The surrogate
It begins with a woman who yearns for a baby and another who is willing and able to give her one. You can imagine the motives of the prospective parents. But what about the woman willing to carry a baby, give birth and then walk away?
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A newborn found barely alive inside a black garbage bag outside a Tampa apartment trash bin was the impetus for the law. Two local legislators at the time, Sandy Murman and John Grant, said they wanted to encourage desperate mothers "to please take a few extra steps and put the baby in the loving arms of someone."
Eight years later, 100 babies now have found those loving arms. They have been dropped off, no questions asked, at fire stations and hospitals across the state under the "safe haven" law that Murman and Grant sponsored in 2000. They have found adoptive parents such as Lori Lewis, who was unable to conceive and is still grateful to the mother who left her baby girl at a Broward County fire station five years ago: "I thank her every day for the choice she made; we've just so enjoyed raising her."
Child welfare advocates say the law is still not as well known as it should be, and some 39 newborns have been abandoned over the same period of time that 100 of them were brought to safety. But the message continues to get out, thanks in part to the heroic work of a volunteer organization called A Safe Haven for Newborns, and lawmakers recently extended the dropoff period to seven days following birth.
The safe haven law is, of course, an imperfect and incomplete response to the social circumstances that lead any young woman to abandon her baby. But it is without question saving lives, which makes this century milestone worth quiet celebration.
[Last modified: Jun 23, 2008 01:40 PM]
Comments on this article
by John
Jun 23, 2008 1:40 PM
It is disgusting that we even need a law like this. How about people using some restraint or at the very least some birth control. This is another perfect example of how America is going down the drain.
by lissa
Jun 23, 2008 1:29 PM
As an adoptive mother -- our little guy is the light of our lives, our sunshine, the most precious gift God has given us, outside of His own son. Adopted children are such an incredible gift,and so treasured as it was such a miracle to receive them !
by jimmy
Jun 22, 2008 10:38 PM
this really chokes me up. These little babies just get a chance to live. Most of us surely got a better break in life than they do. Great story.
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