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They needed another tight end, that would seem obvious.
How badly did the Buccaneers need another tight end?
Enough, according to a Seattle Times investigation, to ignore a driver who left the scene of an accident. Not once, but twice. Enough to ignore a driver who was cited for having a blood-alcohol level double the legal limit. Not once, but twice. Enough to ignore a driver caught behind the wheel with a suspended license. Not once, but twice.
Enough to ignore an arrest for felony assault. Enough to ignore a positive marijuana test while under home confinement. Enough to ignore an arrest on suspicion of rape.
Yeah, I guess they really needed a tight end.
In case you weren't paying attention as the weekend was dawning late Friday afternoon — and I suspect the Bucs specifically chose that moment to sneak in under the radar — Tampa Bay announced it had re-signed troubled tight end Jerramy Stevens.
And just like that, a proud franchise surrendered some of its dignity.
Today, the temptation is to shout. To be outraged and disgusted. To rail against those responsible. And yet, I can't quite manage any of those thoughts. Instead, I'm left with an overwhelming sense of sadness.
Sadness at an inadequate legal system. Sadness that an NFL franchise assumes touchdowns excuse just about anything. Sadness for a young woman whose life might never be the same.
So why are these things issues now? Why didn't they matter when Stevens was playing for the Bucs last season?
Mostly because a lot of these incidents had not been highly publicized when he was originally signed, particularly his arrest on suspicion of rape eight years ago.
Based on the evidence reported in the Seattle Times, a young woman might have been raped outside of her University of Washington sorority and then again by prosecutors and school officials. It is important to note that Stevens was never charged, the case not even brought to trial. The prosecutor's office cited insufficient evidence. But I defy anyone to read the Seattle Times article from January and not have a high suspicion that Stevens did something horribly, frighteningly wrong. An out-of-court settlement with the woman suggests that as well.
Stevens and the Bucs acknowledged he had numerous off-the-field "issues" when he arrived in town last year, but it seemed like a few cases of alcohol abuse that were then under control.
In reality, Stevens has repeatedly demonstrated a remarkable lack of interest in rules, laws and the lives of fellow human beings. But because he has a charming personality and an ability to play football at the highest level, Stevens, 28, has skated through the court system and the NFL with virtual impunity.
Understand, I am not naive. I know you don't win Super Bowls with a huddle of choir boys. I admit that if Gandhi were a head coach and went 5-11 in back-to-back seasons, we'd all be shouting for his head.
And I agree that people deserve second chances. A DUI does not necessarily mean you should lose your job. A tussle in a parking lot does not make you an evil person.
Ultimately, every case must be judged within its context. A person who keeps getting in trouble because of an addiction needs our help, not necessarily our scorn. And a person accused of a serious crime deserves a chance to prove it was an aberration, not a pattern.
None of that seems to apply to Stevens.
He has courted trouble as a matter of routine for a very long time and has shown no tangible sense of remorse or responsibility. The Bucs will tell you he has been a perfect citizen during his one year in Tampa Bay, but that doesn't make him a changed man. That means he has finally realized he is running out of opportunities.
The Bucs can act as if their hands are clean because most of these episodes took place thousands of miles and some months away. But by keeping Stevens in the NFL, they are perpetrating the notion that talent is more important than integrity. That winning football games takes precedence over all else.
Someday soon, the Buccaneers will talk about another player's character.
They will point out his many charitable contributions. They might even offer pictures of him at some heartwarming event where they will laud him for being a grand addition to the community.
And it will all feel like a sham.
Because by re-signing Jerramy Stevens, the Bucs look like they don't give a darn about their community.
John Romano can be reached at romano@sptimes.com.
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Comments on this article
by Bernie
Jun 9, 2008 2:14 PM
Where do I vote it was mistake------Bruce Allen is total opposit of Tony Dungy---a good man with values. Allen will lie, mislead, and go to bottom of barrel in player signings.Projects worse image of good person.
by BOB
Jun 4, 2008 10:05 AM
Are you kidding me Romano? The Bucs don't care about there community? I call bull****. You will always be a hack until the day you retire. In fact feel free to retire any time you want. Jerk
by eamonn
Jun 4, 2008 10:04 AM
As a local sports enthusiast I have to endure the re signing of a rapist by the bucs and the firing of a team and community leader with a stanley cup by the lightning HELLO TAMPA BAY THIS IS
ABHORRENT AND VILE
efortune1@tampabay.rr.com explain!!!
by Walk
Jun 4, 2008 9:56 AM
Jeremy Stevens is scum. I suggest you all read the article from the paper in Seattle. Apparently there is DNA evidence that he did rape that girl. Some things, like ONE drunk driving arrest can be overlooked, but this cannot. Get rid of this guy!
by David
Jun 4, 2008 9:55 AM
Dude, this article is soo last year. You contradicted urself..first you said "And a person accused of a serious crime deserves a chance to prove it was an aberration, not a pattern" Well, he went a year w/o incident, why can't u let it go?
by John
Jun 4, 2008 9:33 AM
There's a new website to protest Stevens' signing:
http://nojerramystevens.blogspot.com/
by Corey
Jun 4, 2008 9:25 AM
If I'm going to read this kind of commentary, I expect it to be in the Editorial Section, not the sports page. How about some more facts and less opinion? Uh, how many times was Stevens interviewed by the Seattle Times? None.
by Rob
Jun 4, 2008 9:25 AM
NO ONE, absolutely NO ONE deserves a second chance after raping and sodomizing an 18 year old coed who was a virgin at the time. The lead detective indicated that there was OVERWHELMING evidence to charge Stevens had he not been a UW football star!
