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During the primary season around 9 p.m., when most of the world starts thinking about bedtime, Renee Slater would start pounding away at one of her two computers.
Often until 2 a.m., she'd urgently explain to the Internet world why Sen. Hillary Clinton should be president. Though not affiliated with the Clinton campaign, Slater was part of a vast army of volunteers who showed all of the resolve of their favored candidate.
But, of course, resolve didn't win Clinton the nomination, and when Clinton dropped out of the race, Slater channeled her intensity into something unexpected: The 51-year-old from Aventura left the Democratic Party, registered as an Independent and declared her support for Republican Sen. John McCain.
"McCain has always been a liberal Republican," said Slater, who made time to blog, unpaid, while getting a master's degree in accounting from Nova Southeastern University. "Why do you think the conservatives are not happy with him being the nominee? He is not your run-of-the-mill Republican."
The Democrats' long, intense primary created especially close attachments for some supporters to their candidates. In the end, many impassioned Clinton supporters, women in particular, said they couldn't switch their allegiance to Democratic Sen. Barack Obama. They promised to back McCain instead.
"Please don't go there," Clinton urged during her concession speech. "Every moment wasted looking back keeps us from moving forward."
After months of spending every free hour possible defending Clinton online, Slater has gone there. What's unclear is whether she's an anomaly or an outspoken example of a quiet problem that Obama may face in November.
"Supporters go through a grieving period, but then they'll realize McCain is much worse," said Jon Ausman, a Democratic National Committee member and super delegate who endorsed Clinton but supports Obama in the general election. "I think they'll come home. This is very normal."
To some former Clinton supporters, McCain doesn't seem so bad. He has long been considered a maverick who has spent much of his political career at odds with some in his party on things like stem cell research and campaign finance laws.
Slater said she prefers McCain to Obama because McCain has more political and governing experience. She said she's bothered by the fact that some of Obama's short time in the U.S. Senate has been spent running for president. (She said she's also turned off by "vicious" Obama bloggers.)
As for McCain's anti-abortion stance, a pro-choicer like Slater doesn't think it's the be-all, end-all issue of this election. She calls it a "Democratic threat intended to frighten."
"If they didn't outlaw abortion under Bush, who is far more conservative than McCain ever will be, I just don't think it's going to happen under McCain," said Slater, who contributed $1,625 to the Clinton campaign and has given in the past to the DNC and John Kerry's 2004 presidential campaign.
Slater has joined other passionate Clinton supporters who have found solace on the Internet, blasting Obama and praising McCain on Web sites like hillaryclintonforum.net and hillarygreenmountain.com. They call themselves McCainocrats.
So far in Florida, the number of Clinton supporters and would-be Democrats in Florida who publicly endorse McCain is pretty tiny. A week after the Democrats officially chose their nominee, the McCain campaign touted three high-profile Democrats and Independents from Florida: Slater, former Tampa Mayor Dick Greco and a former sheriff of Highlands County, Howard Godwin.
While the decision to back McCain wasn't that difficult, the decision to come out and say it publicly was a move that two of the three lost sleep over. In fact, Godwin said there had been a mistake. He is a Democrat and does support McCain. But he never intended his choice to be made public and he didn't want to talk about it.
Slater said she was hesitant about talking publicly, because she was afraid Obama supporters would inundate her in-box with accusations of racism. Slater says race never entered her mind when she made her decision.
"I know that there's other people out there who feel like I do," Slater said. "They may be quiet about it, but they're out there."
Former Mayor Greco, 74, a Democrat, said he had no problem talking about his decision to support McCain. He said he always supports candidates based on their experience and character, not political party.
"I just think McCain is better equipped to make these changes. He's shown he can work both sides of the aisle," said Greco.
Many Florida Democrats and ardent Clinton supporters, including Clinton fundraiser Chis Korge of Miami, say Democrats will come around and support Obama when they realize that McCain has more in common with President Bush.
"This was a great race between two fantastic candidates and it's going to take some time to unify, and not everyone's going to come back," said Florida Obama spokesman Steve Schale. "But it's not like John McCain has a unified party either."
Excerpt from Slater's writing on the Web:
05-14-2008, 07:26 PM
Hillary, we are still with you, but understand as well.
