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Weddings wash island of "hatred, fear'

Published Feb. 15, 2006

The wind-swept island where Nelson Mandela was imprisoned was the site of romance Tuesday as 22 couples were married in a Valentine's Day ceremony.

The weddings stand as testimony to the government's determination to make Robben Island - a symbol of fear and hatred during the apartheid era - into a monument to love and reconciliation in the new democratic South Africa.

"We chose Robben Island because you only get married once in your life and we wanted it to be a very special occasion," said Mario Pare, a native of Quebec, who was tying the knot with his South African fiance, Jacqui Middlewick.

A homeless couple and a pair infected with the AIDS virus were among those exchanging vows and fumbling for rings in the ceremony in the small chapel that was used to pray for the sick in the days when the island was a leper colony.

Balloons inscribed "I love you" and cupids hung on chapel walls. Busloads of tourists looked on as the couples posed for photographs after the ceremony.

And, just for a day, Verona Kawie and Samuel Williams were able to forget the squalor of their tiny shack and their grinding poverty and celebrate in style.

The pair, together for 12 years, discovered six years ago they were HIV positive. Their AIDS counselor encouraged them to get married and made contact with the Home Affairs department responsible for the ceremony.

"It feels wonderful," said Williams, 57, as he emerged from the chapel into the bright sunlight. "Wonderful," echoed his 39-year-old wife as she gazed into his eyes and gave him a toothless smile.

They had to scramble to borrow clothes for their special day and couldn't afford a ring, but said they didn't care. A charity covered the cost of the $24 boat journey, and the ceremony was free.

Patrick Chauke, chairman of Parliament's Home Affairs portfolio committee, said that next year, homosexual couples would be invited after a constitutional court ruling that same-sex marriages should be legalized.

"If I were to get married again to my wife, I would definitely do it here because it is such a special place for South Africans," Chauke told the congregation crowded into the chapel.

More than 100 couples have been married in the Valentine's Day ceremonies since they started in 2000.

"Valentine's Day is a day of love, peace and happiness and represents Robben Island of today," said Home Affairs spokesman Mantshele wa ga Tau. "In the past it was a place of hatred, fear and incarceration."

The wedding party was taken on the 7-mile trip from Cape Town in one of the boats used to transport warders to the prison island where African National Congress leader and Nobel Peace Prize laureate Mandela was incarcerated for 14 of the 27 years he spent behind bars.

The island was declared a national museum in 1997 and each year attracts more than 300,000 visitors, who are shown around by former prisoners.

For Valencia Daniels, dressed in a white wedding dress, it was her first trip.

"It's great, fantastic," she enthused. "And very, very romantic."