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Dr. Phil: Hoaxer fell 'in love' with Manti Te'o

SOUTH BEND, Ind. — Dr. Phil McGraw says Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, who masterminded the dead girlfriend hoax involving Manti Te'o, told him that the Notre Dame linebacker was not involved in the scheme and that he ended up falling "deeply, romantically in love" with the football player.

McGraw spoke on the Today show Wednesday, previewing an interview he did with Tuiaso­sopo, a 22-year-old California man who created the fictional woman Te'o said he knew as Lennay Kekua. Tuiasosopo's interview with McGraw will air in two parts on the Dr. Phil Show starting today.

Since the hoax was revealed earlier this month, Te'o has said the relationship with Kekua started online and eventually became serious, even though they only talked on the phone and exchanged electronic messages, never meeting in person. Te'o said he was told of Kekua's "death" from leukemia just hours after his grandmother died in September.

McGraw said Tuiasosopo told him the voice of Kekua was his. Tuiasosopo and Te'o have each said that while the Kekua relationship went on for several years, there were times when they weren't in contact.

"There were many times where Manti and Lennay had broken up. But something would bring them back together, whether it was something going on in his life or in Lennay's life, in this case in my life," Tuiasosopo said.

Tuiasosopo said he wanted to end the relationship between Kekua and Te'o before he had to fake Kekua's death.

"I wanted to end it because everything I had gone through, I finally realized that I just had to move on with my life and I had to get me, Ronaiah, I had to start just living and let this go," Tuiasosopo said.

Te'o's publicist, Matthew Hiltzik, declined comment on behalf of Te'o and his family.

When the ruse was reported by the website Deadspin on Jan. 16, the report raised the questions about whether Te'o was involved. The story about how he played after the deaths of his girlfriend and grandmother led to an outpouring of support from Notre Dame fans. It became the backdrop to the Fighting Irish's undefeated regular season and run to the BCS title game, where they lost to Alabama.

Te'o won seven national awards for his play and was runnerup for the Heisman Trophy. He has denied any involvement from the beginning, and Notre Dame said its investigation of the player's claims backed up his story.

"The feelings, the pain, the sorrow, that was all real," Te'o told interviewer Katie Couric last week.

McGraw says "absolutely, unequivocally" Te'o had no role in creating the hoax.

Te'o said he first learned that something was amiss when Keuka called him Dec. 6 and told him she had faked her death.

He told his parents about what had happened while home for Christmas break and called Notre Dame coaches on Dec. 26 to let them know. Notre Dame officials said they interviewed Te'o and retained Stroz Friedberg, a New York computer forensics firm, to investigate the case. They learned Jan. 3 that there were no records indicating Lennay Kekua existed.

McGraw said he spent hours with Tuiasosopo and his parents, saying he had a number of life experiences that "damaged this young man in some very serious ways."

McGraw said Tuiasosopo had feelings for Te'o.

"Here we have a young man that fell deeply, romantically in love," McGraw said.

McGraw said he asked Tuiasosopo if he is gay.

"He said, 'Well, when you put it that way, yes.' Then he caught himself and said, 'I am confused,' " McGraw said.

Te'o also was asked by Couric if he is gay. Te'o said "no" with a laugh. "Far from it."

.Fast facts

Hoaxer talks

Dr. Phil McGraw interviews Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, the admitted hoaxer involving Notre Dame linebacker Manti Te'o; 4 p.m. today and Friday, Ch. 10

Dr. Phil: Hoaxer fell 'in love' with Manti Te'o 01/30/13 [Last modified: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 11:12pm]
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