We will not vote OBAMA, not now, not ever. After witnessing this disgrace of a hit on you, your campaign, Bill's Presidency, this Democratic party has become a bigger sham than the Repubs. This is worse than 2000 when Bush and his brother Jeb wrestled the election from Gore.
We have been forced to watch the raping of your campaign, and we have been forced to watch a "brokered convention" even before the primaries end. The DNC has told us who we will vote for. The last time I checked we were not yet a fascist nation. Not yet anyway.
Hillary, don't ask us to unite for Obama, we have already united for McCain.
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Comments on this article
by Terri
Jun 28, 2008 6:56 PM
What do Hillary supporters REALLY have against Barack Obama? Don't shame "women" for backing McCain. The real fight was always for our LIBERTY. Shame on idiots who would destroy our chance to restore it because of a personal vendetta. Shame on you.
by Orin
Jun 27, 2008 7:04 PM
This lady claims to support Hillary but will now vote for McCain even though he allowed a video on his website where a woman asked him "how are we going to beat the _itch"? McCain laughed at the question. Obama has never done anything like this.
by Orin
Jun 27, 2008 6:59 PM
Fortunately there are not so many Dems that act out this way. Most of Hillary supporters are fair and practical with Obama's assent. The ones that are not have to do what they feel they must do. It's up to the rest of us to take back this country.
by Orin
Jun 27, 2008 6:59 PM
I am hoping to better understand Clinton supporters that constantly said "if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen" and "if you think the primaries are tough wait till you get to the general". Now we have to deal with hurt feelings?
by Orin
Jun 27, 2008 6:59 PM
These people have the right to vote with their hearts (broken as it may be) but they are not voting with their minds (if they are Dems as they claim to be). McCain is no liberal Repub and it does not take much research to figure out he never was.
by Gina
Jun 27, 2008 9:21 AM
The DNC, Pelosi, and the Obama's patronizing and phony
praise of Hillary Clinton are nothing more than insincere steps
to get some of Hillary's 18 million voters to vote for Barrack.
These people are so pitiful. maybe some of Hillary's supporters
wil
by kitty
Jun 26, 2008 7:01 PM
TrutheBeKnown, before you tout the virtues of neo-liberalism you should look up the definition.
by kitty
Jun 26, 2008 6:58 PM
Richard, bush also said today that he's lifting some economic sanctions on north korea - one of the spokes in his axis of evil. The neocons would be frothing at the mouth and marching on DC with pitchforks had a dem president announced such a move.
by Marrisa
Jun 26, 2008 6:51 PM
If you like the way things are vote for the person who will keep things the way they are. If you dont vote for someone else. Regardless of who is running If you dont you are not being honest with yourself.
by anthony
Jun 26, 2008 6:46 PM
i will vote for obama a vote for McCain is a vote for the same
by Kim
Jun 26, 2008 6:45 PM
DNC,Pelosi,Dean said "Get over it" and BO they are all so arrogant let's see ow manyof us just get over it in NOV.
by rm
Jun 26, 2008 6:37 PM
come on slater, get over it! i voted for hilary, too, but will vote for obama in the general election. if not, it will be 4 more yrs of bush & co, and look where that has gotten us. stop being obstinate and listen to some common sense-vote democrat!
by Patrick
Jun 26, 2008 6:36 PM
Hmmm, "I didn't get picked to play kickball, so I am going to take my ball and go home!" I urge everyone, EVERYONE not to vote with EMOTION, but with knowledge of both candidates. Do your research, make sure you understand both platforms.
by Andrew
Jun 26, 2008 6:08 PM
Sue: Her middle name is actually Diane, like McCain's is Sidney. Look it up. So, what's so awesome about "Hussein?" You're not really racist enough to think that a foreign absentee father's choice of name says anything about his son, right?
by Darrell
Jun 26, 2008 6:56 AM
She's right, the Dems will find out when its too late that Howard Dean has led the party into the abyss; I reregistered to independent months ago from lifelong democrat.
by Kirk
Jun 26, 2008 6:56 AM
If this woman wishes another four years of lying and downright incompetience, I guess she should vote for McCain. This is no more than sour grapes and childish behavior. Let this woman stay up all night crying about not getting her way. OBAMA!
