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Kaetlynn Palenske, 17, is embraced by Amy Hoban, 17, left, and Selina Torres, 17, as they mourn at the site of a crash that killed Palenske’s boyfriend and another girl. Kaetlynn’s sister Cathryn, 11, in blue, and an unidentified girl look on.
PLANT CITY — A half dozen Bloomingdale High School students huddled around the tree where Nicholas Marcotrigiano died in a double-fatal crash Monday morning.
They tried to brush back the tall weeds. They hung balloons, flowers and personal notes to him scribbled on poster board.
Marcotrigiano's girlfriend, Kaetlynn Palenske, laid a small wicker basket under the tree. In it was a teddy bear and a framed photo of them. She attached a note.
"Nick, this not at all close to the way I imagined I would say goodbye to you," the note read. "You told me you will love me for as long as you live and you did just that."
At 12:09 a.m. Monday, Marcotrigiano's 1996 Ford Ranger collided with a 1999 Jeep Cherokee driven by 15-year-old Haley Weatherly.
Weatherly and Marcotrigiano died at the scene, four highway lanes and a median between them.
They were friends at Bloomingdale High. She was an energetic blue-eyed girl, the joy of her mother's heart. He was the fun-loving son of a Tampa police captain, a twin who played football and talked about pursuing auto mechanics or joining the Navy.
While family and friends tried to make sense of the deaths, two other Valrico teens were being treated for injuries at Tampa General Hospital.
Marcotrigiano's passenger, Brandon L. Simonds, 17, a Bloomingdale sophomore last year, was in critical condition Monday. Weatherley's passenger, Amelia "Amy" Lee Gold, 16, a Bloomingdale junior, suffered serious injuries.
Friends say Weatherly started hanging out with Marcotrigiano's friends a few months ago. Simonds and Gold were two of her closest, friends say.
But no one could say exactly what happened on that darkened stretch of highway that caused the crash. Friends said they'd been hanging out earlier in the evening at their standard hangout: McDonald's on Bloomingdale Avenue and Bell Shoals Road.
Florida Highway Patrol Sgt. Steve Gaskins said the Jeep and Ford were side by side, traveling east on State Road 60 when for unknown reasons the cars made contact.
The Ford Ranger veered south and struck a tree. The Jeep sped north, leaving deep muddy tracks in the grassy median as it plowed into a wooden fence, overturned and slammed into a tree.
The top of the Jeep tore off and Weatherly was ejected. None of the teens were wearing seat belts, according to the Highway Patrol's report.
Gaskins said speed appeared to be a factor, but it was too early to say exactly how fast the cars were traveling in the 55 mph zone. They were awaiting toxicology results.
Weatherly, who was operating Gold's Jeep, had a learner's permit she obtained in February, records show. Gaskins said the permit requires she have a licensed driver 21 years or older sitting in the passenger seat.
Marcotrigiano obtained his license in February 2006. Records show he was cited in January for driving 72 mph in a 45 mph zone. In July, he was cited again, accused of failing to obey a traffic sign.
Friends gathered at the scene of the crash throughout the afternoon.
Shannon Shaw, 18, walked with friends around the south side of the highway. He and Marcotrigiano played football together for the Pinecrest Pilots youth league.
On his walk through the broken branches and brush, he saw pieces of his friend's car. He grabbed the lost Ford insignia. Maybe, he said later, he'd mount it with Marcotrigiano's old football jersey and make a memorial.
Bailey Post of Venice remembered her friend Weatherly from their days together at Venice Middle School. Weatherly was always outgoing and fun. She kept a pet flying squirrel, liked catching tadpoles and skim boarding across ditches, Post said.
The only child raised by a single mom, Weatherly was tight with her mother, Post said. She would join the mother-daughter team on girls' nights, grabbing dinner or renting movies.
Members of both Marcotrigiano and Weatherly families declined comment Monday.
Marcotrigiano's girlfriend, Palenske, 17, said she was at his house until 10:45 p.m. Sunday.
"I was getting ready to leave so he walked me out to my car," she recalled as the tears began to come. "And that's all I have left of him."
Times researcher John Martin and staff writers Kathleen Flynn and Saundra Amrhein contributed to this report. Rebecca Catalanello can be reached at rcatalanello@sptimes.com or (813) 226-3383.
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Comments on this article
by katelyn
Aug 11, 2008 2:48 PM
This is sad and so tragic. On the brighter side..God can take something tragic and make good. He may just be trying to get alot of peoples attention. Our choices are heaven oe hell. The end is near and God wants you to turn to him for eternal life.
by kateland
Aug 11, 2008 2:48 PM
Teenagers will be teenagers and I know alot of older adults that speed, drink and drive and don't wear seatbelts. |This all happened for a reason and the reason is that God called his angels home to be with him, they are in heaven/what a great place
by Patty
Aug 11, 2008 2:48 PM
It was part of GODS plan. A plan that you or I can;t understand.It was there time? God was ready to welcome them into his Kingdom. They are now angels of God..They are free..there is no sorrow..no pain...no suffering. We should have joy for them..
by Sandy
Aug 6, 2008 5:49 PM
To all of the cruel people: Freedom of speech does not make YOU or what you say intelligent. Even morons have that right. Just because you can, doesn't mean it's right. If you don't have anything SMART to say, keep it to yourself.
by Scott
Aug 6, 2008 5:20 PM
We can all remember when we thought we knew best. We all make mistakes and most of the time, it hurts others.To everyone trying to place blame,did you do everything your parents told you to?Did that make you a bad kid or your parents bad? Be kind!!!!
