A husband or wife with a debilitating illness can hasten your own death, a study suggests.
The researchers blame the stress and the loss of companionship, practical help, income and other support that can occur when a spouse gets sick.
"You can die of a broken heart not just when a partner dies, but when your partner falls ill," said the chief researcher, Dr. Nicholas Christakis at Harvard Medical School.
The study at Harvard and the University of Pennsylvania appears in the New England Journal of Medicine. The research, backed by the National Institutes of Health, analyzed Medicare records from a representative national sample of 518,240 elderly couples over nine years.
Past research has shown that the spouses of sick people face higher risks of illness and death themselves - a phenomenon sometimes called the "caregiver burden" or the "bereavement effect." But this study examined an extraordinarily large group of couples and also quantified the risk associated with a range of illnesses.
It found that the risk is considerable: Men were 4.5 percent more likely than usual to die on any given day after their wives were hospitalized; women with sick husbands were almost 3 percent more likely to die.
If the sick spouse dies, the partner's risk of death - whether from accidents, suicide, infections or pre-existing conditions, such as diabetes - shoots up fivefold, rising by 21 percent for men and 17 percent for women, the researchers said.
The partner's death risks were especially high in the six months after the spouse was hospitalized for a severely disabling problem.