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UF coach Urban Meyer with Tim Tebow last season, says the quarterback inspired him to take his family to the Dominican Republic on a missionary trip this summer. Tebow took three trips.
HOOVER, Ala. — In Tim Tebow's eyes, his greatest victories will never be won on the football field.
"Taking my platform as a football player and using it for good, using it to be an influence and change people's lives, that's more important to me than football," Tebow said Wednesday afternoon in front of a hotel ballroom filled with reporters.
That devotion has had a profound effect on many, including his coach, Urban Meyer. Tebow's willingness to dedicate his spare time participating in missionary work was part of the Florida coach's decision to do the same this year.
"Tim has had an impact on me," Meyer said of his 20-year-old quarterback after a 45-minute address at the SEC Media Days. "He has done a lot of things to open my eyes and that's one of them. To hear what he does on his time off, and we're sitting on a cruise or sitting on a beach. My kids live in a very nice home, so my wife and I both felt it was something we wanted to do."
Meyer, who became more interested in the idea after a close family friend returned with pictures from a similar trip last summer, decided this was the year to do it. Meyer, wife Shelley and children Nikki (18), Gigi (15) and Nathan (9) spent time last month in the Dominican Republic on a missionary trip.
"It was a life-changing experience," Meyer, 44, said. "It's something we're going to, if possible, do every year. In your own little way you made an impact on some people."
For Tebow, the offseason included just three breaks, and he spent them all on mission trips in Croatia, Thailand and the Philippines.
"All three of those places, I got to do a lot of very neat things, preaching in prisons, in schools, in hospitals, in market places," said the 2007 Heisman Trophy winner. "I'm sure I'll get asked about the circumcisions and helping perform surgeries (in the Philippines), but it (mission work) was a great experience for me. It's something I enjoyed doing, I love doing. It's something I'm very passionate about."
During the Meyers' trip, they helped feed about 100 families daily, assisted in the construction of a medical center and visited an all girls orphanage and a leper colony.
"Pictures are different than actually going," Meyer said. "And the one thing I'll tell you that I didn't understand: When we came back from three or four villages that we went to, people were very happy. I mean, they didn't have a dime and they had struggled putting food on the table. And there wasn't a whole lot of MTV going on, and certainly no video games. But all the families were pretty much intact, mother, father, children. We fed families and I actually went out to the stores, bought the food with my kids. It was unbelievable, for an hour we went shopping, grabbing rice, beans and oil. I could do it all in my head because we did it so much. Our family walked away saying it was unbelievable to be able to help them. … But it's not like they are not happy, that was what I didn't expect. I expected extreme poverty and unhappy people. That wasn't the case."
Although Tebow was influential, Meyer said what he wanted most was a unique experience to remind his children how blessed they are. It worked.
"I've never been more proud of my children," he said. "To see them for four hours carry buckets of cement, in real hot weather, and they are covered in it and just going and going. And then they were praying with some young person who was not doing real well healthwise, I've just never been more proud of them."
Antonya English can be reached at english@sptimes.com.
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Comments on this article
by James
Jul 27, 2008 8:56 PM
CrazyIvan and others who agree with him - the reason why "religous" people share their belief with you is out of love not out of trying to convert as many as possible. they realize the truth that you will go one of two places and want to help you.
by Ken
Jul 27, 2008 8:56 PM
CrazyIvan: The only word I think of to describe you is: PRIDE.
by Mark
Jul 25, 2008 3:08 PM
CI, I understand what you saying, but I have done ministry work overseas and here in the prisons. Do you want to know who the majority are in the trenches loving these people - CHRISTAINS. Donating money is not real service, join us in the trenches.
by Scott
Jul 25, 2008 3:05 PM
Ivan--it's not religion, it's a RELATIONSHIP with Christ that we share. Someone shared with us, we share it with others--in love. Peace to you, my friend. Know Christ.
by Tim
Jul 25, 2008 2:52 PM
Ivan, by nature religion MUST 'convert' people if it is to survive. If you have heard 'The Word' of whatever religion and you still are not converted, that is your choice. Some people choose to listen and convert...freedom is wonderful isn't it?
by Humanitarian
Jul 25, 2008 2:44 PM
While I laud Mr. Tebow and Mr. Meyers efforts 100 %, I, for one, absolutely agree with CrazyIvan's comments.
by Greg
Jul 25, 2008 2:03 PM
As a Seminole, it pains me to say how much I respect and admire Tebow. I don't know if I've ever been able to root for anything Gator before - and probably wont ever again, but I will root for the Gator's in all but 1 of their games now (FSU) - ouch!
by Nathan
Jul 25, 2008 1:56 PM
I'm with CrazyIvan on this one. The several comments from Christians on here reinforce for me how arrogant ALL religious folks are. I don't try to convince you there is not "god," stop trying to convince me, and anyone else, there is.