by Sally
Aug 6, 2008 5:13 PM
People, You have no idea how these parents behaved or drove. How can you sit there behind the safety of your computer and blame them for such a tragety. Do you not think that they are suffering enough without your judgemental comments.YOU ARE NOT GOD
by Theresa
Aug 6, 2008 3:42 PM
SHAME ON ALL OF YOU WHO PASS JUDGEMENT.LOVED ONES ARE SUFFERING.TO ALL OF YOU SELF-RIGHTOUS IDIOTS WHO WANT TO BLAME,YOU EITHER DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN OR YOU ARE SO IGNORRANT TO THINK THAT YOUR KIDS ARE ANGELS AND DO EVERYTHING YOU TELL THEM TO. FOOLS!
by Jen
Aug 6, 2008 12:26 PM
This was a horrible and senseless and PREVENTABLE tragedy. It's 10 pm....do you know where you kids are? I'm sorry...but there is no reason for teens to be driving at that hour.
by me
Aug 6, 2008 12:20 PM
Haley was my best friend :'(
by Georg
Aug 6, 2008 10:09 AM
Sad story to read. Hard to believe that they were not wearing seatbelts. Over here, Netherlands that is, police will kick your behind if you don't wear them. You are even obliged to wear them when you sit in the back of the car.
by Tori
Aug 6, 2008 10:08 AM
Everyone from Greeley was touched by you in one way or another, we will all miss you! Rest In Peace Haley ♥
by Richard
Aug 5, 2008 8:01 PM
Nice job, parents. I think we should be applying blame here; how else can we learn from this? Parents, obey the law and supervise your teen drivers. Teen drivers, buckle up.
by Britt
Aug 5, 2008 7:36 PM
TC-my parents said all those things to me while I was a teen and I am still here today because I obeyed them. SEATBELTS SAVE LIVES-People need to realize this. I agree with jackie o on her point. And I am sorry that two kids have died so young.
by Ken
Aug 5, 2008 6:15 PM
Buckle your seat belts in your friends' memory.
by bob
Aug 5, 2008 2:20 PM
you guys are unsensitive this is not a situation 2 try to put fault on or to try 2 say well u should of it enrages me 2 think that people would say stuff like that shame on you 4 looking down on them u dont even know what happened even if u think u d
by jackie o
Aug 5, 2008 2:19 PM
Morgan Freeman and his passenger flipped three times end over end.They both are alive because of seat belts. Parents must lead by example and use them if they expect their kids to.
by Ashley
Aug 5, 2008 1:57 PM
I have to wonder why (a) the 15 year old was driving at all; (b) kids their age were out at night that late; (c) where the parents were and why they let their kids out that late and (d) why the boy still have his license after getting a ticket.
by Rev. Pasco Mom
Aug 5, 2008 1:09 PM
I pray those who died, died swiftly.
I pray those who lived through it
can feel all the love they have
of those around them, and I pray
that there is, within the blessings of memories, comfort for those who are mourning.
by Tina
Aug 5, 2008 1:08 PM
My heart goes out to these families. Horrible and senseless. Why were these kids out so late and why weren't they wearing a seatbelt. I hope other kids at least learn from this. It is heartbreaking.
by Amy
Aug 5, 2008 10:07 AM
Kim, neither one of the kids are rich and famous,.. why will they "pay in couurt" like Nick did??
by TC
Aug 5, 2008 10:07 AM
You can all tell teens till your blue in the face to slow down, buckle up, and don't drink and drive...but remember THEY KNOW EVERYTHING! So there will always be sad stories like this, it's so unfortunate!
by joetampa
Aug 5, 2008 10:07 AM
I wonder if alcohol had anything to do with this. Instead of spending millions on anti-drug hysteria, let's see more education about the real danger of drinking and driving.
by Kim
Aug 5, 2008 8:48 AM
This is sad but leave it as it is two kids dead and two in the hospital-- sounds like a Nick B. Story. Now some one is going to pay in court again.
by BB
Aug 5, 2008 8:48 AM
Common sense isnt so common. May this also be a lesson to those crappy parents who drive like idiots with kids in the car. Be careful what you are teaching them.
by Pete
Aug 5, 2008 8:47 AM
Speed kills, kids. Did Nick Bollea's stupidity not teach you anything? You have to lose one of your own to feel that sorrow? Have you learned anything about speed yet? Drive with caution. Wear you seatbelts. Don't drink and drive. Stay alive.
by Aida
Aug 5, 2008 8:47 AM
What an absolute heart breaker! My prayers, thoughts and outstretched arms are with those families. May they be surrounded by peace and acceptance of this tragedy and be able to move forward teaching us all a lesson to guard our own a little more.
by TOM
Aug 5, 2008 8:47 AM
How sad. Kids, you've just got to learn traffic regulations and abide by them. Common sense should dictate that no 15 year old should be driving without supervision. What are you thinking? No more senseless traffic fatalities please!
by Debbie
Aug 5, 2008 8:47 AM
A parent's worst nightmare. My thoughts and prayers are with all the families who are suffering so badly now. God bless you and give you strength to get through this very difficult time.
by Kim
Aug 5, 2008 8:47 AM
Choices and non choices have consequences. I lost a daughter too because of choices. May you find peace & love in your memories and each other.
by Ron
Aug 5, 2008 8:47 AM
The solution to prevent so many of these tragedies is right there fro all teens......wear the seat belt. It is against the law not to wear one and accidents like this show the penalty one might suffer if they don't. Maybe others will learn from this
by been there
Aug 5, 2008 8:46 AM
No seatbelts--yet again, senseless deaths of children who truly believe they are indestructible. How can we make them see otherwise? Prayers to the surviving friends and family.
by Ted
Aug 5, 2008 8:46 AM
Seat Belts, Seat Belts, Seat Belts. What is it they don't understand?
by dr
Aug 5, 2008 8:46 AM
weep
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