral at 1:30 p.m. Saturday at Palma Ceia Presbyterian Church, 3501 W San Jose St., Tampa.


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Comments on this article
by Chris Dec 10, 2008 9:10 PM
Harris was diagnosed almost immediately after I became the golf pro at Avila. He and his family were so courageous and inspirational through the whole endeavor. I will never forget how hard he fought, and how the whole community of Avila rallied.
by Nate Dec 10, 2008 5:34 PM
With that smile, and those eyes you can certainly see the face of God. And since it so closely resembled that of the lord. God decided that he like Jesus he had sufered enough, and called him home to be by his side.
by mom Dec 8, 2008 11:39 AM
sorry for your loss! its so sad, and its terrible that there are so many names of different cancers, and we cant seem to find a cure!! we have to find a cure!! God Bless you and his spirit will live on!
by Robert Dec 8, 2008 11:23 AM
My prayers are with this little guy and his faith-filled family.
by Karen Dec 5, 2008 5:48 PM
Always smile about the pleasure this child brought you and the world. He will be smiling back I'm sure!
by Scott Dec 5, 2008 5:48 PM
Well, God plans everything and this little guy's insightfulness and maturity seemed to be a way of God telling us how we can improve. Short lived, but a bright light. Let's not let his death be in vain.; he is a good example to live by.
by Ash Dec 5, 2008 5:47 PM
An old soul. Makes you think, doesn't it ?
by Jay Dec 5, 2008 5:47 PM
what a true inspiration to anyone who feels held back by life. Excuse me, I seem to have something in my eye....
by Joyce Dec 5, 2008 5:46 PM
A perfectly written story! The writer captured the heart and soul of this young man. The article was very inspiring...both a tribute to him and his devoted family and friends.
by Mary B. W. Dec 5, 2008 5:33 PM
Harris will live on in our hearts. I am deeply touched by the gift that God gave to the entire world. Much Love
by Chris Dec 5, 2008 5:33 PM
Harris was the most polite and kind young man I have ever known. I will miss him greatly.
by Joe Dec 5, 2008 5:32 PM
This world is a better place having Harris for such a short time. Heaven will certainly welcome him. We all are Blessed for knowing him.
by Unavailable Dec 5, 2008 5:25 PM
I had a cousin who passed away at a young age as well...I wish you all the best in your time of need. May God bless your family
by Abby Dec 4, 2008 5:23 PM
This was no mere child, it seems. The maturity some of us never achieve and the heart that most of us never see. RIP.
by John Dec 4, 2008 4:51 PM
My condolences are with the family of this brave young man! Harris is finally with god now, no more pain...rest in peace Harris.
by Mike Dec 4, 2008 3:52 PM
May god bless this young man as well as his family, very sad.
by Kattie Dec 4, 2008 3:21 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with his family, may each of us remember the lesson it taught each day by simply being Harris.
by April Dec 4, 2008 3:19 PM
I am so very sorry for the family's and the world's loss.
by Tina Dec 4, 2008 1:42 PM
i'm sure he touched more people in his 12 years than most in their lifetime.
by Dnyce Dec 4, 2008 11:49 AM
What a blessed young man he was. May God comfort his family during this time.
by Sue Dec 4, 2008 11:49 AM
My heart goes out to this family. To lose a child has to be the most heartbreaking thing a parent must face.
by Gene Dec 4, 2008 11:49 AM
What a sad situation. Truly this young man was a quality person -- not because of his golf skills but because he understood what was really important in life. I trust he is in heaven today and his pain is gone.
by Melinda Dec 4, 2008 11:49 AM
May God bless the family during this heartbreaking time. What a tremendous loss to the world of such a wonderful young man that so positively impacted so many lives. My thoughts and prays to the family.
by Lei Dec 4, 2008 11:49 AM
its amazing how you dont know someone but their story can touch your heart and bring tears..r.i.p lil man i know you are in a better place!
by gator Dec 4, 2008 11:49 AM
So sorry this gem of a child has left us. God bless you.
by Honor Dec 4, 2008 11:48 AM
God's little golfing angel. Rest in comfort.
by Susan Dec 4, 2008 11:45 AM
My thoughts are with this young man's family.
by Nancy Dec 4, 2008 11:39 AM
What an amazing human being Harris was. I am so sorry for his family's pain and loss. We could all learn so much from Harris' examples of human kindness to others.
by John Dec 4, 2008 11:29 AM
So sad.
by ed Dec 4, 2008 11:24 AM
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU GOD BLESS
by hank Dec 4, 2008 11:24 AM
i guess the billy joel song says it all, only the good die young.
by David Dec 4, 2008 11:24 AM
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. There are few mature adults that act the way this 12 yr old boy acted. Sounds like he was a wonderful child. We need more children like him for sure, with the way our society is today.
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