by Rob
Jun 4, 2008 9:23 AM
Thank you John, you were much kinder in your criticism of this Neanderthal than I would have been. I urge all of the Stevens supporters to actually read the Seattle Times article before defending this human debris. He should be serving hard time in jail
by Ben
Jun 4, 2008 9:23 AM
Let he without sin cast the first stone! Every one deserves a chance to redeem himself, no matter what. By your standards Shaun Taylor deserved what he got because of who he use to be. Shame on all of you calling for his head. everyone makes mistakes
by Joe D
Jun 3, 2008 7:47 PM
Dignity? Cmon, football's just entertainment. Don't "give a darn" about the community. I gar-on-tee you the community wants a winning team more than one less adict.
by ptd 3
Jun 3, 2008 7:46 PM
The beauty of being a so-called "writer" is you get to be judge and jury and when you put it in editorial form you don't have to ask anyone involved about the facts. cowards way out J.R.
by Bill
Jun 3, 2008 7:45 PM
I agree 100%
by airbags
Jun 3, 2008 6:33 PM
"victory and ruins", published by the seattle times
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/victoryandruins/
by Mike
Jun 3, 2008 6:32 PM
All you defenders take some time and read the article
http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2004147460_rbstevens270.html
by Quentin
Jun 3, 2008 6:30 PM
I usually roll my eyes and shrug off the negativity, but I can't help but agree with this. I'm all for our annual reclamation projects, but not for rapists. I don't care even if he has changed, I don't want him here.
by Mike Creyton
Jun 3, 2008 6:29 PM
Hey Bill. Tony Dungy? Have you seen all the guys that have been arrested on the COlts over the past 4 years? And now Marvin Harrison is involved in a shooting too. Dungy's rep is all media driven. The facts don't back up his reputation.
by JB
Jun 3, 2008 6:29 PM
DUEMIG, BROOKS, 620 all knew about Stevens and yet nothing was said untill now?? PLEASE DUEMIG all your Buddies support him and if you go to training camp then you support him
by Craven
Jun 3, 2008 6:27 PM
It really makes you miss the days of Dungy. Go Colts!
by cliff
Jun 3, 2008 6:27 PM
lonely john ? nothing else to write about ? i do not agree with the things he has done but he has been clean since he has been in tampa. cut the poor guy some slack. you will be the first media knotthead to praise the bucs for giving him a chance if
by Trash
Jun 3, 2008 6:26 PM
This guy is....well....trash. Enough said!
by Terry
Jun 3, 2008 6:26 PM
Just need word from Bruce Allen that at least he's not like Bill Clinton; then everything will be OK!!
by JP
Jun 3, 2008 6:23 PM
He was never convicted of Rape and the Media in this town should be ashamed of themselves. 3 men were released from prison this year after spending 20 years in prison for rapes they did not do. Duemig and Ramono are not reporting fairly
by Josh
Jun 3, 2008 6:23 PM
I think its rediculous to say the Bucs dont care about the community. Please, tell me a team with better guys then Derrick, Warrick, Ronde, Alstott, and all the other players on the team who make us so proud to be fans of this team.
by Andrew
Jun 3, 2008 6:22 PM
I guess you cant control idiots who just believe everything they read and hear, such as John Romano and half the poeple who have commented.
by Michael
Jun 3, 2008 6:22 PM
And Matt! you must be watching the wrong team because Jeremy had 4 TD's last year.
Martha we don't need you as a fan. Since you only have been along for the ride since they got better! Get the hell off the bandwagon and go cheer for some other team
by Andew
Jun 3, 2008 6:22 PM
Let's all face it, John Romano did absolutely no research at all on Stevens. Read the piece from the seattle times and read the legal documents they provide and you will see they filled in a hell of a lot of blanks. Guilty til proven innocent?
by Cliff
Jun 3, 2008 6:20 PM
WOW. Thats strong. I will not condone any of that behavior, but will fall in line with holding a person accountable for their actions. I think he has behaved, and taken personal responsibility for his actions. He is a Buc and I'm a Buc fan. GO BUCS
by Alex
Jun 3, 2008 6:19 PM
Mr. Romano, your journalistic standards are low. Yes, Stevens is an irresponsible, reckless, embarrasing citizen who probably shouldn't be paid to play football. But to imply he's guilty of rape, without the slightest evidence, is despicable at best.
by Steve
Jun 3, 2008 6:18 PM
This piece seems more of an indictment of John Romano than Jerramy Stevens...
by Alan
Jun 3, 2008 4:59 PM
Call Jerramy what you will, but im ashamed with the accusations towards our team with this article. It's as we should feel so disgusted with our team, we should disown them and because, I dont know, Jag fans! We DO have great players here. Go Bucs!
by Gunner
Jun 3, 2008 4:57 PM
Where was all the fuss when they initially signed him? I'm not defending him, I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy, especially by the fair weathered...
by Snook
Jun 3, 2008 4:03 PM
Give me a break. If the Bucs had passed on this guy and someone else signed him, you'd be bashing the FO for letting him go.
by Snook
Jun 3, 2008 4:03 PM
How long ago did Stevens do that stuff? I guess people don't deserve second chances.
by mkurbo
Jun 3, 2008 3:09 PM
I?m once again embarrassed by the media in this town. This is the third time around for the character assassination on J. Stevens. Did he have more than his share of past indiscretions ? Yes. Did the Bucs stipulate what they expected of him when they brought him to Tampa ? Yes. Has he done what was expected of him ? Yes. Get off his freaking back?
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