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RIVERVIEW — Images of smashed angels and broken headstones evoked outrage from hurt families and frustrated strangers.
One voice rose above the others Tuesday to demand strict punishment for a boy accused of cemetery vandalism.
His mom.
"This has been awful," said Theresa Moore, 33, of Riverview. "I can completely relate and sympathize with the families that this happened to. It's devastating. I can't believe that my son would do something like this. As a parent, I feel like it's also an embarrassment on the family."
Moore's son, a 14-year-old sixth-grader at Giunta Middle School, and another boy, a 15-year-old seventh-grader, are accused of vandalizing at least 27 headstones as well as granite benches, ornaments, statues and flower pots placed by mourners at Serenity Meadows cemetery at 6919 Providence Road. Grave sites were also disturbed at the adjacent Hackney cemetery.
The teens face felony charges of criminal mischief and of damaging a tomb, deputies say. The St. Petersburg Times is not naming the boys because of their ages.
Moore wants her son to write apologies to the families affected and perform community service until he's 18, including cleaning up the damage.
Cemetery workers discovered the vandalism as they prepared Monday morning for the Memorial Day service.
Moore said her son and the other boy spent Sunday night at her home, a tidy stucco house near the Alafia River. She said the boys must have sneaked out.
On Monday, a deputy came to her home with the news.
She was furious. A single mother, she says she has worked hard to instill values in her son.
"I even have a loved one of mine that's buried at that cemetery," she said. "I've always tried to teach him better than this."
On Tuesday, her son appeared in juvenile court.
Hillsborough Circuit Judge D. Michelle Sisco ordered the younger boy held on home detention until June 16. That means he can leave home only for school, work or church.
Officials said he also has a pending charge of resisting arrest without violence from mid May. His mother says the charge stemmed from skipping school.
A judge will hear the 15-year-old's case later. No one answered a message for comment left at that boy's address, a mobile home near Palm River.
Both face juvenile sanctions.
Outside the courtroom, the 14-year-old boy told a reporter, "I'm sorry to all of the families."
Sheriff's officials said the teens told deputies they vandalized the cemetery for fun. A woman at the courthouse with the teen and his mother disputed that.
Later that afternoon, the boy added to his apology.
"I don't know what I was thinking at the time," he said in a phone interview. "If it happened to one of my family members, and stuff, I'd be devastated. As I was watching the news, I was about to cry. … I would just like to apologize to every single family member out there, that I'm really, really sorry."
He declined to answer questions about the incident.
Moore said she wanted her son to understand the consequences of his actions.
She forced him to watch television clips of the grieving families.
"He did cry when he watched the news — he's never really had to face death at this age," she said. "I think a lot of this came down to being involved with the wrong people."
Jose Cohen, 52, of Brandon has felt the pain of losing a loved one.
Five months ago, Cohen's 9-year-old granddaughter Zhonea Josey died from a complication of leukemia. Her grave was among those damaged. He wants those responsible to know they invaded a precious place.
"They knew there were people buried underneath each one of the those stones," he said. "What if it was their father? Would they still do the same? Those are the questions I have. It's a very sad situation."
As for punishment, Cohen puts his faith in the law.
"I will let the law do what it has to do," he said. "Community hours, a lot of them. I want them to remember this time. I don't want other kids to think this is funny. That's my main concern here."
Times staff writer Jan Wesner contributed to this report. Abbie VanSickle can be reached at vansickle@sptimes.com or (813) 226-3373.
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Comments on this article
by Unhappy
May 29, 2008 10:56 AM
These two 'boys' need to pay for every grave that was desecrated and bring each one up to the same condition it was in prior to their 'spree'!
Their ages bothered me a lot! I was 12 when I was in 6th grade. I see either an error or worse!
by ra
May 29, 2008 10:49 AM
tosad, I'd say that they didn't take advantage of the education provided them.
by Kimberly
May 29, 2008 10:45 AM
I stand behind the mom, good for her..What these boys did was heartless.I have a brother buried there.We just lost 3 mounths ago.His grave was not touched thank god.But my heart goes out to the other families.
by stacey
May 29, 2008 10:43 AM
now thats a real "MOTHER" !
by John
May 28, 2008 7:31 PM
A good beating wouldn't hurt these kids either.
by Antoinette
May 28, 2008 7:17 PM
GO MOM! your son deserves whatever the judge hands his way! and has for Mr. Cohen he is taking this in a very different way i would i would make sure them 2 kids got what they deserve.
by jack
May 28, 2008 7:17 PM
Mom wants him punished, hoping to elude the financial burden of the repairs. As far as hanging out with the wrong crowd, sometimes they are the wrong crowd.
by David
May 28, 2008 5:05 PM
I admire the mom for preaching to the son about the consequences to his actions. It's difficult to raise kids during their teens, but she sounds like she is doing all of the right things. Sometimes, even then, kids make poor choices.
by Linda
May 28, 2008 4:12 PM
Young people do STUPID things without thinking of the consequences. The boys mother has the right idea with their punishment. Mindy, Let's not make this more than what it is! Two boy's stupidity.
