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Troubled Armwood football player spends the night in jail

By Eduardo A. Encina, Justin George, Andrew Meacham and Keith Niebuhr, Times Staff Writers
In print: Wednesday, September 17, 2008


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SEFFNER — Two Fridays ago, Armwood's Dykerius Cross caught the winning touchdown in this season's most anticipated high school game. A national television audience took notice, seeing the same promise college coaches had seen away from the cameras.

"Every college that came in here wanted to know who No. 81 was," coach Sean Callahan said.

But the 18-year-old's personal life was less spectacular. Cross was arrested Tuesday for the second time in three weeks, accused of breaking into Seffner homes in search of a place to sleep. In the first case, he told a deputy his aunt had kicked him out of their Star Pointe Drive residence.

His relatives said that wasn't true, that Cross, a senior at Armwood, had stayed away from home by choice.

"He's not a child," said one of his aunts, Lothia Cross. "He does what he wants to do."

Cross lost his mother to epilepsy when he was 18 months old. Days later, his grandmother and a neighbor found the toddler dehydrated and alone in an apartment with her remains, the Albany (Ga.) Herald reported on July 23, 1991.

"This is what I have lived with for the last 18 years," his grandmother, Anna Cross, said Tuesday, clutching a news account of the incident.

Her grandson sat in the Orient Road Jail late Tuesday, held on $8,000 bond. He had also been removed from the football team.

Dykerius Cross declined to speak to a reporter.

He was first arrested on the afternoon of Aug. 24, after a deputy found him inside 721 Star Pointe Drive in Seffner, an occupied home three houses away from the Cross home. He had climbed through an unlocked window to get out of the rain. He was asleep on the living room floor, Hillsborough County Sheriff's spokeswoman Debbie Carter said.

Tuesday deputies arrested Cross again. They said he pried open a sliding glass door at 402 Maple Pointe Drive in Seffner and slept there between July 28 and Aug. 13 while the home's owner was away. When the owners returned, Carter said, they found clothing and other items.

The charges Cross faces — suspicion of trespassing, second-degree felony burglary and criminal mischief — typically draw only probation or a diversion program, particularly if it's a first-time offense. Prosecutors had not received information about the latest arrest on Tuesday, Assistant State Attorney Pam Bondi said.

Cross was in his second year at Armwood and second season on the football team after moving to Florida from Georgia as a sophomore. He had never played any sport before arriving at Armwood.

As Armwood began a season of state title hopes with a 9-2 victory over rival Plant on Sept. 5, the lanky 6-foot-5 wide receiver emerged to make the game's most pivotal play, catching the only touchdown.

"We are proud of him," said uncle Kilmon Cross.

Dykerius Cross entered the season as top returning receiver for a school that won Class 4A state titles in 2003 and '04 and is poised to win another. Rivals.com ranks Armwood No. 2 in the nation, and USA Today has the Hawks sixth nationally.

Callahan believed Cross had the potential to play in college, describing him as "a differencemaker" on the field. Callahan tried his best to get Cross to join the camaraderie of the team, but Cross was hesitant to ask for help. On Monday, a day before his arrest, Callahan removed Cross from the team.

"It's not out of discipline," Callahan said. "It was so he can get his life back in order. … I'm someone who likes challenges. I hate to lose. But I feel bad. I feel like I lost one."

It's not unusual for students to lack permanent homes. Linda Cobbe, spokeswoman for Hillsborough County Schools, estimated there are about 500 homeless students in the district, although most belong to homeless families.

Mike Levine, coordinator of social services for Hillsborough County Schools, said many homeless students can barely stay in school let alone participate in sports.

"When you have a child who's living on their own but they're still able to come to school and participate and do the things other kids are doing, it really shows they've got something special — that they are able to overcome certain barriers," Levine said. "But eventually, something's gotta give."

Lane McLaughlin, a former Jefferson assistant who now coaches Carrollwood Day School, recalled the Dragons once having a player who bounced from house to house, living with several teammates and even his girlfriend.

"His parents didn't care," McLaughlin said. "His dad threw him out of the car on the interstate one night while they were going through downtown Tampa. He just left him."

Robinson coach Mike DePue said local coaches often dig into their pockets to help out student-athletes.

"I'd take kids home at night and go, 'Oh, my God, how do these kids get up every morning and go to school?' " DePue said. "Some of these kids, you don't know where they sleep at night. It's a tragedy that these things happen."

Times news researcher John Martin and staff writers Colleen Jenkins, Jessica Vander Velde and Kim Wilmath contributed to this report.