by yackson
Jun 26, 2008 6:56 AM
I said that the dem race would come down to whoever was the biggest victim. And now we have more victims like the person in this story. Dems, always victims of something.
by Richard
Jun 26, 2008 6:55 AM
Bush announced today that he is negotiating with the Iraqi gov to build permanent US Bases there and he will have the agreement completed before he leaves office.He said it's to important to leave for the next Pres.So much for any chance of withdrawl
by Sue
Jun 26, 2008 6:55 AM
Re:Anne - Why can't I use his middle name? When Hillary is mentioned it's Hillary Rodham Clinton! Is he not proud of his middle name? And is everyone who doesn't agree with him a racist? That sounds like your campaign is trying to use guilt as a tool
by Justin
Jun 26, 2008 6:55 AM
You know who has even more experience than McCain? Bush. He's BEEN president. Lot of good that's done. So much for experience.
Neocons are pretending to be (to themselves and/or others) former Clinton supporters. They will stop at nothing to empower the same people who have been digging this hole, this economy, and helping other countries hate us--and we aren't any more safe.
by TrutheBeKnown
Jun 26, 2008 6:55 AM
Kitty - if that were true you would be voting for them! Since Liberalism has failed, neo-liberalism would be refreshing. And I said "more conservative" as in right leaning center and unlike "O".
by SOS
Jun 26, 2008 6:55 AM
Anne is an Obama maniac who instead of being able to name one reason to vote obama, just name-calls McCain supporters. Pitiful!
by Anne
Jun 25, 2008 7:43 PM
Slater is an idiot. Any woman who votes for McCain is crazy- check his history on women's rights. We'll lose 40 years of progress if he's elected. And Sue-you seem to be racist, having to mention Obama's middle name in your post to make your point.
by Calston
Jun 25, 2008 7:31 PM
No way I would ever vote for that racist Barack Obama. He can huddle with his radical buddies like Reverend Wright.
by Joe
Jun 25, 2008 7:31 PM
McCain 2008' - Hillary 2012'
Hillary would probably be the next President in 2012 if McCain wins in Nov.
by Carol
Jun 25, 2008 7:29 PM
Loyal Hillary supporters: the way to disrespect Hillary, to dishonor her and all she works for is to vote in a way that compromises all her effort -- by voting for McCain, not voting or writing in Hillary's name. Respect her and vote for Obama in Nov
by Linda
Jun 25, 2008 6:35 PM
There is millions of Hillary supporters that will be voting for McCain in November. Obama is going to have a rude surprise.
by Rich
Jun 25, 2008 6:15 PM
There's a groundswell of Clinton support all of a sudden. The more O talks (especially off the cuff), the more folks see that he's clueless.
I think you'll see more and more HRC supporters leading to the convention. It "ain't" over!
by SOS
Jun 25, 2008 5:29 PM
Figures. More trash talking from the Obama kool-aid cult. If you're not with them then you must be crazy,delusional, naive, and of course stupid. Oh and of course racist. The same race card crap they pulled on Bill Clinton who now is ok with BO.
by Jack
Jun 25, 2008 5:22 PM
It is frightening to hear Obama say, "I'm going to change the world."
Holly, don't you think that that is a better goal than "status quo"? Or have we just completely given up that anything will make a difference? Sorry, I will vote for hope.
by Anne
Jun 25, 2008 5:01 PM
Slater is an idiot. Any woman who votes for McCain is crazy- check his history on women's rights. We'll lose 40 years of progress if he's elected. And Sue-you seem to be racist, having to mention Obama's middle name in your post to make your point.
by kitty
Jun 25, 2008 4:19 PM
As a lifelong republican, I have no choice but to change my party affiliation and vote for Obama. See all you rethugs posing as hillary supporters, dems can play the game too!
Huh? Thanks for leaving the Ms. Slater. I like Mr. McCain too, but JIC you hadn't noticed, Mr. McCain has bought a brand new skin, as a movement conservative, which isn't conservative to my values at all.
by greg
Jun 25, 2008 2:14 PM
So you would rather burn down with the building ( a vote for McCain republican) then jump out of the window ( a vote for Obama Democrat).Thats good people show your true colors. Americans are funny
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