by Carol
May 28, 2008 4:09 PM
Glad to see the mom of the 14 year old is taking resonsibility for her son and his actions. Because of her tough stance, her kid will likely turn out ok. Wish more parents had the same level of commitment.
by Teri
May 28, 2008 4:07 PM
Sure they are "sorry".. sorry they got caught!
by Beck
May 28, 2008 4:04 PM
TOM, get it right, this is what she said "This has been awful. I can completely relate and sympathize with the families that this happened to. It's devastating. I can't believe that my son would do something like this. As a parent, I feel like it's also an embarrassment on the (she and her son) family."
by On My Back
May 28, 2008 4:03 PM
Where was the boy's father to offer guidance and to teach him right from wrong? Oh, I forgot... The father's have been buffeted back to their corners and made to look like ignorant fools while being held in a shroud of unjust eternal punishment.
by Ingrid
May 28, 2008 4:02 PM
What these teens did was disrespectful and totally untolerable. They should all be taken to the wood shed. What kind of sick satisfaction can you gain from that kind of action? Are they smart enough to know about Karma?
by Mary
May 28, 2008 4:00 PM
Finally, a parent that really wants her child to learn something, from his bad choices. Not another parent that is going to protect her baby, from his adult acts. What they did was horrible.
by to Mindy
May 28, 2008 4:00 PM
Finally.. a mother who is not condoning their child's crime. Mindy, since I am Jewish, you have no idea what I think about this! I agree with Ellen, bigotry and resentful statement.
by Amy
May 28, 2008 3:56 PM
Yeah, I give props to the mother for SAYING her son will be punished... but come on. She meesed up some where down the road, or else the kid wouldn't be in the situation he is in now.
by Chris
May 28, 2008 3:52 PM
Boys will be boys.
by Loretta
May 28, 2008 3:52 PM
Way to go Mom! It is refreshing to see a parent holding their child accountable or their actions instead of getting them out of the trouble.
by Sherry
May 28, 2008 3:35 PM
Good for you mom--stick to your guns. As for a 14 year old in middle school---don't judge too quickly. I have one and she's simply learning disabled. She's doing her best. Held back in K & 3rd.
by tracy
May 28, 2008 3:31 PM
lock his skinny butt up for good. let him rot in jail.
by Bill
May 28, 2008 3:30 PM
Finally a mother who says and does the right thing instead of saying "he is a good kid" With the help of his mother, maybe this kid can be salvaged and be a productive human being.
by Jimmy
May 28, 2008 3:30 PM
This is a sad, sad situation.
by tosad
May 28, 2008 2:24 PM
Go MOM! In response to a few of the comments, yes, 14 & 15 in Middle School should tell us a lot. The 14 old has not received the help needed to give him the education that we are afforded by our Constitutional Rights. He has asked for help - none!
by Ellen
May 28, 2008 11:20 AM
Mindy, that was an indelicate comment, tinged with bigotry and resentment.
Everyone's love ones remains deserve proper respectful treatment - period. Desecration of the dead is universally regarded as abhorrent, and rightfully so.
by Betty
May 28, 2008 11:18 AM
What about restitution? Community service and apologies won't pay the bill!!
by Rick
May 28, 2008 11:14 AM
The mother of the 14 year old is to be commended. Bring the paddle back into the schools. Bring the switch and belt back into the home. Bring God back into our society. It is time dicipline is reintroduced to our country.
by Jay
May 28, 2008 10:48 AM
Sorry for the families that have to go through this. I do give credit to the mother. If more parents took this approach these days, kids wouldn't be committing such serious offenses.
by lisa
May 28, 2008 7:57 AM
no person has any right to vandalize something so sacred as a grave. loved ones pass away and now they have to try and protect them from vandalizm i really think it is rediculous. she has every right to push punishment onto this kid.
by Hmmm...
May 28, 2008 7:57 AM
14-year-old 6th grader? 15-year-old 7th grader? Something's not right.
by 4U2C
May 28, 2008 7:56 AM
"14-year-old sixth-grader at Giunta Middle School, and another boy, a 15-year-old seventh-grader..."
A 15 YO grader? Weren't most of us in the 10th grade at 15? Sounds like these two have some special issues, as well.
by Lissa
May 28, 2008 7:24 AM
I commend the mom for wanting her son to be punished. If more would act this way, we might have less kids thinking they can get away with stuff (like they do). GO MOM! Her son might grow up to be a better man.
by former detention officer
May 28, 2008 7:24 AM
This is country is becoming too soft on our juvenile delinquents. These boys need to spend time behind locked doors,it's just too bad that most of the detention centers around here are a joke, there are more hood rats in the staff than anything!
by RE
May 28, 2008 7:24 AM
Good for his mother, asking that he receive punishment...a responsible parent. Hopefuly with her guidance he will learn from his mistakes and turn himself into a good citizen. He deserves that first chance.
by PJ
May 28, 2008 7:24 AM
Community service is an excellent idea for these young men. Maybe they can spend their time working at the cemeteries, keeping them neatly trimmed and clean. That might help them learn proper respect for such places.
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