by CrazyIvan
Jul 25, 2008 1:42 PM
Jeff: "Tebow is eschewing the self righteousness of religious folks" That could possibly sell me. Not on "converting", of course -- but on the idea that there are "good" missionaries.
by Jeff
Jul 24, 2008 8:06 PM
Tebow and the Coach are breaking many stereopes. First, football stars and their coaches are supposed to be all about egos, not helping others. Second, Tebow is eschewing the self righteousness of religious folks
by Robin
Jul 24, 2008 7:31 PM
Thank you for printing a positive and inspirational article in your sports section for a nice change! The Tebows are true disciples. GO GATORS!
by Annie
Jul 24, 2008 6:17 PM
Thanks coach and Tebow for such a wonderful story. I am so proud to be a Gator and Floridian. At out patient therapy the other day someone was commenting on what a great guy Tebow was. I am printing the story to take with me and show that person.
by CrazyIvan
Jul 24, 2008 6:04 PM
Sorry, Guys. I'm NOT Christian. Never have been. Never will be. The only word I think of when I think of people trying to "convert" others is ARROGANCE. what's the matter with helping people WITHOUT an agenda?
by Jess
Jul 24, 2008 3:23 PM
As long as Tim stops with the circumcisions...Doesnt one need a medical license for that?
by Amy
Jul 24, 2008 3:02 PM
Hey CrazyIvan
Your name suits you perfectly
Tebow doesn't shove anything down anyone's throat. What's wrong? You get thrown off the football team as a kid?
Face it, Tebow's just the best and shows it in his actions. GO GATORS!!!
by Linda
Jul 24, 2008 2:51 PM
I'm always proud to be a Florida Gator and I'm deep in "dawg" territory.
by Adam
Jul 24, 2008 2:51 PM
CrazyIvan: Why is proselytizing considered harmful? It isn't as if missionaries rely on a trade such as food for conversions. They feel a moral obligation to assist and spread their beliefs and there is nothing wrong with doing both.
by Stephanie
Jul 24, 2008 2:36 PM
2 very classy men! Its great to see them doing something positive and not stealing, doing drugs etc. Tebow is following in Wuerffel's footsteps and you will never hear anything negative about him.
by Jen
Jul 24, 2008 2:29 PM
CrazyIvan - Why don't you ask the people they are helping if they mind having faith poured down their throats? If they did, maybe they could just say "no thanks" just like you could if you were in their shoes. There's always a downer out there...
by AOKTeach
Jul 24, 2008 2:29 PM
I'll always be a Nole at heart...
but very proud of Tebow and and his continued dedication on and off the field! What a great role model for our youth!!! Keep up the good work :)
by Pete
Jul 24, 2008 2:27 PM
CrazyIvan, Tim Tebow does not have to shove his "religion" down anyone's throats. His faith shines through in how he lives out his life. Maybe these folks are happy because they too have Christ at the center of their lives.
by Fred
Jul 24, 2008 2:26 PM
Ivan, you can't separate missionary work from religion. A missionary meets the phyical and spiritual needs of people while humanitarian work just meets the physical. Missionaries believe people have an eternal soul that is going to one of two places
by John
Jul 24, 2008 2:21 PM
CrazyIvan, the answer to your queestion is that the missionaries realize that feeding and saving souls is more important than feeding stomachs. Through Christ alone can you be saved.
by Honor
Jul 24, 2008 11:47 AM
Nice, positive story.
by T
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
For every bad story you hear about athletes (Gators and otherwise) it's so uplifting to hear stories like this. And yes, they are out there. Although Tebow & Meyer are probably the most visibles there are other good apples too! Thanks to you all!
by Amy
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
I am proud to be a Florida Gator
by Kim
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
If only more athletes could be the kind of role model Tebow has become. What a wonderful story.
by Flann
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
I'm very proud-so humble, so giving-keep up the good work.
by Ed
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
Good for you & your family. We are proud of you & Tim Tebow. It is more than just football. Proud to be a Gator Dad
by Todd
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
That's good stuff. It's Always great to be a Florida Gator!
by Jen
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
It does my heart proud to know these men are the heart & soul of my Gators right now!
by Karen
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
Such an up-lifting story and 2 shining men leading by example. Tim's parents' have shown their children the way and now Urban & his wife are leading theirs down the right path. Helping others,a wonderful thing to do. Thank you both! A Gator Mom.
by Dan
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
You said it, Lee.
by Jim
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
Terrific Article number one and it's a darn shame every newspaper doesn't work to find similar Leaders among communities. There is no greater gift then to selflessly give and care for others. It supercedes money, and spreads like a virus. Thank You!
by Pam
Jul 24, 2008 11:25 AM
Ditto to lee's comments! I am proud of the coach and always Tebow!
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