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Comments on this article
by perstephanie Sep 18, 2008 6:54 AM
Its a shame that he has to go to school not knowing where he is goin to sleep at night or if he is goin 2 have something eat but it does seem like he was homeless he was always happy nice and caring
by OK SO DO SOMETHING Sep 18, 2008 6:53 AM
ENOUGH HAND RINGING - ARMWOOD WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO FOR THIS STUDENT AND STAR ATHLETE THAT NEEDS YOUR HELP? CALLAHAN YOU ARE A DIRTBAG.
by mj Sep 18, 2008 6:52 AM
coach turner has kicked a kid off the team inthe pass until they have returned home, the kid wanted to play so he got his life in order returned, finished out the season, went on to play in college,so cross can make a come back but still need subport
by mj Sep 17, 2008 5:48 PM
thanks for the research. the blog report about this is horrible, next time do a little more research before report this to the public. but i hope this young man can over come this and begain classes and football soon
by Kim Sep 17, 2008 5:46 PM
Dykerius,you are in my prayers. I made some calls today to see about getting some legal help for you. Listen people; staying in extended family situations create all kinds of dynamics. NO ONE looks after a child like their own mother or father would.
by debbie Sep 17, 2008 4:51 PM
As a mother of an Armwood student my heart goes out to Dykerius. There has to be more to why he is homeless, but as a community, teachers and parents of Armwood HS there should be something we can do. We just can not give up on him.
by BRIGID Sep 17, 2008 4:49 PM
AFTER READING THIS STORY, I AM TRULY SADDEN, SOMETHING IS SERIOUSLY WRONG. LOOK OR INVESTIGATION INTO THIS YOUNG MANS LIFE AND HELP HIM.THIS YOUNG MAN IS REACHING OUT FOR HELP AND NOONE IS PAYING ANY ATTENTION.WE CAN'T LET HIM FALL THROUGH THE CRACKS
by delores Sep 17, 2008 1:54 PM
WOW i think as a community we should help this young man, I have three boys and I hope they can stand by them selves like this young man did. Please keep us posted so we can help.
by Gregg Sep 17, 2008 11:31 AM
You all seem to have skipped over the statements from his family members-especially the grandmother's. Sounds like he's been trouble to them, just not known publicly. Don't be so quick to trash the coach-he has 50 other kids to worry about, too.
by PASCO PETE Sep 17, 2008 11:31 AM
The problem is he is 18 legal age. He sounds like a young man who wants to do well in life but he is lost. What good is kicking him off the team this is giving him something now they just gave him free time to be on the streets. IDIOTS!!
by Christina Sep 17, 2008 11:31 AM
Okay Coach, he's been there for you, & your team, it's time for you to be there for him. Maybe he needs you in a differant way, rather than being coached on the field, he needs to be coached in LIFE. Having heart works both ways.
by B Sep 17, 2008 11:31 AM
The lost of a mother's love at the age of only 18 months - this student is looking for love and support from his family, teachers friends etc. The court, school and his family should be held responsible for his actions because they left him out there
by Angela Sep 17, 2008 11:30 AM
This young man needs assistance, not jail time. It shows by his actions that he is attempting to keep his life on track. He should receive support and not be destroyed.
by JAE Sep 17, 2008 11:29 AM
Face it Coach, you "released" him because he can't practice while in jail, and can't produce for the team due to personal problems, which you are doing nothing to help with. He helps you, why can't you help him. You sound like a Gruden wanna-be.
by TEAMMATES - YEAH RIGHT Sep 17, 2008 9:15 AM
Callahan said: "We released him from the team, not because of discipline... so he can get his life in order," [OUT ON THE STREETS] We hope he gets his life right[IN JAIL].This is very troubling to me.[BUT I'M NOT TROUBLED ENOUGH TO HELP] SOME TEAM
by Rob Sep 17, 2008 9:14 AM
Way to go Callahan...so focused on winning and recruiting. How about you focus on saving kids instead. Your a disgrace to highschool kid coaching.
by Carla Sep 17, 2008 9:13 AM
Am I missing something? I don't understand why he was released from the team. Maybe that was all he had to keep him going. Now he doesn't even have that. This a truly sad story..wow!
by concerned Sep 17, 2008 9:11 AM
ok, lets rally the troops and help this kid out. we cant let this one fall through the cracks, he can be saved. we have to find out what can be done to salvage yet another dedicated, talented young man. please, will somebody step up and help him out!
by Kelly Sep 17, 2008 9:11 AM
Do you think this helps this kid to let everyone know his business and that he had nowhere to sleep? Way to make it harder on him at school...
by Pasco Mom Sep 17, 2008 9:04 AM
Prayers for Dykerius. Wish I had room for him here. He doesnt sound like a criminal to me, just a kid trying to find a safe place to sleep. He keeps going BACK to school. The system is pathetic.
by Bobbie Sep 17, 2008 9:03 AM
I think it's horriable how children are thrown away by their parents or caregivers.That is not an option. We are to be there for our children for better or worse.
by Josh Sep 17, 2008 9:03 AM
Cue the haters. Spew your hate, haters! Aim it at an 18-year old.
by Reggie Sep 17, 2008 9:03 AM
D. Cross will bounce back. The kid is hurting for love and support.
by Bill Sep 17, 2008 9:01 AM
My GoD WHAT HAS THIS COUNTRY COME TO? WE SEEM TO HAVE UNLIMITED FUNDS FOR DESTROYING LIFE AND WAR, BUT CHILDREN TRYING TO GO TO SCHOOL ARE HOMELESS?? I LOVE MY COUNTRY AND I'M A VET. BUT THIS MAKES ME SO ASHAMED.MY PRAYERS TO THIS YOUNG MAN.
by Rick Sep 17, 2008 9:00 AM
I would never goto a shelter. I started as day labor up north, from under a tree to working for the state. What saved me was that my time in the service came to my aid. The first thing I did every freezing morn was to shave. It's a sin of no family.
by Rick Sep 17, 2008 9:00 AM
When I hear of these realities, I wonder a lot. I was made homeless by a divorce & a typical Florida BS artist that only wanted a room mate for money to move. The shortened story was I went north and searched for shelter. My family left me to die.
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